{"id":3889,"date":"2023-11-29T07:38:07","date_gmt":"2023-11-29T07:38:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/?p=3889"},"modified":"2023-11-29T22:55:13","modified_gmt":"2023-11-29T22:55:13","slug":"lang-nghe-la-ky-nang-quan-trong-trong-nghe-thuat-giao-tiep","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/lang-nghe-la-ky-nang-quan-trong-trong-nghe-thuat-giao-tiep.html","title":{"rendered":"L\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt giao ti\u1ebfp"},"content":{"rendered":"

R\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n\u00a0k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u0103\u0301ng nghe<\/strong>\u00a0l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 nghe qua. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng trong bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1\u00a0k\u0129 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng\u00a0v\u00e0 k\u0129 thu\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Tham kh\u1ea3o c\u00e1c ch\u00fa \u00fd quan tr\u1ecdng sau \u0111\u00e2y:<\/p>\n

1. L\u0103\u0301ng nghe m\u00f4\u0323t ca\u0301ch chu\u0309 \u0111\u00f4\u0323ng:<\/strong><\/h3>\n

N\u00ean nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u1eafng nghe. H\u00e3y h\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00fac n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m: nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

\"L\u1eafng<\/p>\n

L\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt giao ti\u1ebfp<\/em><\/h3>\n

2. T\u00e2\u0323p trung: B\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/h3>\n

Xem x\u00e9t nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd th\u1eadt k\u0129 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p hay t\u1ecf ra coi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang nghe, v\u1ebb m\u1eb7t c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ed9 s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng. D\u0129 nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd n\u00f3i, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ee3i cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi h\u1ecd tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y h\u1ebft quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

3. \u0110\u0103\u0323t c\u00e2u ho\u0309i: B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u1eafc m\u1eafc v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 nghe.<\/h3>\n

V\u00e0 khi g\u1eb7p th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, h\u00e3y \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn l\u1ea1i th\u00f4ng tin, c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n b\u00e0y t\u1ecf s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e8o l\u00e1i \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n theo \u00fd m\u00ecnh. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i b\u1ed7ng d\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan t\u00e2m, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb l\u00f4i cu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o, r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd c\u1eaft ngang ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 thao thao b\u1ea5t tuy\u1ec7t v\u1edbi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i sang c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 ghi nh\u1edb c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 sau khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi. Trong l\u00fac l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 xem \u0111\u1ebfn phi\u00ean m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i g\u00ec. V\u00ec n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia \u0111ang n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

4. H\u01b0\u01a1\u0309ng \u01b0\u0301ng ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i no\u0301i: \u0110\u00f4i l\u00fac khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c<\/h3>\n

H\u00e3y t\u1ecf ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang r\u1ea5t ch\u00fa t\u00e2m t\u1edbi c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i: “V\u1eady \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0…” hay “\u0110\u1ec3 xem t\u00f4i c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang \u00fd b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng…” V\u00e0 l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 nghe. \u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i sang ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1edbi m\u00e0 ngay ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

5. S\u01b0\u0309 du\u0323ng ng\u00f4n ng\u01b0\u0303 c\u01a1 th\u00ea\u0309: H\u00e3y c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i.<\/h3>\n

M\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn h\u1ecd. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1eadt g\u00ec t\u1ea1o ra kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, h\u00e3y b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi b\u00e0n v\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh h\u1ecd. C\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean khoanh tay tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u1ef1c, h\u01b0\u1edbng ra xa ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i, quay m\u1eb7t \u0111i ch\u1ed7 kh\u00e1c, nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 xung quanh trong ph\u00f2ng, ho\u1eb7c li\u1ebfc nh\u00ecn m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh m\u00e1y t\u00ednh hay \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch b\u00e1o. H\u00e3y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa t\u00e2m v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

6. Di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i n\u1ed9i dung ba\u0323n mu\u00f4\u0301n tri\u0300nh ba\u0300y:<\/h3>\n

Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u1eafm v\u1eefng m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa t\u00e2m v\u00e0o n\u00f3i, n\u00f3i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, thay v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i. Gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe \u0111\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng khi ph\u1ea3i suy \u0111o\u00e1n \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u1ea9n sau nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef, l\u00fac n\u00e0y di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. K\u1ef9 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u0323c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t.<\/p>\n

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Nh\u1eefng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u1eafng nghe c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/em><\/div>\n<\/div>\n

Im l\u0103\u0323ng:<\/h4>\n

Im l\u1eb7ng l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. N\u00f3 t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed n\u1eb7ng tr\u0129u suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 n\u1ed7i \u0111au. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi\u00a0l\u1eafng nghe hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/em>\u00a0ph\u1ea3i th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i khi \u1edf trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng, ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0i ph\u00fat trong im l\u1eb7ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khai th\u00e1c h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac th\u1ea7m k\u00edn trong l\u00f2ng. L\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Th\u01b0\u0323c hi\u00ea\u0323n \u0111\u01b0\u01a1\u0323c nh\u01b0\u0303ng y\u00eau c\u00e2\u0300u tr\u00ean, co\u0301 th\u00ea\u0309 no\u0301i r\u0103\u0300ng ba\u0323n la\u0300 m\u00f4\u0323t ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i bi\u00ea\u0301t l\u0103\u0301ng nghe th\u01b0\u0323c s\u01b0\u0323 (k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng ). Tuy nhi\u00ean, cu\u00f4\u0323c s\u00f4\u0301ng kh\u00f4ng pha\u0309i lu\u0301c na\u0300o cu\u0303ng chi\u0309 toa\u0300n ma\u0300u h\u00f4\u0300ng. Co\u0301 \u0111\u00f4i lu\u0301c, ba\u0309n th\u00e2n chu\u0301ng ta g\u0103\u0323p th\u00e2\u0301t ba\u0323i trong vi\u00ea\u0323c l\u0103\u0301ng nghe, m\u00f4\u0323t vi\u00ea\u0323c t\u01b0\u01a1\u0309ng ch\u01b0\u0300ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01a1n gia\u0309n nh\u01b0ng la\u0323i v\u00f4 cu\u0300ng ph\u01b0\u0301c ta\u0323p. V\u00e2\u0323y, nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n na\u0300o khi\u00ea\u0301n \u0111a\u0323i \u0111a s\u00f4\u0301 chu\u0301ng ta \u0111\u00ea\u0300u t\u01b0\u0300ng g\u0103\u0323p kho\u0301 kh\u0103n trong kha\u0309 n\u0103ng ti\u00ea\u0301p thu y\u0301 ki\u00ea\u0301n, nh\u00e2\u0323n xe\u0301t cu\u0309a ng\u01b0\u01a1\u0300i kha\u0301c?<\/p>\n

Th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1eafng nghe ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t:<\/h4>\n

\u0110i\u1ebfc h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ebfc l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nghe. Ta th\u01b0\u1eddng hay ng\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 ta bi\u1ebft r\u1ed3i n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nghe ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 nghe m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u1ea7n nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i th\u00ec ta l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb. T\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i h\u01a1n n\u1eefa l\u00e0 ta ch\u1ec9 nghe xem \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u00f3 g\u00ec sai, x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb:<\/h4>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec ta chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb r\u1ea5t k\u1ef9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n. v\u1eady m\u00e0 trong giao ti\u1ebfp ta ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb l\u1eafng nghe c\u1ea3. Kh\u00f4ng chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb l\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m ta nghe k\u00e9m hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

R\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n\u00a0k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u0103\u0301ng nghe\u00a0l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 nghe qua. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng trong bu\u1ed5i n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1\u00a0k\u0129 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng\u00a0v\u00e0 k\u0129 thu\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Tham kh\u1ea3o c\u00e1c ch\u00fa \u00fd quan tr\u1ecdng sau \u0111\u00e2y: 1. L\u0103\u0301ng […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[163,166],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3889"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3889"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3889\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3889"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3889"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3889"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}