{"id":3350,"date":"2023-11-30T04:34:42","date_gmt":"2023-11-30T04:34:42","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/?p=3350"},"modified":"2023-11-29T21:11:47","modified_gmt":"2023-11-29T21:11:47","slug":"nhung-sai-lam-trong-giao-tiep","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nhung-sai-lam-trong-giao-tiep.html","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m trong giao ti\u1ebfp"},"content":{"rendered":"<div>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp? Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 v\u1eady. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0i gi\u0169a v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng cao ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt giao ti\u1ebfp, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong giao ti\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. K\u00e8m theo \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n tham kh\u1ea3o.<\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u1eafng nghe<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Ernest Hemingway t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cT\u00f4i th\u00edch l\u1eafng nghe. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c l\u1eafng nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ecbu nghe\u201d.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>H\u00e3y \u0111\u1eebng gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi \u0111a s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1t ru\u1ed9t ch\u1edd t\u1edbi l\u01b0\u1ee3t m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1i \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong v\u00f2ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. H\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ec3 khai th\u00e1c th\u00f4ng tin trong khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y tr\u00e1nh c\u00e1c ki\u1ec3u c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 d\u1ea1ng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u201cc\u00f3\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201ckh\u00f4ng\u201d, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ch\u1eb3ng \u0111em l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin l\u1eafm \u0111\u00e2u.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp vi\u1ec7c cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n v\u1eeba r\u1ed3i h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i c\u00e2u c\u00e1 v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi th\u00eam nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0: C\u00e1c anh c\u00e2u c\u00e1 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o th\u1ebf? Anh th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u1edf tr\u00f2 c\u00e2u c\u00e1? Ngo\u00e0i c\u00e2u c\u00e1 ra, c\u00e1c anh c\u00f2n l\u00e0m g\u00ec n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng? v.v..<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Khi \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c \u0111\u00e0o s\u00e2u v\u00e0o ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n kh\u01a1i g\u1ee3i v\u00e0 cung c\u1ea5p cho b\u1ea1n th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin h\u01a1n n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1eed l\u00fd. V\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, l\u1ea1i t\u1ea1o th\u00eam ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch g\u1ee3i m\u1edf v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trao \u0111\u1ed5i cho c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>N\u1ebfu tho\u1ea1t ti\u00ean h\u1ecd tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n theo ki\u1ec3u: \u201c\u1ed2, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u1eefa\u201d, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c. H\u00e3y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn th\u00eam ch\u00fat n\u1eefa v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi th\u00eam. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 th\u00eam m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. M\u1ed9t khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ecf ra b\u1eaft nh\u1ecbp v\u1edbi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u00ec nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin s\u1ebd th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n d\u1ea7n l\u00ean v\u00ec cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n mang t\u00ednh t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t, m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u n\u1eefa.<\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>H\u1ecfi qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea9m v\u1ea5n. Ho\u1eb7c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin chia s\u1ebb. \u0110\u1ec3 kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 pha tr\u1ed9n c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng. Tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi n\u1ed9i dung cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u1edf tr\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 n\u00f3i th\u00eam nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0:<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>&#8211; \u1eea, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u1ea3 h\u01a1i, th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o d\u1ecbp cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n vui th\u1eadt. Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ebfn d\u1ea1o ch\u01a1i ngo\u00e0i c\u00f4ng vi\u00ean v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tr\u1eadn golf n\u1eefa.<\/div>\n<div>&#8211; Vui th\u1ebf! Th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111i ch\u01a1i thuy\u1ec1n v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e1m b\u1ea1n. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed c\u00e2u v\u1edbi l\u01b0\u1ee1i c\u00e2u m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a Sakamura, ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafm.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>V\u00e0 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c su\u00f4n s\u1ebb. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trao \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00eam v\u1ec1 tr\u00f2 golf m\u1edbi, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c\/ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i l\u01b0\u1ee1i c\u00e2u kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c m\u00f3n bia \u01b0a th\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>Kh\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi g\u1eb7p l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u, ho\u1eb7c khi m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed im l\u1eb7ng, ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng. R\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, khi \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ed3i h\u1ed9p ho\u1eb7c lo l\u1eafng m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u00ec sao.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Leil Lowndes t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201c\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e1o\u201d. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y thi\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng kh\u01a1i m\u00e0o t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t tin t\u1ee9c th\u1eddi s\u1ef1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. C\u0169ng s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00eam nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin hay \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan t\u00e2m t\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m di\u1ec5n ra cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n ra trong b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng tham d\u1ef1. B\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf quanh m\u00ecnh.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng ho\u1eb7c ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng khi g\u1eb7p ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u, h\u00e3y th\u1eed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0y. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 \u0111ang g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1eady. V\u00e0 h\u00e3y v\u1edd nh\u01b0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ph\u1ea3i \u00f4m h\u00f4n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng khi t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac r\u1ea5t t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u00e0o h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi b\u1eb1ng n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, c\u1edfi m\u1edf. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd, \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nghe qua, c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 h\u01a1i qu\u00e1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y th\u1eed \u0111i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>G\u00f3p chuy\u1ec7n k\u00e9m m\u1eb7n m\u00e0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i g\u00ec, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. M\u1ed9t thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2y, ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 th\u00eam:<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>H\u00e3y n\u00f3i ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i: Khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea9y nhanh t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 n\u00f3i m\u1ed7i l\u00fac m\u1ed9t nhanh h\u01a1n. H\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n d\u1ec5 nghe h\u01a1n v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>N\u00f3i to \u0111\u1ee7 nghe: \u0110\u1eebng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i khi c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i \u1edf m\u1ee9c \u00e2m l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i g\u00ec.<\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>N\u00f3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng: \u0110\u1eebng l\u00fang b\u00fang trong mi\u1ec7ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i.<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>N\u00f3i c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac: R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, ch\u1eb3ng ai mu\u1ed1n nghe qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec1u, v\u00f4 c\u1ea3m. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n trong l\u1eddi n\u00f3i.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Bi\u1ebft ng\u1eebng \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac: N\u00f3i ch\u1eadm v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft th\u00eam nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m ng\u01b0ng nh\u1ecf gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c suy ngh\u0129, ho\u1eb7c gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c c\u00e2u s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea5n nh\u00e1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eadp trung h\u01a1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i. B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y th\u1eed nghe l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng CD c\u1ee7a Brian Tracy v\u00e0 c\u00e1c Podcast c\u1ee7a Steve Pavlina, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m ng\u01b0ng nho nh\u1ecf \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd n\u00f3i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 th\u00fa v\u1ecb h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3: B\u1ea1n n\u00ean h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi th\u00eam m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat trong vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng tin hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n.<\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>Th\u00edch t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng c\u00e1i \u201ct\u00f4i\u201d<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai, khi \u0111\u00e3 tham gia tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng. \u0110\u1eebng c\u1eaft ngang ai \u0111\u00f3 khi h\u1ecd \u0111ang k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n, ho\u1eb7c \u0111ang chia s\u1ebb quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00f4i k\u00e9o s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>V\u00ed nh\u01b0, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng \u201cc\u01b0\u1edbp di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n\u201d khi ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 tr\u00f2 tr\u01b0\u1ee3t tuy\u1ebft ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1ee3t tuy\u1ebft th\u00fa v\u1ecb nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y t\u00ecm ra cho b\u1ea1n \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng cho m\u00ecnh gi\u1eefa nghe v\u00e0 n\u00f3i.<\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>Lu\u00f4n gi\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n th\u1eafng<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>C\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n tranh c\u00e3i v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n \u0111\u00fang trong m\u1ecdi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c tranh lu\u1eadn. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n gi\u1eef cho t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. S\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng ai \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1eafng trong m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e2u. V\u00ec v\u1eady, thay v\u00e0o th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng, th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n v\u00e0 gi\u1eef m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m x\u00fac tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>Tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c ho\u1eb7c nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd th\u00edch h\u1ee3p trong nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe hay m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebfp ch\u1eb3ng ra sao, n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 k\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u00edt ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v.v..<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 d\u1ea1ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 b\u1ebf t\u1eafc. H\u00e3y gi\u00e0nh ri\u00eang nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb ch\u1ec9 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>Nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ba hoa t\u1edbi 10 ph\u00fat li\u00ean t\u1ee5c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh ch\u1ec9 v\u1ec1 chi\u1ebfc \u00f4 t\u00f4 m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi th\u1eadt phong ph\u00fa v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. \u0110\u1eebng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c l\u1ea3i nh\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng hay v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hay s\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng ai mu\u1ed1n nghe n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e2u. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ebfn du l\u1ecbch g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n vui di\u1ec5n ra trong khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i mua qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o, k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n cho k\u1ef3 ngh\u1ec9 l\u1ec5 s\u1eafp t\u1edbi hay m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 vui v\u1ebb t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh s\u1ef1 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n trong khi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1ecf ra th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m. Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Dale Carnegie \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: \u201cN\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 trong v\u00f2ng 2 th\u00e1ng, b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi s\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong 2 n\u0103m n\u1ebfu trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian \u1ea5y, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1\u201d.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00fat v\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u1eb7c ch\u00ed \u00edt, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y c\u1edfi m\u1edf trong tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd thay v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee9 c\u1ed1 k\u00e9o m\u1ecdi cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m h\u1eefu \u00edch.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>B\u1ea1n h\u00e3y r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n h\u00e0ng gi\u1edd v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ban nh\u1ea1c y\u00eau th\u00edch, m\u1ed9t ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh truy\u1ec1n h\u00ecnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, v.v..<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>C\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 \u0111eo b\u00e1m v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng tho\u00e1ng h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. V\u00ec l\u1ebd, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u00ean khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n g\u00ec.<\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>Th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>H\u00e3y m\u1edf l\u1eddi v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y trong v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trao \u0111\u1ed5i. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, l\u1ebd d\u0129 nhi\u00ean, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n nghe b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00f3, g\u1eadt hay l\u1eafc, ho\u1eb7c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi v\u1eafn t\u1eaft nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111i\u1ec7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u201c\u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0\u201d v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>C\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. Khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y t\u1ecf ra ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean m\u1edf l\u1eddi c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 d\u1eabn d\u1eaft cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u1edbt \u0111i s\u1ef1 th\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ed9ng trong b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n n\u00e0o.<\/div>\n<div><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><strong>Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin chia s\u1ebb<\/strong><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u1eafm trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 v\u1eady, h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 th\u1eed xem sao. H\u00e3y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang n\u00f3i. H\u00e3y h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 chung.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>H\u00e3y m\u1edf m\u1eaft th\u1eadt to. H\u00e3y ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan s\u00e1t \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e2u l\u01b0\u1ee3m nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00fa v\u1ecb t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i. H\u00e3y ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng ph\u1ea1m vi quan s\u00e1t nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e1o m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m h\u01a1n t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1edbi m\u1ebb, thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>H\u00e3y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1edbi ph\u1ea7n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 xem b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng cao c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 th\u01b0 th\u00e1i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u00e3 n\u00e0o. \u0110\u1eebng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y hoang mang v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 t\u1ea3i. H\u00e3y ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ecdn ra m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n ngay. H\u00e3y th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y trong v\u00f2ng 3-4 tu\u1ea7n. H\u00e3y l\u01b0u t\u00e2m t\u00e2m t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec ch\u00fang. Ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5y ch\u1ed1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean khi b\u1ea1n tham gia m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp? Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 v\u1eady. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 m\u00e0i gi\u0169a v\u00e0 n\u00e2ng cao ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt giao ti\u1ebfp, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn th\u01b0\u1eddng [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[163],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3350"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3350"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3350\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3350"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3350"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3350"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}