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    Th\u1eddi k\u1ef3 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p ra tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 \u0111ang b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u201c\u00e1c m\u1ed9ng\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi sinh vi\u00ean. H\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p \u00e1p l\u1ef1c, th\u1ee9c tr\u1eafng \u0111\u00eam v\u00ec lo ngh\u0129 cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Nh\u00ecn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh su\u00f4n s\u1ebb \u0111i th\u1eed vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng ty, t\u1eadp \u0111o\u00e0n l\u1edbn, ho\u1eb7c t\u1eadp trung \u00f4n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc l\u00ean c\u00e1c v\u0103n b\u1eb1ng cao h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau v\u00e0 k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, n\u1ed7i b\u1ea5t an trong l\u00f2ng l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. Ch\u00ednh n\u1ed7i b\u1ea5t an \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u01b0a x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u1edf n\u00ean hoang mang, lo ngh\u0129 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t sinh vi\u00ean chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00f4ng tin tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ty l\u1edbn trong ng\u00e0nh. Thay v\u00ec nhanh ch\u00f3ng n\u1eafm b\u1eaft c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, c\u1eadu ta l\u1ea1i lo l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i\u1ec1u.<\/span><\/p>\n

    \u201cCV c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ec9?\u201d<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

    \u201cPh\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u1eafc l\u00e0 kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t l\u1eafm. Nh\u1ee1 m\u00ecnh h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p qu\u00e1 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi t\u1ed1t th\u00ec sao?\u201d<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

    \u201cLi\u1ec7u k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

    \u201cM\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ea1nh tranh c\u00f3 cao qu\u00e1 kh\u00f4ng?\u201d<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n

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    \u0110\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai kh\u00f4ng x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh, s\u1ef1 h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 b\u0103n kho\u0103n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn. Ch\u00ednh qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn cho ta c\u00e0ng th\u00eam r\u1ed1i tr\u00ed v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng h\u01a1n. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Nh\u01b0 doanh nh\u00e2n gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi M\u1ef9, Waite Phillips t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c xem x\u00e9t hay c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tai h\u1ea1i.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

    N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 m\u00e3i b\u0103n kho\u0103n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c, c\u00f3 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p cho v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u1ee9ng tuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng m\u00e0 ch\u1ea7n ch\u1eeb kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m n\u1ed9p CV, anh ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3. <\/span><\/p>\n

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    Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: “M\u1ed9t suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng m\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng”.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

    C\u00e0ng \u1edf v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng, ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. Nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u00edch h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Disraeli, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 v\u0103n, nh\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb Anh \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i: \u201cCu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi qu\u00e1 ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian x\u00e9t n\u00e9t nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1ee5n v\u1eb7t.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

    C\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m, suy ngh\u0129 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u00edch. <\/span><\/p>\n

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    C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t n\u1eef nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng 30 tu\u1ed5i, hi\u1ec7n \u0111ang c\u00f4ng t\u00e1c cho m\u1ed9t doanh nghi\u1ec7p nh\u1ecf k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc. Sau nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t, th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean x\u1ea3y ra x\u00edch m\u00edch l\u1edbn nh\u1ecf. <\/span><\/p>\n

    \u0110\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u1ea3m \u0111\u1ea1m n\u00e0y, c\u00f4 h\u1ea1 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c \u00f4n luy\u1ec7n thi l\u1ea5y ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ec9 CPA, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebf to\u00e1n vi\u00ean l\u00e0nh ngh\u1ec1 r\u1ed3i chuy\u1ec3n sang m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng ty l\u1edbn \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u01a1n. M\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u0103ng nh\u1eadt k\u00fd c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ghi l\u1ea1i qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y l\u00ean m\u1ea1ng, c\u00f9ng nh\u1edd c\u01b0 d\u00e2n m\u1ea1ng d\u00f5i theo v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ea7u, b\u00e0i \u0111\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt li\u00ean t\u1ee5c cho th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y. C\u01b0 d\u00e2n m\u1ea1ng c\u0169ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u1eafn khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch c\u00f4.<\/span><\/p>\n

    Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng, s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u00e0i c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u00edt d\u1ea7n \u0111i. C\u00f3 khi, c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u00eam tin t\u1ee9c g\u00ec.<\/span><\/p>\n

    B\u1eb5ng \u0111i h\u1ed3i l\u00e2u, khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i \u0111\u0103ng b\u00e0i, th\u00ec n\u1ed9i dung c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0: “H\u1ecdc thi CPA qu\u00e1 kh\u00f3 r\u1ed3i, ch\u1eafc thi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i. M\u00e0 d\u00f9 c\u00f3 thi \u0111\u1ed7 \u0111i n\u1eefa c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 xin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o c\u00f4ng ty mong mu\u1ed1n. Tranh ch\u1ea5p v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p th\u00ec nh\u1ecbn m\u1ed9t l\u00fac l\u00e0 xong. Gi\u1edd m\u00e0 \u0111i n\u01a1i kh\u00e1c, ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u01b0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd”.<\/span><\/p>\n

    T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/span><\/p>\n

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    \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do m\u00e0 t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa Jack Ma t\u1eebng c\u00f3 l\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng: \u201cR\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ebd n\u00ean h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0o ban \u0111\u00eam, c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ebfn khi th\u1ee9c d\u1eady v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng, h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111i v\u1ec1 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ban \u0111\u1ea7u.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n

    \u0110\u1ea1i \u0111a s\u1ed1 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 ra r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh kinh doanh t\u00e1o b\u1ea1o, m\u1ed9t d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o hay m\u1ed9t m\u1ed9t s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i ban \u0111\u1ea7u, b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u00f3. <\/span><\/p>\n

    C\u00f3 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 con s\u1ed1 kh\u00f4ng.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

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    Trong t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 Rumination (t\u1ea1m hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 t\u01b0 duy nhai l\u1ea1i), n\u1eb1m trong nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u201cEffects of self-focused rumination on negative thinking and interpersonal problem solving\u201d c\u1ee7a hai chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd l\u00e0 Lyubomirsky, S., & Nolen-Hoeksema, S. (1995). <\/span><\/p>\n

    N\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp t\u1edbi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng suy ng\u1eabm l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, sau \u0111\u00f3 quy k\u1ebft nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 d\u1ef1a theo ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u01b0 duy ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, l\u00e0m sai l\u1ec7ch b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c ban \u0111\u1ea7u. <\/span><\/p>\n

    Hay n\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 nh\u1ea5n ch\u00ecm b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c th\u00ec ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd quay ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y l\u00fd tr\u00ed v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, ph\u00f3ng \u0111\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c bu\u1ed3n b\u00e3, lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m trong l\u00f2ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

    C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, thay v\u00ec l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 b\u0103n kho\u0103n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u, h\u00e3y nhanh ch\u00f3ng \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai \u1edf ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u hay \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

    Nh\u00e0 v\u0103n Nh\u1eadt B\u1ea3n Matsuura Yataro t\u1eebng chia s\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng:<\/span><\/p>\n

    Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay lo \u0111\u1ec1u m\u1eafc m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a bi\u1ebft \u1edf t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. \u0110\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u01b0 duy theo m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c kh\u00e1c m\u1ed7i khi g\u1eb7p v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. H\u00e3y gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u1edf hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, x\u1eed l\u00fd nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t sinh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eb7t to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n \u201cc\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra\u201d trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai ng\u00e0y mai, ng\u00e0y kia, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c m\u01b0\u1eddi n\u0103m n\u1eefa.<\/span><\/p>\n

    T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i s\u1ebd \u0111em l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 tr\u1ef1c quan h\u01a1n l\u00e0 c\u1ee9 lo ngh\u0129 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u00e0y mai s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec. Lo l\u1eafng \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u00edch, l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian.<\/span><\/p>\n

    N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, h\u00e3y b\u01b0\u1edbc ra b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi \u0111\u1eb7t ch\u00e2n v\u00e0o b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ee9 hai. Suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u201cc\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e8n ch\u1ea1y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u00f4 t\u00f4\u201d m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n song h\u00e0nh c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. C\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, m\u1ed7i b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1edbi tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc h\u01a1n. <\/span><\/p>\n

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    \n Th\u00f3i quen quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng. Suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 b\u0103n kho\u0103n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, suy ngh\u0129 nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m c\u1ef1c \u00edt ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o ng\u00f5 c\u1ee5t.
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