{"id":11607,"date":"2023-11-30T00:02:04","date_gmt":"2023-11-30T00:02:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nguoi-me-45-tuoi-do-thac-si-tuoi-tac-khong-phai-cai-co-de-tri-hoan-chi-khi-lam-duoc-dieu-nay-ban-moi-tim-duoc-cuoc-song-nhu-mo.html"},"modified":"2023-12-21T21:02:34","modified_gmt":"2023-12-21T14:02:34","slug":"nguoi-me-45-tuoi-do-thac-si-tuoi-tac-khong-phai-cai-co-de-tri-hoan-chi-khi-lam-duoc-dieu-nay-ban-moi-tim-duoc-cuoc-song-nhu-mo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nguoi-me-45-tuoi-do-thac-si-tuoi-tac-khong-phai-cai-co-de-tri-hoan-chi-khi-lam-duoc-dieu-nay-ban-moi-tim-duoc-cuoc-song-nhu-mo.html","title":{"rendered":"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 45 tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ed7 th\u1ea1c s\u0129: Tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1i c\u1edb \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n, ch\u1ec9 khi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u01a1"},"content":{"rendered":"
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    M\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, m\u1ed9t t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng Douban \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 phi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Theo \u0111\u00f3, b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 (45 tu\u1ed5i) \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh ra kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian \u00edt \u1ecfi trong ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u1edbi nguy\u1ec7n v\u1ecdng l\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng th\u1ea1c s\u0129. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 thi v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f3a nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u sinh c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Tr\u00f9ng Kh\u00e1nh (Trung Qu\u1ed1c).<\/p>\n

    Ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u1edf tu\u1ed5i t\u1ee9 tu\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9. L\u1ea5y h\u1ecdc v\u1ea5n l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e2n l\u00fd:\u00a0Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9.<\/b><\/p>\n

    V\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u00e0 sau m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh v\u00e0i gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf b\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0. Sau \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0o b\u00e0n h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1eeb 20h cho \u0111\u1ebfn khuya.<\/p>\n

    N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh thi th\u1ea1c s\u0129, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 chia s\u1ebb:\u00a0“Gi\u00e0 r\u1ed3i n\u00ean tr\u00ed nh\u1edb c\u0169ng k\u00e9m h\u01a1n, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u1ebfp thu ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ph\u1ea3i n\u00e2ng cao”.<\/i><\/p>\n

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    C\u00f4 con g\u00e1i cho bi\u1ebft, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 m\u1eb9 c\u00f4 b\u1ecb tr\u00f3i bu\u1ed9c \u1edf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng b\u00e0 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. Theo \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f4 g\u00e1i t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 m\u00ecnh. \u00dd ch\u00ed ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u cho l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 g\u00e1i nh\u1eadn ra:\u00a0Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi lu\u00f4n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng cho m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/b><\/p>\n

    L\u00fd Ngao \u2013 m\u1ed9t t\u00e1c gia ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u00e0i Loan t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: L\u00fac b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n qu\u00e1 gi\u00e0 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m th\u00ec c\u1ee9 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

    Ch\u1ec9 khi kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u00fd ngh\u0129a nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec h\u00e3y n\u1eb1m l\u00f2ng 2 \u0111i\u1ec1u sau:<\/p>\n

    1. C\u1ea3nh gi\u00e1c v\u1edbi “xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c”<\/h3>\n

    B\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 lu\u00f4n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. M\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0: Trong m\u1ed9t v\u1ee5 c\u00e1 c\u01b0\u1ee3c, t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 th\u1eafng v\u00e0 thua \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 nhau, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, nh\u01b0ng \u0111a s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd tham gia v\u00ec s\u1ee3 thua.<\/p>\n

    Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u1ed7, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00e2m l\u00fd tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t. Hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng “\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c” v\u00e0 “m\u1ea5t” \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 nhau, nh\u01b0ng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi c\u00e1i “m\u1ea5t” h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

    Nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fac, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m th\u1eed s\u1ee9c, \u0111\u00e1nh c\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1eb7c ch\u01a1i li\u1ec1u v\u00ec s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng cho \u0111i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

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    Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n, c\u00f3 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 x\u1ea5u. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n g\u1eb7p qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n xui x\u1ebbo th\u00ec h\u00e3y suy ng\u1eabm l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh: Li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 b\u1ecb xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c “d\u1eaft m\u0169i” hay kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 b\u1ecb l\u00e0m qu\u00e1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 hay kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng hay m\u00e0 b\u1ecf l\u01a1 \u0111i nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1ee5n v\u1eb7t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hay kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

    Thay v\u00ec lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea5t th\u00ec h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 th\u00e0nh hay b\u1ea1i, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

    2. Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/h3>\n

    Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng l\u00e0 c\u0103n nguy\u00ean t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh tinh th\u1ea7n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 d\u0169ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00f4ng pha, \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u00e0 ch\u00f4ng gai.<\/p>\n

    C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 thi th\u1ea1c s\u0129 \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 45 tr\u00ean. V\u00ec tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00ean c\u00f4 m\u1edbi v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u1ea1n h\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. C\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn thu l\u1ea1i c\u00e1i t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec3 vun v\u00e9n cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u1edf n\u1eeda \u0111\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd ch\u00ed n\u0103m n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ea9ng cao \u0111\u1ea7u trong n\u1eeda \u0111\u1eddi v\u1ec1 sau.<\/p>\n

    Th\u1eadt ra, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1ed5 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eabn nh\u1ecbn s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 mong mu\u1ed1n. \u0110\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn c\u0169ng ta \u0111\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc nguy\u1ec7n n\u0103m x\u01b0a th\u00ec h\u00e3y tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng n\u1eafm l\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

    Tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi mu\u00f4n m\u00e0u mu\u00f4n v\u1ebb. Ni\u1ec1m tin ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

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