{"id":19961,"date":"2023-12-05T13:54:19","date_gmt":"2023-12-05T13:54:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/mach-nho-ban-nu-nghe-thuat-giao-tiep-qua-nhung-thoi-quen-hang-ngay.html"},"modified":"2023-12-22T04:52:20","modified_gmt":"2023-12-21T21:52:20","slug":"mach-nho-ban-nu-nghe-thuat-giao-tiep-qua-nhung-thoi-quen-hang-ngay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/mach-nho-ban-nu-nghe-thuat-giao-tiep-qua-nhung-thoi-quen-hang-ngay.html","title":{"rendered":"M\u00e1ch nh\u1ecf b\u1ea1n n\u1eef ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt giao ti\u1ebfp qua nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y. Giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eafn tin, email, g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i… Tuy r\u1eb1ng ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 h\u01a1n t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ghi nh\u1edb n\u1eb1m l\u00f2ng nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 giao ti\u1ebfp, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u00f3i quen h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

1.H\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, b\u00e1o<\/strong>
\nGiao ti\u1ebfp ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c trao \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 th\u00f4ng tin m\u00e0 hai b\u00ean c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u. N\u1ebfu hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 chung, th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. Jhumpa Lahiri \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u2018\u2019\u0110i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi m\u00e0 s\u00e1ch mang l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chu du kh\u1eafp n\u01a1i m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ea5c ch\u00e2n l\u00ean\u2019\u2019. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u v\u00e0o c\u00e1c trang s\u00e1ch, t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u00eam c\u00e1c b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft th\u00fa v\u1ecb tr\u00ean b\u00e1o, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebf th\u1eeba v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00e1t huy nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m qu\u00fd b\u00e1u m\u00e0 l\u1edbp ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i. Kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c nhau, tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh khi g\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

\nM\u00e1ch nh\u1ecf b\u1ea1n n\u1eef ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt giao ti\u1ebfp qua nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y<\/em><\/p>\n

2.H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi<\/span><\/strong>
\n\u2018\u2019Listening is the key when it coming to be a better commMasterskillstor\u2019\u2019 (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: L\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n) Giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, c\u00f2n l\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi giao ti\u1ebfp gi\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nghe v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n \u0111ang n\u00f3i g\u00ec. C\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd h\u1ecd v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0103n \u00fd v\u1edbi nhau. Sau khi nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n chia s\u1ebb, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u, th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u00eam cho h\u1ecd. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n l\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i xong, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn sai v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd chia s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

\nM\u00e1ch nh\u1ecf b\u1ea1n n\u1eef ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt giao ti\u1ebfp qua nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y<\/em><\/p>\n

3.H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n<\/strong><\/span>
\nB\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. H\u1ecdc t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m, h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4n ngoan\u2026 Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t qua nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ecd chia s\u1ebb. H\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ea7u th\u1ecb v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

4.<\/strong><\/span>H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ra<\/strong>
\nL\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh con dao c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ee9t ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Publilius Syrus \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u2018\u2019I have often regretted my speech, not my silence \u2018\u2019 (T\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 b\u00e0i ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i s\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng). C\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n n\u00ean im l\u1eb7ng c\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 n\u00f3i b\u1ea5t ch\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ee3p l\u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y ph\u1ea3n c\u1ea3m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ec7nh danh l\u00e0 ph\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y trau chu\u1ed1t th\u00eam cho m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p trong giao ti\u1ebfp, \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y. Giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eafn tin, email, g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i… Tuy r\u1eb1ng ai c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[432],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19961"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=19961"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19961\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=19961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=19961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=19961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}