{"id":22996,"date":"2023-12-06T07:25:26","date_gmt":"2023-12-06T07:25:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/tom-tat-7-thoi-quen-hieu-qua-cua-stephen-r-covey.html"},"modified":"2023-12-22T08:12:57","modified_gmt":"2023-12-22T01:12:57","slug":"tom-tat-7-thoi-quen-hieu-qua-cua-stephen-r-covey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/tom-tat-7-thoi-quen-hieu-qua-cua-stephen-r-covey.html","title":{"rendered":"T\u00f3m t\u1eaft 7 Th\u00f3i Quen Hi\u1ec7u Qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a Stephen R. Covey"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u201c7 Th\u00f3i quen hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/strong>\u201d l\u00e0 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cho m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a m\u1edbi m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai ch\u1ecbu c\u00e0i \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3, h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng gi\u00fap ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a doanh nghi\u1ec7p m\u1edbi, s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi cho m\u1ecdi t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c. Gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed9i ng\u0169 nh\u00e2n l\u1ef1c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u s\u00e1ch 7 Th\u00f3i quen hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Stephen R. Covey<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u201c7 Th\u00f3i quen hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3\u201d c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Stephen R. Covey<\/strong> \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ecbch ra h\u01a1n 50 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef, v\u1edbi 40 tri\u1ec7u b\u1ea3n v\u00e0 1 tri\u1ec7u b\u1ea3n audio, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c b\u00e1n ch\u1ea1y nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n n\u1eb1m trong top \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

\u201c7 Th\u00f3i quen hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3\u201d l\u00e0 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u00ean so\u1ea1n d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nh\u1eefng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. \u0110\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1ea7m nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, mu\u1ed1n v\u1eady, ph\u1ea3i thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n

7 Th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. Nh\u1edd d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u00e1c nguy\u00ean l\u00fd n\u00ean ch\u00fang mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1i \u01b0u nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trong d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, l\u00e0 trung t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng t\u1ea5m b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, t\u1ed1i \u01b0u h\u00f3a c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, t\u00edch h\u1ee3p nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean l\u00fd kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0o qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Ng\u00e0y nay, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u00ed quy\u1ebft th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean l\u1ed1i t\u1eaft n\u00e0y v\u1edbi hy v\u1ecdng ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u1eddi gian, c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi mong \u0111\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n

\u201cC\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1\u201d – Stephen R. Covey vi\u1ebft. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec3n – t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00e0i b\u1ea3n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9, h\u00e0nh vi \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, nh\u1eb1m \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng.<\/p>\n

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>>\u00a0Click Mua s\u00e1ch 7 TH\u00d3I QUEN HI\u1ec6U QU\u1ea2\u00a0 –\u00a0Stephen R. Covey | Masterskills<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201c7 Th\u00f3i Quen\u201d n\u00e2ng cao hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cho c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9i ng\u0169<\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n

Th\u00f3i Quen 1: S\u1ed1ng ki\u1ec3u ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n

C\u00f3 4 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n t\u1ef1 do l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 trong c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0: Th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng (Passive), \u1ee8ng ph\u00f3 (Reactive), Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng (Active), Ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o (Proactive)<\/strong>. Trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3, ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3u s\u1ed1ng cao nh\u1ea5t trong b\u1eadc thang th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

\u1ede m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p h\u01a1n v\u1edbi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn, n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi xu th\u1ebf x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n bi\u1ebft ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 h\u1ecd mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i h\u1ecd hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u0103ng k\u00ednh c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean tranh c\u00e3i b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m, l\u00fd l\u1ebd kh\u00e1c nhau hay l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e8 b\u1ec9u h\u1ecd. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1edbi l\u00e0 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u00eam nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft m\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

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Th\u00f3i Quen 2: B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n

D\u1ef1a tr\u00ean nguy\u00ean l\u00fd t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra b\u1edfi 2 b\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n. Theo t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3, h\u00e3y th\u1eed m\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ra h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n mong mu\u1ed1n, khi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb s\u1ed1ng g\u00ec, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ra sao. H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft ra nh\u1eefng t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 m\u01b0\u1eddng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ai, c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch g\u00ec trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh trao quy\u1ec1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Th\u00f3i quen 2 \u201cB\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn\u201d ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5, d\u1ef1 \u00e1n, n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 b\u1edfi t\u00ednh ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n

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Th\u00f3i Quen 3: \u01afu ti\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n

\u1ede th\u00f3i quen 3, Covey nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh c\u1ea7n \u01b0u ti\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng trong danh s\u00e1ch c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 tri\u1ec3n khai tr\u01b0\u1edbc. V\u1edbi th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n ph\u00e2n chia c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c theo m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 cao – th\u1ea5p trong \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea5p v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 quan tr\u1ecdng, v\u1edbi 4 \u00f4 vu\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 sau:<\/p>\n

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  • Vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea5p<\/li>\n
  • Vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea5p<\/li>\n
  • Vi\u1ec7c kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea5p nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng<\/li>\n
  • Vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea5p v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    G\u00f3c ph\u1ea7n t\u01b0 th\u1ee9 II, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea5p, l\u00e0 t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, vi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n tuy\u00ean ng\u00f4n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n, t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c,… – t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng \u00edt th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n v\u00ec cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea5p b\u00e1ch. Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 trong khung tham chi\u1ebfu n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

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    Th\u00f3i Quen 4: T\u01b0 duy c\u00f9ng th\u1eafng<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n

    T\u01b0 duy c\u00f9ng th\u1eafng t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 Win – Win, m\u00ecnh th\u1eafng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u0169ng th\u1eafng, t\u01b0 duy n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1edfi trong h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c tranh \u0111ua, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eafng th\u00ec c\u0169ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebb thua, tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu trong \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ai c\u0169ng mang suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t tr\u1eadn chi\u1ebfn. V\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh th\u1eafng – \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng thua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng qua vi\u1ec7c l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 tinh th\u1ea7n ho\u1eb7c v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t cho m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u00edch k\u1ef7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, l\u00e0m l\u1ee3i cho m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 thi\u1ec7t h\u1ea1i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

    Ngo\u00e0i t\u01b0 duy \u201cM\u00ecnh th\u1eafng \u2013 \u0110\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng thua\u201d ra c\u00f2n bao g\u1ed3m:<\/p>\n

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    • M\u00ecnh thua – \u0110\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eafng<\/li>\n
    • M\u00ecnh thua – \u0110\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng thua<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

      \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u01b0 duy \u201cM\u00ecnh thua \u2013 \u0110\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1eafng\u201d s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u h\u00e0ng, nhu nh\u01b0\u1ee3c, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. C\u00f2n v\u1edbi t\u01b0 duy \u201cM\u00ecnh thua \u2013 \u0110\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng thua\u201d, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u1ec5 n\u1ea3y sinh khi c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u mang t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u201cM\u00ecnh th\u1eafng \u2013 \u0110\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng thua\u201d. N\u1ebfu c\u1ea3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng suy ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i th\u1eafng b\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch, th\u00ec c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1eabn nhau, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.\u00a0<\/p>\n

      Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng, Stephen R. Covey khuy\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1 cao v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u1eafng thua trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. T\u01b0 duy c\u00f9ng th\u1eafng gi\u00fap m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c, \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean c\u00f9ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n

      T\u01b0 duy c\u00f9ng th\u1eafng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ea7n c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa l\u00f2ng can \u0111\u1ea3m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc. C\u00f3 ba \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho t\u01b0 duy n\u00e0y bao g\u1ed3m:<\/p>\n

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      • Ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c: <\/strong>G\u1eafn k\u1ebft v\u1edbi gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, cam k\u1ebft, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/li>\n
      • S\u1ef1 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn:<\/strong> Bi\u1ebft b\u00e0y t\u1ecf nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 can \u0111\u1ea3m, c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/li>\n
      • Tinh th\u1ea7n r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng:<\/strong> Lu\u00f4n tin r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tranh gi\u00e0nh hay l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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        Th\u00f3i Quen 5: Th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u r\u1ed3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n

        Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng mong mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, v\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u, h\u1ecd l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed3i \u0111\u00e1p. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ebfu l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh, \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng.<\/p>\n

        \u1ede th\u00f3i quen th\u1ee9 5 n\u00e0y, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Stephen R. Covey khuy\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e3y suy ngh\u0129, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn hay ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t. M\u1ed9t khi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 nhau, m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00f9ng h\u1ee3p l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 giao ti\u1ebfp, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea1p cho nhau, c\u00f9ng nhau ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

        C\u00f3 4 c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe ch\u1ee7 quan m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n:<\/p>\n

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        • \u0110\u00e1nh gi\u00e1:<\/strong> \u0110\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd<\/li>\n
        • Th\u0103m d\u00f2:<\/strong> \u0110\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/li>\n
        • C\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n:<\/strong> \u0110\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u1ee7 quan<\/li>\n
        • Ph\u00e2n t\u00edch:<\/strong> D\u1ef1a v\u00e0o suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1, h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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          Th\u00f3i Quen 6: C\u00f9ng t\u1ea1o c\u00e1ch m\u1edbi<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n

          M\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, khi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. Khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9i ng\u0169 \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00e2m hi\u1ec7p l\u1ef1c l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1ch m\u1edbi, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe l\u1eabn nhau, bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m \u0111\u00f2n b\u1ea9y v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

          Vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khai th\u00e1c s\u1ef1 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng, kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n c\u00e1c b\u00ean li\u00ean quan. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111ang h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c:<\/p>\n

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          • C\u00f3 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong<\/li>\n
          • C\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c m\u1edbi<\/li>\n
          • Nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt, t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch m\u1edbi<\/li>\n
          • C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n<\/li>\n
          • C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec mong mu\u1ed1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m m\u1edbi.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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            Th\u00f3i Quen 7: R\u00e8n m\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/span><\/strong><\/h3>\n

            Th\u00f3i quen th\u1ee9 7 l\u00e0 R\u00e8n m\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 khuy\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y n\u1eb1m xung quanh c\u00e1c th\u00f3i quen kh\u00e1c trong m\u00f4 th\u1ee9c 7 th\u00f3i quen, \u0111\u01b0a 6 th\u00f3i quen c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i v\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

            R\u00e8n gi\u0169a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u1edf c\u1ea3 3 m\u1eb7t: Th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t – Tinh th\u1ea7n – Tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n t\u00ednh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7. N\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh l\u00e2u b\u1ec1n gi\u00fap m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

            Song song v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1edbi nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1i \u01b0u khi x\u1eed l\u00fd c\u1ea3 4 m\u1eb7t n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh, xem nh\u1eb9 m\u1eb7t n\u00e0o c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c m\u1eb7t c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

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            Mang trong m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean l\u00fd b\u1ea5t bi\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng cho m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, \u1edf m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i v\u00e0 trong m\u1ecdi th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i, ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e0o t\u1ea1o \u201c7 Habits\u201d (d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y) c\u1ee7a t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c FranklinCovey \u0111\u00e3 g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n n\u00e2ng cao t\u00ednh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cho h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf 167 qu\u1ed1c gia tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

            \u201c7 Th\u00f3i quen hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/strong>\u201d l\u00e0 h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cho m\u1ed7i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a m\u1edbi m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai ch\u1ecbu c\u00e0i \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi n\u00f3, h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng gi\u00fap ki\u1ebfn t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a doanh nghi\u1ec7p m\u1edbi, s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi cho m\u1ecdi t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c. Gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed9i ng\u0169 nh\u00e2n l\u1ef1c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 v\u00e0 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[247],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22996"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22996"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22996\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22996"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22996"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22996"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}