{"id":3337,"date":"2023-11-30T02:19:52","date_gmt":"2023-11-30T02:19:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/?p=3337"},"modified":"2023-12-14T13:57:21","modified_gmt":"2023-12-14T13:57:21","slug":"13-ngon-ngu-co-ban-can-hieu-ro-khi-giao-tiep","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/13-ngon-ngu-co-ban-can-hieu-ro-khi-giao-tiep.html","title":{"rendered":"13 Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 khi giao ti\u1ebfp"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft, c\u00f3 2 lo\u1ea1i giao ti\u1ebfp c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n: b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. Tuy giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi ti\u1ec7n l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 nhanh ch\u00f3ng h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng khi c\u00f3 r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef hay trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch quan s\u00e1t c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00edch.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Theo nh\u01b0 th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea, tr\u00ean 80% th\u00f4ng tin m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. Tuy \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 ra c\u00e1c c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i n\u00e0o khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n<p>Sau \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0\u00a0m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay l\u00e0m v\u00e0\u00a0\u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.\u00a0Qua \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh \u0111ang \u1edf trong t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng n\u00e0o v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3m t\u1ed1i \u0111a nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3 trong giao ti\u1ebfp.<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. Bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n\u00a0hay c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa<\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"e3lan e3lan-in-post1\"><\/div>\n<p>B\u00ean tr\u00e1i: th\u1ea9n th\u01a1, bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n, th\u1ea3 h\u1ed3n suy ngh\u0129<\/p>\n<p>B\u00ean ph\u1ea3i: c\u00f3 h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1edfi m\u1edf<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>B\u00ean tr\u00e1i: th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1edfi m\u1edf<\/p>\n<p>B\u00ean ph\u1ea3i: th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1edfi m\u1edf<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. \u0110ang suy ngh\u0129, nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i k\u00fd \u1ee9c v\u1ec1 \u00e2m thanh, nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac hay nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>H\u00ecnh 1: \u0111ang trong suy ngh\u0129<\/p>\n<p>H\u00ecnh 2: \u0111ang nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i \u00e2m thanh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong k\u00fd \u1ee9c<\/p>\n<p>H\u00ecnh 3: \u0111ang nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3<\/p>\n<p>H\u00ecnh 4: \u0111ang nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eebng tho\u00e1ng qua trong \u0111\u1ea7u<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Thu h\u00fat v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin hay d\u00e8 d\u1eb7t v\u00e0 k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>B\u00ean tr\u00e1i: \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ng\u1ed3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 thu h\u00fat v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 tin nh\u1ea5t<\/p>\n<p>B\u00ean ph\u1ea3i: \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch ng\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ai d\u00e8 d\u1eb7t, k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o<\/p>\n<p><strong>5. Khoanh tay v\u1edbi ng\u00f3n c\u00e1i nh\u00f4 l\u00ean \u2013 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f3 g\u1ea7n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai khoanh tay v\u00e0 ng\u00f3n c\u00e1i nh\u00f4 l\u00ean nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 xa c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n<p><strong>6. Ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi d\u00e1ng ng\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c\u00a0cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>B\u00ean tr\u00e1i: \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ai n\u00f4n n\u00f3ng, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady, mong ch\u1edd k\u1ebft th\u00fac<\/p>\n<p>B\u00ean ph\u1ea3i: \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 d\u00e1ng ng\u1ed3i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ai r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n r\u1eb1ng \u201ct\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u trong t\u1ea7m ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t\u201d. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t anh ch\u00e0ng ng\u1ed3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady trong cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp, ch\u01b0a ch\u1eafc nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n<p><strong>7. D\u00e1ng ng\u1ed3i b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, kh\u00f4ng t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng hay kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong \u1ea3nh t\u1ecf ra b\u01b0\u1edbng b\u1ec9nh, kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn hay suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh v\u1ec1 phong c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p><strong>8. Gi\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch v\u00e2n v\u00ea c\u1ed5 tay \u00e1o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, anh ch\u00e0ng trong \u1ea3nh \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf\u00a0s\u1ef1 b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p><strong>9. \u0110\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c\u00a0\u0111ang c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Anh ch\u00e0ng trong \u1ea3nh \u0111ang suy ngh\u0129, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1, c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 anh \u0111ang nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>10. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n hay b\u1ecb g\u1ea1t ra<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u1ea2nh tr\u00e1i: H\u01b0\u1edbng b\u00e0n ch\u00e2n c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 3\u00a0ng\u01b0\u1eddi thanh ni\u00ean cho th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1ec1 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n<\/p>\n<p>\u1ea2nh ph\u1ea3i: H\u01b0\u1edbng b\u00e0n ch\u00e2n c\u1ee7a 2\u00a0ng\u01b0\u1eddi thanh ni\u00ean cho th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o anh ch\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ee9ng sau.<\/p>\n<p>Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1c ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u1ec1 c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00ean kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang, c\u00f2n t\u00f9y theo t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai kh\u00f4ng quen bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac hay ch\u01b0a quen giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y. V\u00ec v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi lo r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh thi\u1ebfu t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb trong giao ti\u1ebfp, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 k\u1ef9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3i ra b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec thay v\u00ec qu\u00e1 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p><strong>11. Ch\u00e1n ng\u00e1n hay l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>12. C\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>13. Kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u00ecn ho\u1eb7c d\u1ed1i l\u1eeba<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft, c\u00f3 2 lo\u1ea1i giao ti\u1ebfp c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n: b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3. Tuy giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi ti\u1ec7n l\u1ee3i v\u00e0 nhanh ch\u00f3ng h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng khi c\u00f3 r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef hay trong c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng t\u1ebf nh\u1ecb, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch quan s\u00e1t c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[163],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3337"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3337"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3337\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3337"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3337"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3337"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}