{"id":19454,"date":"2023-12-05T13:25:38","date_gmt":"2023-12-05T13:25:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/co-doc-huong-ngoai-la-gi-co-doc-huong-ngoai-tot-hay-xau.html"},"modified":"2023-12-22T04:50:00","modified_gmt":"2023-12-21T21:50:00","slug":"co-doc-huong-ngoai-la-gi-co-doc-huong-ngoai-tot-hay-xau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/co-doc-huong-ngoai-la-gi-co-doc-huong-ngoai-tot-hay-xau.html","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u0110\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1ea5t h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i, d\u1ec5 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t kh\u1ecfi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i. V\u1eady c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng Masterskillst\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u00e9.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 l\u00e0m r\u00f5 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u201c<\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i l\u00e0 g\u00ec<\/strong>\u201d, tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong> c\u00f3 t\u00ean khoa h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 Outgoing Autism, hay c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi t\u00ean g\u1ecdi kh\u00e1c – \u201ct\u1ef1 k\u1ef7 h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i\u201d. H\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y bao g\u1ed3m c\u00e1c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng, c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 t\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh ra kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Hai kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m \u201cc\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c\u201d v\u00e0 \u201ch\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i\u201d ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c nhau, th\u1ebf m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i b\u00ean trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i. <\/span><\/p>\n

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    C\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i l\u00e0 g\u00ec? (Ngu\u1ed3n: Internet)<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

    C\u00e1c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p<\/strong><\/h2>\n

    \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111ang m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong> hay kh\u00f4ng? Li\u1ec7u <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ec7nh<\/strong>? V\u00e0 <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i<\/strong> li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nhau? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y.<\/span><\/p>\n

    \u0110i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i l\u00e0 v\u1eadt b\u1ea5t ly th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/h3>\n

    Chi\u1ebfc \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 \u201ct\u1ea5m l\u00e1 ch\u1eafn\u201d \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y. H\u1ecd lu\u00f4n mang \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i b\u00ean m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat n\u00e0o. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd \u201cb\u1ea3o v\u1ec7\u201d b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c nh\u00e2n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. C\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 h\u01a1n, khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ri\u00eang cho m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ph\u1edbt l\u1edd m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 xung quanh. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u00fa v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i l\u00e0 gi\u00fap nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i g\u01b0\u1ee3ng g\u1ea1o hay gi\u00fap h\u1ecd qu\u00ean \u0111i c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i, b\u01a1 v\u01a1 gi\u1eefa \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng l\u1ea1c l\u00f5ng. <\/span><\/p>\n

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      C\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n mang theo \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i (Ngu\u1ed3n: Internet)<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

      Kh\u00f3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7<\/strong><\/h3>\n

      Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong> c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp c\u00e1c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i m\u1edbi v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh d\u00f9 cho h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng. Nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 do tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng l\u1eafng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ho\u1eb7c b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ef1 ti c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n hay m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c. Ngo\u00e0i ra, nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y c\u00f2n kh\u00e1 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n trong vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp, b\u00e0y t\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 tr\u00ean khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c. <\/span><\/p>\n

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        T\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u201cn\u1eafng m\u01b0a th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n

        Bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u201cn\u1eafng m\u01b0a th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tri\u1ec7u ch\u1ee9ng th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p \u1edf nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong>, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5y \u1edf nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u1eafc c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd nh\u01b0 r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n l\u01b0\u1ee1ng c\u1ef1c, r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m d\u1ea1ng n\u1eb7ng hay r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch ranh gi\u1edbi. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n t\u00e2m l\u00fd th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i, ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, n\u01a1i \u1edf hay tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1edbp. Nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng \u201cn\u1eafng m\u01b0a th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng\u201d r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd d\u1ec5 n\u1ed5i n\u00f3ng, c\u00e1u g\u1eaft v\u00e0 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, th\u1ebf n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 giao ti\u1ebfp hay b\u1eaft chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng thu m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ea3 k\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh.<\/span><\/p>\n

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          Kh\u00f3 b\u1eaft chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1<\/strong><\/h3>\n

          S\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t gi\u1eefa <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i<\/strong> l\u00e0 trong vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n vui v\u1ebb c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1eaft chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i th\u00ec l\u1ea1i kh\u00e9p k\u00edn, h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9 cho \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n quen. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/span> c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong> s\u1ebd giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh t\u00f9y theo t\u1eebng \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e2n quen t\u1eeb l\u00e2u, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i trong vi\u1ec7c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, t\u1ef1 do n\u00f3i l\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u00e1n d\u00f3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 ho\u1eb7c m\u1edbi g\u1eb7p l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e9p m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i, t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u1edd \u01a1 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t, ra v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 kh\u00e1 kh\u00f3 g\u1ea7n. C\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 th\u00e2n quen, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch gi\u1eef ch\u1eebng m\u1ef1c khi giao ti\u1ebfp, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m x\u00fac hay chia s\u1ebb qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u. N\u00f3i chung, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t linh ho\u1ea1t trong giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 \u1ee9ng x\u1eed, h\u1ecd mang trong m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u \u201cb\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t\u201d kh\u00e1c nhau, th\u1ebf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt b\u00ean trong h\u1ecd. <\/span><\/p>\n

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          C\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i kh\u00f3 b\u1eaft chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 (Ngu\u1ed3n: Internet)<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

          D\u1ec5 b\u1ecb chi ph\u1ed1i b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong><\/h3>\n

          Ng\u01b0\u1eddi <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong> r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb chi ph\u1ed1i b\u1edfi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ho\u1eb7c \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1edfi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac hay th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c khi h\u1ecd bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 theo c\u00e1c quy chu\u1ea9n, chu\u1ea9n m\u1ef1c m\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec1 ra. H\u1ecd g\u1eb7p tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean \u0111\u1ea5u tranh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 cho quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh, th\u1ebf n\u00ean h\u1ecd ch\u1ecdn t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 xu\u00f4i theo \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng, ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd mong mu\u1ed1n. <\/span><\/p>\n

          <\/span><\/p>\n

            \n<\/ul>\n

            Hi\u1ec3u chuy\u1ec7n, suy ngh\u0129 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn t\u1eeb s\u1edbm<\/strong><\/h3>\n

            V\u00ec b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t ng\u1ea1i giao ti\u1ebfp n\u00ean ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong> \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch im l\u1eb7ng, quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u201chi\u1ec3u chuy\u1ec7n\u201d ngay t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n b\u00e9. H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c n\u00ean l\u00e0m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m, n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd suy ngh\u0129 r\u1ea5t ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh v\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 xung quanh qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm n\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u1ecd quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngo\u00e0i nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd, th\u1ebf n\u00ean h\u1ecd \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, gi\u1ecfi giang h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn cho h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o khu\u00f4n kh\u1ed5 cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o ra. D\u00f9 cho nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 th\u00edch hay th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m, nh\u01b0ng v\u00ec s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, n\u00ean h\u1ecd bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u1eadt ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ec1u l\u00f2ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. <\/span><\/p>\n

            Th\u01b0\u1eddng ho\u00e0i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/strong><\/h3>\n

            Ngo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 tr\u00ean, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong> th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ho\u00e0i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 s\u1edf th\u00edch tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 khi giao ti\u1ebfp. Thay v\u00ec t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, ho\u1eb7c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng hay nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfc nu\u1ed1i v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c ch\u01b0a k\u1ecbp th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00f4i khi h\u1ecd c\u00f2n l\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m l\u00fd do \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00e1m \u1ea3nh. Nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n l\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u00e1m \u1ea3nh \u1ea5y theo su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. V\u1eady n\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi. <\/span><\/p>\n

            Th\u00edch an \u1ee7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/h3>\n

            Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u1edf tr\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong> bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch suy ngh\u0129 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch quan s\u00e1t m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c xung quanh t\u1eeb khi c\u00f2n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean khi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n xung quanh h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, b\u00e0y t\u1ecf n\u1ed7i l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 xin l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean. Nguy\u00ean do l\u00e0 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong> r\u1ea5t gi\u1ecfi trong vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ef1a v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc m\u1ed7i khi ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea7n. H\u1ecd r\u1ea5t gi\u1ecfi trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i v\u00e0 m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea5u n\u1ed7i bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0o s\u00e2u b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. D\u00f9 cho b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i h\u1ecd t\u1ecf ra r\u1ea5t l\u1ea1c quan vui v\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00f3c y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai.<\/span><\/p>\n

            C\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u, c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh kh\u00f4ng?<\/strong><\/h2>\n

            V\u1eady b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i t\u1ed1t hay x\u1ea5u<\/strong>? Li\u1ec7u <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ec7nh<\/strong> kh\u00f4ng? Th\u1ef1c ra t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 m\u1eb7t t\u1ed1t l\u1eabn m\u1eb7t x\u1ea5u, t\u00f9y theo g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong> l\u00e0m hai tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p:<\/span><\/p>\n

              \n<\/ul>\n

              \nNgo\u00e0i nh\u1eefng nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i hay h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p, Masterskillsmong r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u00eam \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin h\u1eefu \u00edch v\u1ec1 nh\u00f3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi <\/span>c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/strong> th\u00f4ng qua b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft tr\u00ean. D\u00f9 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 nh\u00f3m t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o th\u00ec c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 mang m\u00e0u s\u1eafc ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng. <\/span><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

              \u0110\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1ea5t h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i, d\u1ec5 h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1ea1i mu\u1ed1n t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t kh\u1ecfi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n m\u1eafc h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9ng c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i. V\u1eady c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i l\u00e0 g\u00ec? C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng Masterskillst\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u00e9.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[431],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19454"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19454"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19454\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19454"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19454"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19454"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}