{"id":39300,"date":"2023-12-10T01:24:41","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:24:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/ban-cam-thay-ban-than-minh-tam-thuong-kem-coi-va-mai-chua-thanh-cong.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T10:43:46","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T10:43:46","slug":"ban-cam-thay-ban-than-minh-tam-thuong-kem-coi-va-mai-chua-thanh-cong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/ban-cam-thay-ban-than-minh-tam-thuong-kem-coi-va-mai-chua-thanh-cong.html","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi v\u00e0 m\u00e3i ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi v\u00e0 m\u00e3i ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng?<\/strong> Khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau b\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi gi\u00e1. H\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. T\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i v\u1eady? H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng Masterskills t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh hay c\u00f3 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng b\u1ea9m sinh? Ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p may m\u1eafn h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c?<\/p>\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 do h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u01b0\u1edfng ngay t\u1eeb khi sinh ra. Ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9 v\u00e0 ghen t\u1ef5 v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quen v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec sao m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta? C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n: V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf h\u1ecd, m\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u1eb1m \u1edf ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 b\u1ebf t\u1eafc. M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 r\u1ed3i b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c. C\u00f2n m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau b\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi gi\u00e1. V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec mong mu\u1ed1n hay ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i trong ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3?<\/p>\n

V\u00e0o sinh nh\u1eadt l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 16, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1y v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7, \u0111\u00f3ng ch\u1eb7t c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfng \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi: \u201cT\u1ea1i sao?<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh b\u01b0\u1edbc sang tu\u1ed5i 16 v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec trong \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 th\u1eadt. T\u00f4i nh\u1edb r\u1ea5t k\u1ef9 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i th\u1eadt n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi. L\u00fac \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i m\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 16 tu\u1ed5i. T\u00f4i c\u00f2n qu\u00e1 tr\u1ebb. V\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00f4i khi t\u00f4i b\u01b0\u1edbc sang tu\u1ed5i 18, 21,\u2026 M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi v\u00e0 m\u00e3i ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng?<\/h2>\n

Ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng ng\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i nh\u01b0ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c \u1ea5y r\u1ea5t ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. C\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau v\u00e0 kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 to l\u1edbn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u. Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 h\u00f4m nay n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 to l\u1edbn. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta b\u1ecb nu\u1ed1t ch\u1eedng b\u1edfi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ee7, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

Th\u00f4ng qua tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1ec1 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh xa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed7i s\u00e1ng t\u1ec9nh gi\u1ea5c t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau theo c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi v\u00e0 m\u00e3i ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

1. L\u1eadp danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/h2>\n

Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng qu\u00ean \u0111i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129. D\u00f9ng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u00e3y vi\u1ebft ra nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u d\u00f9 l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 coi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 t\u1ed1t nghi\u1ec7p trung h\u1ecdc hay mua xe. Vi\u1ebft n\u00f3 v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t m\u1ea9u gi\u1ea5y v\u00e0 g\u1eafn l\u00ean t\u01b0\u1eddng<\/strong>. Khi th\u1ea5y t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i \u201cT\u00f4i ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec c\u1ea3<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 vi\u1ebft l\u00fd l\u1ecbch. Khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00ean website v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc l\u00fd l\u1ecbch c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf tr\u00ed nh\u1edb t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u l\u1edbn trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n

2. \u0110\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c so s\u00e1nh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n, ki\u1ebfm nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n, \u01b0a nh\u00ecn h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n,\u2026 \u0110\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 ghen t\u1ecb ch\u1ebf ng\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c h\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e1n b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

: 10 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 doanh nghi\u1ec7p<\/p>\n

3. Lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n<\/h2>\n

S\u1ebd lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm \u00edt ti\u1ec1n h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n,… T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft t\u00f4i v\u1eeba m\u1edbi n\u00f3i \u201c\u0110\u1eebng so s\u00e1nh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/em>\u201d nh\u01b0ng ki\u1ec3u so s\u00e1nh n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c h\u01a1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y si\u00eau \u0111\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 ph\u1ee5 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p hay t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ch\u1eb3ng quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u v\u1edbi ung th\u01b0 ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m m\u1ea5t \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n. V\u1edbi v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, vi\u1ec7c h\u00edt th\u1edf kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed trong l\u00e0nh m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u l\u1edbn r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y t\u1eadp th\u00f3i quen c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. L\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u0169 kh\u00ed l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

4. C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh thu\u1ed9c d\u1ea1ng kh\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u1eafng nghe h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ee7 l\u00e2u v\u00e0 b\u1ecb v\u00e2y quanh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tin nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ch\u00ea bai m\u00e0 h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y t\u00ecm cho m\u00ecnh \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i \u201cT\u1edb t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 c\u1eadu! C\u1eadu \u0111ang l\u00e0m r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t r\u1ed3i! T\u1edb tin \u1edf c\u1eadu!<\/em>\u201d. L\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc phao c\u1ee9u sinh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eeda ch\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 c\u1ed5 v\u0169 b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd vi\u1ebft cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng t\u1edd ghi ch\u00fa nh\u1ecf, g\u1eedi b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng tin nh\u1eafn k\u00e8m theo emoji t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 an \u1ee7i b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 tinh th\u1ea7n. Vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi han b\u1ea1n th\u1ebf n\u00e0o r\u1ed3i, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nghi ng\u1edd b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean trong \u0111\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

: T\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c?<\/p>\n

5. T\u1eadp trung n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u201cb\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e3\u201d v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 sinh ra s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n. Khi b\u1ea1n d\u1eddi s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n cho l\u00e0 nh\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec3m. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt r\u1ea5t h\u1eefu \u00edch v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf. \u0110\u00e0o t\u1ea1o ai \u0111\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c phi l\u1ee3i nhu\u1eadn \u1edf \u0111\u1ecba ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. H\u00e3y t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Thay v\u00ec h\u1ecfi \u201cM\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh?<\/em>\u201d, h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi \u201cM\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd?<\/em>\u201d. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 h\u01a1n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c duy tr\u00ec nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua cu\u1ed9c \u0111ua v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 ganh \u0111ua (m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tin \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3). N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh d\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. D\u00f9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng. L\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n n\u1ebfu c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c suy ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec to l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1eddi b\u00e0i h\u00e1t t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 vi\u1ebft c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 “Paralyzed”, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u ch\u1eef n\u00e0y s\u1ebd c\u1ed5 v\u0169 b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c “t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi v\u00e0 m\u00e3i ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/em>” n\u00e0o m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00edch cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111ang \u00e1m t\u00f4i<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u00f4i qua nhanh qu\u00e1<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3<\/p>\n

C\u1ee9 chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi ch\u00fang bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t n\u1eefa<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecb ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Larissa Lam<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi v\u00e0 m\u00e3i ch\u01b0a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng? Khi \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau b\u1eb1ng […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39300"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39300"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39300\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39300"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39300"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39300"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}