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B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u01b0ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ebfn. B\u1ea1n n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed, ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd g\u1ecdi t\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u1eed th\u00e1ch m\u00e0 th\u00f4i\u2026 T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kho\u00e1 gi\u00fap m\u1edf ra t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i, \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p l\u1eabn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 tinh th\u1ea7n t khi b\u1ea1n mong \u0111\u1ee3i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u00f3 h\u1eadu trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111ang ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn, b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng l\u00e0 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 s\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. Ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ecb tr\u00ed hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t t\u01b0 duy s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p l\u1eabn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c t\u1ea1o th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

L\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng<\/strong><\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 n\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf m\u1ecdi ng\u00f3c ng\u00e1ch, m\u1ecdi l\u00fac m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i nh\u01b0ng t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3m \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Khi suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eb9 nh\u00f5m h\u01a1n, suy ngh\u0129 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng h\u01a1n v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng, h\u00e3y suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i \u00edch nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

T\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc, khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch v\u00e0 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n tin r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1c nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0a ra trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u00fac gi\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nhanh ch\u00f3ng. Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c lu\u00f4n trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i minh m\u1eabn s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft hay cho t\u1eebng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd xem th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c t\u1ed5n th\u1ea5t ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1m th\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai. Nh\u1edd s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean. V\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u1edf ra con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Mang l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n t\u1ef1 tin. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3, suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean gian nan h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng l\u00f2ng can \u0111\u1ea3m v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m<\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u1edbi \u00fd ch\u00ed v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

Th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o<\/strong><\/p>\n

Suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o h\u01a1n b\u1edfi khi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, thay v\u00ec t\u1ef1 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ngay t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u! B\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho \u201cd\u00f2ng th\u00e1c\u201d s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tu\u00f4n tr\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

X\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n m\u1ea1nh n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 h\u00f2a \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng cao th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

Thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 ngay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n c\u00e1c g\u1ee3i \u00fd m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng sau \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n

R\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef t\u00edch c\u1ef1c khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3\u201d th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. Do \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y thay th\u1ebf nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. H\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p r\u1ef1c r\u1ee1. H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 nh\u1ee7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0o trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c\u2026 Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u201cth\u00ec th\u1ea7m\u201d n\u00e0y c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. H\u00e3y l\u1ea5p \u0111\u1ea7y suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb n\u00e0y h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb g\u1ee3i \u00fd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

K\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. M\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 ch\u00ednh t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec v\u1eady, thay v\u00ec k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft than th\u1edf, t\u1ef1 tr\u00e1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, ch\u01b0a l\u00e0m \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1c quan, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 lu\u00f4n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n mang l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean h\u1eefu \u00edch khi b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n thay v\u00ec b\u00e0n l\u00f9i l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t \u00fd ch\u00ed, quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m. \u0110\u1eebng ngh\u0129 t\u00e2m l\u00fd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e2y lan, m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e2y lan r\u1ea5t nhay, v\u00ec v\u1eady, \u201ch\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 ch\u01a1i\u201d.<\/p>\n

T\u00edch c\u1ef1c tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. Tham gia c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap cho tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n m\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u01b0\u01a1n l\u00ean trong kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng t\u1eeb trong suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. Ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf c\u00f2n g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n, \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c giao l\u01b0u v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi, \u0111i\u1ec1u hay, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0 gi\u1ea3n, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i suy nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. Khi b\u00e0y t\u1ecf l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng. Khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u01a1n \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u00e0o ph\u00f3ng v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng h\u01a1n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u01a1n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng h\u01a1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

R\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng tinh th\u1ea7n<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

Lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 do b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 ch\u1ecdn l\u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 h\u01b0\u1edbng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u00e0 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3 nhanh th\u00f4i, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ecdi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh \u0111u\u1ed1i s\u1ee9c. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n ch\u1edd h\u1ecd \u1edf cu\u1ed1i con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi k\u1ebb thua cu\u1ed9c. Thua cu\u1ed9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i do h\u1ecd y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c, \u00fd ch\u00ed, quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m m\u00e0 do nhi\u1ec1u y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd so s\u00e1nh m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. \u0110\u1eebng ngh\u0129 h\u1ecd t\u00e0i gi\u1ecfi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00e3y xem th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc cho m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng soi m\u00ecnh trong \u0111\u00f3. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ri\u00eang v\u00e0 h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i. \u0110\u1eebng t\u1ef1 m\u00e3n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u00f3, h\u00e3y \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n xem m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf suy ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh thua ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, k\u00e9m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. Kh\u00f4ng ai gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ai k\u00e9m h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng suy ngh\u0129 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, v\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ef1 h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p m\u00ecnh xu\u1ed1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n

T\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u1eb9p. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p tr\u00f4i qua m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec1n ch\u00fang. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eb7ng m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 nh\u1ecf ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u01b0\u1eddi vui v\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui nh\u1ecf m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n? Th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u00edch c\u1ef1c m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n d\u00f2ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

Hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edd v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn may m\u1eafn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, tuy nhi\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn, b\u1edfi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i may m\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai. V\u00ec v\u1eady, thay v\u00ec c\u1ee9 ng\u1ed3i ch\u1edd may m\u1eafn b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai bi\u1ebft c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, ch\u1edbp c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch.<\/p>\n

Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 \u0111i t\u00ecm n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n tuy duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, l\u1ea1c quan tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ecdi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1eed th\u00e1ch. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c hay than v\u00e3n, con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng chinh ph\u1ee5c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. H\u00e3y t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

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B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u01b0ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ebfn. B\u1ea1n n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed, ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd g\u1ecdi t\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u1eed th\u00e1ch m\u00e0 th\u00f4i\u2026 T\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kho\u00e1 gi\u00fap m\u1edf ra t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i, \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p l\u1eabn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[428],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21239"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=21239"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21239\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=21239"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=21239"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=21239"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}