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H\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1edf y\u00eau c\u1ea7u gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u1ec9 m\u1ec9 trong khi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng. K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi gi\u00fap n\u00e2ng cao ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ho\u1eb7c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n n\u1eafm v\u1eefng c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

L\u1eafng nghe to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ngo\u00e0i l\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i v\u00e0o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh, do \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n vi\u1ec7c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay khi ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y l\u1eafng nghe cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi k\u1ebft th\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 th\u1eafc m\u1eafc c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u00e3y nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ec3 cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

\u00a0T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00e1c t\u1eeb kh\u00f3a<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong khi nghe c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o c\u00e1c t\u1eeb kh\u00f3a quan tr\u1ecdng. Gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn: Ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i \u00edch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp. T\u1eeb kh\u00f3a \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u201cb\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng\u201d. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111i l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u201cl\u1ee3i \u00edch\u201d.<\/p>\n

T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o t\u1eeb kh\u00f3a s\u1ebd nh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, l\u1eddi ch\u1ee9ng th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 \u0111ang gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n v\u00f2ng vo, l\u1ea3ng tr\u00e1nh.<\/p>\n

\u201cCh\u00fang ta h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 duy tr\u00ec c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe, b\u1edfi qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin s\u1ebd g\u00e2y nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn v\u00e0 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi th\u00eam. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch<\/strong><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft c\u1ea7n l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u nghe th\u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi d\u00e0i v\u00e0 lan man. Tuy nhi\u00ean, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i t\u1eebng t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i \u201cB\u1ea1n th\u1eafc m\u1eafc v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y ra v\u1edbi ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh ph\u1ea7n m\u1ec1m m\u1edbi?\u201d h\u00e3y n\u00f3i \u201cB\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng ph\u1ea7n m\u1ec1m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i?\u201d.<\/p>\n

Khi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t tr\u1ecbch th\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 \u201cB\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u01b0?\u201d<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c trao \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t h\u00f2a v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 \u201cT\u1ea1i sao \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?\u201d, \u201cV\u00ec sao b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf?\u201d hay \u201cT\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00e0y?\u201d.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an \u1ee7i khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111ang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t. \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebfn tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u01a1 s\u1edf v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111ang g\u00e2y ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu cho h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 \u201cT\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cT\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y\u201d.<\/p>\n

D\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu c\u1ea7n<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c cho m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi h\u00f3c b\u00faa ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, h\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi t\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 thu th\u1eadp c\u00e1c d\u1eef ki\u1ec7n li\u00ean quan v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c, th\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1o h\u01a1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay t\u1ee9c th\u00ec nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u201cT\u00f4i c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u k\u1ef9 h\u01a1n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n cung c\u1ea5p cho b\u1ea1n th\u00f4ng tin sai, v\u00ec v\u1eady h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi [t\u00ean \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p\/b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn] tr\u01b0\u1edbc\u201d.<\/p>\n

D\u1eebng l\u1ea1i khi th\u00edch h\u1ee3p<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u1edbi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n n\u00ean r\u00fat lui kh\u1ecfi cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 \u201cV\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00e1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u00e0o l\u00fac n\u00e0y\u201d.<\/p>\n

K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp uy t\u00edn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u00e2n nh\u1eafc k\u1ef9 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u1ec1 8 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n trong vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n

Nguy\u1ec5n L\u00fd<\/strong><\/p>\n

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H\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1edf y\u00eau c\u1ea7u gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u1ec9 m\u1ec9 trong khi c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng. K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi gi\u00fap n\u00e2ng cao ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng, s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ho\u1eb7c d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. L\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n n\u1eafm v\u1eefng c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[428],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20825"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20825"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20825\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20825"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20825"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20825"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}