{"id":20977,"date":"2023-12-06T02:10:15","date_gmt":"2023-12-06T02:10:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/thieu-ky-nang-lang-nghe-9-dau-hieu-ban-can-biet.html"},"modified":"2023-12-22T04:53:37","modified_gmt":"2023-12-21T21:53:37","slug":"thieu-ky-nang-lang-nghe-9-dau-hieu-ban-can-biet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/thieu-ky-nang-lang-nghe-9-dau-hieu-ban-can-biet.html","title":{"rendered":"Thi\u1ebfu k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u1eafng nghe: 9 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft"},"content":{"rendered":"
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L\u1eafng nghe hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1edfi n\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o. Trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, l\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, l\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, quan t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd n\u00f3i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u01b0a ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c. Tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eafng nghe t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn ch\u1eb1m ch\u1eb1m v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong khi h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eafng nghe t\u1ed1t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi l\u1eafng nghe nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang ta v\u1eeba l\u1eafng nghe v\u1eeba quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd. Trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1c nhau s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 kh\u00e1c nhau. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi \u201cL\u00e0m sao?, Nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u201d s\u1ebd g\u1ee3i ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n d\u00e0i h\u01a1n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u201cC\u00f3\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cKh\u00f4ng\u201d th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00e0m r\u00f5 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. C\u00e2u h\u1ecfi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng \u201cChuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec, \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra?\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cT\u1ea1i sao?\u201d c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n chi\u1ebfm l\u0129nh cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u1eafng nghe c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 t\u00f3m t\u1eaft c\u00e1c \u00fd ch\u00ednh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd chia s\u1ebb. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u1eafng nghe s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 nghe theo ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 ra v\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111a nhi\u1ec7m khi \u0111ang tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n<\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111a nhi\u1ec7m. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n khi b\u1ea1n \u0111a nhi\u1ec7m b\u1ecb gi\u1ea3m \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e1o, l\u01b0\u1edbt m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i trong khi l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i chi ti\u1ebft c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng s\u1eafc th\u00e1i ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i ho\u1eb7c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u1eddi khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch khi h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i, nh\u01b0 \u201cTi\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111i!\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201cN\u00f3i cho t\u00f4i nghe k\u1ef9 h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i!\u201d b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i chen ngang \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 hi\u1ebfm khi d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. B\u1edfi, h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111ang n\u00f3i n\u00ean \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan t\u00e2m. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 khi h\u1ecd cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n xen v\u00e0o, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn kh\u1eafp gian ph\u00f2ng trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe h\u1ecd. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, vi\u1ec7c giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe k\u00e9m. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean tinh t\u1ebf h\u01a1n, th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn qua vai c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 d\u1eddi \u00e1nh nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u00edt th\u1edf s\u00e2u ho\u1eb7c th\u1edf d\u00e0i<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u00edt th\u1edf s\u00e2u ho\u1eb7c th\u1edf d\u00e0i th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang n\u00f3i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1ea5t t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u1eafng nghe c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng duy tr\u00ec nh\u1ecbp th\u1edf \u0111\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi l\u1eafng nghe ai \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u01b0a ra ngay gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd \u0111ang \u201cs\u1ed1ng\u201d trong c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 l\u00e0m d\u1ecbu n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

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Hu\u1ef3nh Tr\u00e2m<\/strong><\/p>\n

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L\u1eafng nghe hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1edfi n\u00f3 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o. Trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, l\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, l\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, quan t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[428],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20977"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=20977"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/20977\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=20977"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=20977"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=20977"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}