{"id":11637,"date":"2023-11-29T17:17:59","date_gmt":"2023-11-29T17:17:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/noi-am-anh-mong-muon-lam-sep-o-tuoi-35-la-nhu-the-nao.html"},"modified":"2023-12-11T11:53:48","modified_gmt":"2023-12-11T11:53:48","slug":"noi-am-anh-mong-muon-lam-sep-o-tuoi-35-la-nhu-the-nao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/noi-am-anh-mong-muon-lam-sep-o-tuoi-35-la-nhu-the-nao.html","title":{"rendered":"N\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh mong mu\u1ed1n \u201cl\u00e0m s\u1ebfp\u201d \u1edf tu\u1ed5i 35 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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    35 tu\u1ed5i, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 13 n\u0103m sau khi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eeb n\u0103m 22 tu\u1ed5i. Li\u1ec7u l\u00e0m nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean l\u00e2u nay m\u00e0 l\u1ed9 tr\u00ecnh th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn c\u00f2n \u00ec \u1ea1ch, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ch\u00ed chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u? Tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

    Tuy l\u1edbp tr\u1ebb ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng gi\u1ecfi nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1ef1c l\u01b0\u1ee3ng lao \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00ean ti\u1ebfn v\u00e0 tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c cho h\u1ecd. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i th\u00eam, c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u00eanh l\u1ec7ch v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean 35 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean tr\u1ebb trung xinh \u0111\u1eb9p \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 20.<\/p>\n

    X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p tu\u1ed5i 35<\/b><\/p>\n

    Lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0o. Quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u1eafm b\u1eaft nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng. \u0110\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 t\u00edch l\u0169y cho s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.\u00a0N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 mong mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t \u00f4ng ch\u1ee7, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean khi v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t thi\u1ec7t th\u00f2i v\u00ec m\u00e3i d\u1eadm ch\u00e2n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7.<\/p>\n

    \u0110\u00e2u m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n? N\u1ebfu c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1eb7t ra n\u0103m b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n 20 tu\u1ed5i, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111am m\u00ea ho\u00e0i b\u00e3o, mong mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm cho m\u00ecnh con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ri\u00eang, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u00e2n tr\u1eddi m\u1edbi.\u00a0John chia s\u1ebb “T\u00f4i v\u00e0 4 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n t\u1eeb h\u1ed3i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0m qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd, s\u1ebfp nh\u1ecf, s\u1ebfp l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ee7 c\u1ea3. Ba m\u01b0\u01a1i ba con th\u00e0nh l\u1eadp gia s\u1ea3n ri\u00eang. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 ra c\u1ed9t m\u1ed1c, v\u00e0 h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n n\u0103m th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. C\u00f9ng nhau t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

    N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n 35 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean, \u0111\u1eebng mong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u1edf c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i “t\u1ee9 tu\u1ea7n”. B\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u00f4 v\u00e0n nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u1ed3n l\u1ea1i \u1edf tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y: mua nh\u00e0, x\u00e2y nh\u00e0, nu\u00f4i con h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n

    \u0110\u00e2u m\u1edbi l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n s\u00e2u xa?<\/b><\/p>\n

    C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quen v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u00fd do ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u00e0 s\u1eeda l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 35.\u00a0C\u00f3 v\u00f4 v\u00e0n l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb sao nh\u00e3ng v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1ee3t kh\u1ecfi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

    B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n?<\/h3>\n

    Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 si\u00eang n\u0103ng, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 m\u00e0 tu\u00e2n theo c\u00e1c quy t\u1eafc v\u00e0 gi\u1eef nguy\u00ean nh\u01b0 v\u1eady trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb l\u1ea1c h\u1eadu.\u00a0C\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7, ki\u1ebfn \u200b\u200bth\u1ee9c v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c 2 gi\u1edd h\u00f4m nay, 1 gi\u1edd ng\u00e0y mai v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 30 ph\u00fat v\u00e0o tu\u1ea7n t\u1edbi s\u1ebd hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n d\u1eadm ch\u00e2n t\u1ea1i ch\u1ed7, h\u00e3y ph\u00e2n b\u1ed5 th\u1eddi gian cho t\u1eebng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5.<\/p>\n

    B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, xem tin t\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n? \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1edbi, b\u1eaft tay v\u00e0o l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

    B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac?<\/h3>\n

    N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, v\u00e0 b\u00e1n th\u00eam h\u00e0ng h\u00f3a, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o. H\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

    Trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng l\u00fac, ch\u1ed3ng ch\u00e9o l\u00ean nhau th\u00ec k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 h\u00e0ng lo\u1ea1t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c d\u1edf dang.\u00a0Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ed3ng ch\u00e9o m\u00e0 c\u00f2n d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb k\u1eb9t \u1edf m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n.<\/p>\n

    B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi s\u1eeda s\u1ef1 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n?<\/h3>\n

    Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra l\u00fd do h\u1ee3p l\u00fd nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eddi th\u1eddi gian th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u2013 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ngay h\u00f4m nay v\u00e0 ng\u00e0y mai.\u00a0B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nghi\u00eam t\u00fac. H\u00e3y ng\u1eebng tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n.<\/p>\n

    “Hi\u1ec3u t\u00e2m l\u00fd \u0111\u1eb1ng sau s\u1ef1 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u00f3” \u2013 chuy\u00ean gia Jessica Mudditt chia s\u1ebb<\/p>\n

    L\u00fd do cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m l\u00e0 d\u00f9 c\u00f3 ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u th\u00ec b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u00e2n s\u00e1ch th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 nhau. T\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng di chuy\u1ec3n? S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian.<\/p>\n

    B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1eaft tay v\u1edbi c\u1ea9m nang thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, ai c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian, l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi th\u00e2n ph\u1eadn d\u1eadm ch\u00e2n b\u1ea5y l\u00e2u, ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n, chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

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    \n N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n 35 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean, \u0111\u1eebng mong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u1edf c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i “t\u1ee9 tu\u1ea7n”.
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