{"id":39211,"date":"2023-12-10T01:21:24","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:21:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/9-sai-lam-khi-vo-chong-cai-nhau-khien-moi-quan-he-bi-ran-nut.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T11:09:00","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T11:09:00","slug":"9-sai-lam-khi-vo-chong-cai-nhau-khien-moi-quan-he-bi-ran-nut","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/9-sai-lam-khi-vo-chong-cai-nhau-khien-moi-quan-he-bi-ran-nut.html","title":{"rendered":"9 sai l\u1ea7m khi v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00e3i nhau khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ecb r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m khi v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00e3i nhau nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i, kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe, l\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ra m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3\u2026 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i c\u00e0ng th\u00eam c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n

S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khoanh tay ho\u1eb7c quay l\u01b0ng v\u1edbi v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng\u2026 nh\u1eefng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ee3n m\u1eaft, l\u1eafc \u0111\u1ea7u\u2026 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ch\u1ebf nh\u1ea1o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00e0ng th\u00eam th\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecbch.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 ch\u1ec9 tay, g\u1ea1t tay\u2026 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, khinh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

\"V\u1ee3<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 tr\u00ean, h\u00e3y th\u1eed quay m\u1eb7t v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n l\u1eafng nghe. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho ph\u00e9p, h\u00e3y ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng n\u1eafm tay ho\u1eb7c \u00f4m h\u1ecd khi h\u1ecd bu\u1ed3n ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f3c \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

L\u00f4i nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n ra \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i c\u00f9ng l\u00fac<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ecf xoay quanh m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3 hai l\u1ea1i l\u00f4i nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169, nh\u1eefng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan ra \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 cho c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i c\u00e0ng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111ang b\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft tri\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, tr\u00e1nh lan man. N\u1ebfu v\u1ee3\/ch\u1ed3ng l\u00f4i chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c ra n\u00f3i, h\u00e3y kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o k\u00e9o h\u1ecd quay l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i<\/strong><\/p>\n

D\u00f9 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 sai th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 tay v\u00e0 n\u00f3i “T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a anh\/c\u00f4” s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c tranh c\u00e3i th\u00eam c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 l\u00f4i khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ra \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i m\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng s\u1ee9t m\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u00e3i nhau, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

Chi\u1ebfn tranh l\u1ea1nh<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, tr\u1eebng ph\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ho\u1eb7c tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn im l\u1eb7ng, kh\u00f4ng giao ti\u1ebfp, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c ph\u1edbt l\u1edd s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 l\u00fd do l\u00e0 g\u00ec th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c im l\u1eb7ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00fac m\u1eafc gi\u1eefa 2 v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n

\"V\u1ee3<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00e3i v\u00e3 \u1ed3n \u00e0o, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa thay v\u00ec im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn h\u00e3y n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 la m\u1eafng, ho\u1eb7c nghe ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e1p ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft kh\u00fac m\u1eafc.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p “5-5-5”. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 5 ph\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eafng nghe \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u00f3i, 5 ph\u00fat c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng tranh lu\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

Tranh c\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7 ho\u1eb7c sai c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c<\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u00ec n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn, nhi\u1ec1u c\u1eb7p v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng tranh c\u00e3i lu\u00f4n \u1edf n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng c\u1ed9ng, \u1edf nh\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Khi x\u1ea3y ra b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng d\u00f9 \u1edf n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb trao \u0111\u1ed5i, th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn \u1edf m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng \u0111i qu\u00e1 xa.<\/p>\n

S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef th\u00f4 thi\u1ec3n<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i v\u00e3 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7, khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bu\u00f4ng ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ch\u1eedi b\u1edbi, l\u0103ng m\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd g\u00e2y chia r\u1ebd b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o trong vi\u1ec7c l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn t\u1eeb ng\u1eef, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u s\u1ebd th\u1ebf n\u00e0o n\u1ebfu b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m.<\/p>\n

L\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ra m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi c\u00e3i v\u00e3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e9t l\u00ean v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng \u201cT\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u1edf c\u1ea1nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t nh\u01b0 anh\u201d. Th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd kh\u00e1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00f4i s\u1ef1 l\u00e2u d\u00e0i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ra \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c th\u00eam c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, r\u1ea1n n\u1ee9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec c\u00e2u n\u00f3i tr\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u201cEm th\u1ea5y anh l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t v\u1edbi em\u201d. Khi \u0111ang c\u00e3i nhau, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 l\u00e2u b\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n

S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb nh\u01b0 “lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n” v\u00e0 “kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd”<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u00fd \u00e1m ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd thay \u0111\u1ed5i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb coi th\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u0169ng v\u00f4 \u00edch n\u00ean h\u1ecd bu\u00f4ng xu\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham kh\u1ea3o th\u00eam nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n, t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng hay, \u0111\u00e1ng suy ng\u1eabm.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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