{"id":39304,"date":"2023-12-10T01:24:50","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:24:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/ban-muon-thanh-cong-hay-ngung-lam-13-dieu-sau-day.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T10:43:25","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T10:43:25","slug":"ban-muon-thanh-cong-hay-ngung-lam-13-dieu-sau-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/ban-muon-thanh-cong-hay-ngung-lam-13-dieu-sau-day.html","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng? H\u00e3y ng\u01b0ng l\u00e0m 13 \u0111i\u1ec1u sau \u0111\u00e2y"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c:<\/p>\n

\u201cV\u00e0o ng\u00e0y cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e0y, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ea1m g\u1ea7n t\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u \u2013 m\u00e0 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1ee9.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf, cho d\u00f9 m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c nhau.<\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ngay h\u00f4m nay, trong khi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng Masterskills tham kh\u1ea3o 13 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1eeb b\u1ecf n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/strong> trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

1. T\u1eeb b\u1ecf l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh<\/h2>\n
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“H\u00e3y ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u01a1i duy nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng.<\/em>” – Jim Rohn<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Cho d\u00f9 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb s\u1ee9c kho\u1ebb. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 3 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ghi nh\u1edb:<\/p>\n

Tuy \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u01a1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

: 12 th\u00f3i quen cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/p>\n

2. T\u1eeb b\u1ecf l\u1ed1i t\u01b0 duy ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n
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\u201cB\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n. N\u1ebfu s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang c\u00e1ch th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7<\/em>.\u201d – Mae West<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau n\u00e0y l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a th\u00f3i quen ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m; m\u00e0 n\u00ean coi ch\u00fang l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

Ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c nhau gi\u1eefa \u201cLuy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u00e2n h\u00ecnh chu\u1ea9n v\u00e0o m\u00f9a h\u00e8<\/em>\u201d v\u00e0 \u201cLuy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n<\/em>\u201d.<\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

3. T\u1eeb b\u1ecf l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng t\u1ef1 ti<\/h2>\n
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\u201cVi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng gi\u00fap \u00edch g\u00ec cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft n\u00e0o n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng khi b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 b\u00f3 h\u1eb9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u00fap nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. S\u1ef1 t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u1edf m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u1edf trong m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta. V\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng, ch\u00fang ta v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c cho ph\u00e9p ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/em>\u201d \u2013 Marianne Williamson<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

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N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1eed v\u00e0 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft c\u00e1c c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd khai ph\u00e1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 l\u1ee3i \u00edch n\u00e0o t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng, \u0111\u1eebng s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng s\u1ee3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

4. T\u1eeb b\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa<\/h2>\n
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\u201cV\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf nh\u1eefng l\u00e1 b\u00e0i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chia, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i v\u00e1n b\u00e0i \u1ea5y<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 Randy Pausch<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh d\u00f9 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ra sao.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho nh\u1eefng g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1eeba \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3, v\u1eeba th\u00fa v\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. B\u1edfi ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi bi\u1ec7n minh l\u00e0m h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong c\u1ea3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch l\u1eabn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng ai kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea1n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

5. T\u1eeb b\u1ecf t\u01b0 duy b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7<\/h2>\n
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\u201cT\u01b0\u01a1ng lai thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p ch\u00fang theo c\u00e1c c\u00e1ch s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o.<\/em>\u201d \u2013 Robert Greene<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o th\u1ee7 th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m tr\u1eddi cho v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng t\u00e0i n\u0103ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 duy nh\u1ea5t s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9. Nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 sai.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1c. H\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u01b0 duy, ti\u1ebfp thu ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1edbi v\u00e0 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c theo h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y mai.<\/strong><\/p>\n

: T\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c?<\/p>\n

6. T\u1eeb b\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c tin v\u00e0o \u201cPh\u00e9p nhi\u1ec7m m\u00e0u\u201d<\/h2>\n
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\u201cTheo m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch,<\/em> m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y t\u00f4i \u0111ang tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 \u00c9mile Cou\u00e9<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

S\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 sau m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n nh\u1ecf t\u00edch l\u0169y li\u00ean t\u1ee5c theo th\u1eddi gian s\u1ebd mang \u0111\u1ebfn k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n n\u00ean l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n 1% m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

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\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

7. T\u1eeb b\u1ecf ch\u1ee7 ngh\u0129a ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o<\/h2>\n
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\u201cTh\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u00f2n h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 C\u00e2u th\u1ea7n ch\u00fa ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a H\u1ecdc vi\u1ec7n Khan.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, cho d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i (ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ee3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng) th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf ch\u00fang ta h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta c\u1ee9 ch\u1edd cho t\u1edbi khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n

\u201cH\u00e3y ti\u1ebfn b\u01b0\u1edbc<\/em>\u201d v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n 1% m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

8. Ng\u01b0ng l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t l\u00fac<\/h2>\n
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“H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian \u0111a nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng. B\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fac nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y sang nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 kh\u00e1c<\/em>.” – Bosco Tjan<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3. D\u00f9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng kinh doanh, m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n hay m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n.<\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f9ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

9. Ng\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9<\/h2>\n
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\u201cM\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta.<\/em>\u201d \u2013 Tri\u1ebft gia Stoic, Epictetus<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u1eb1m trong t\u1ea7m ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f4i khi, \u0111i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1eafp x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

10. Ng\u1eebng n\u00f3i \u201cC\u00f3\u201d v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u00edch cho m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n
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\u201cAi mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00edt th\u00ec b\u1ecf \u00edt c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c; ai mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c; ai mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec ph\u1ea3i lao t\u00e2m kh\u1ed5 t\u1ee9.<\/em>\u201d \u2013 James Allen<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i KH\u00d4NG v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng hay y\u00eau c\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u00edch g\u00ec t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n

Trong ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi, s\u1ef1 hy sinh \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap \u00edch cho m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

: B\u00ed k\u00edp \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

11. Ng\u1eebng giao du v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t<\/h2>\n
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“Tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. H\u1ecd lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 cho m\u1ecdi gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p<\/em>.” \u2014 Albert Einstein<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean giao du c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn t\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm l\u00fd do bi\u1ec7n minh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nhanh h\u01a1n. H\u00e3y quan s\u00e1t nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quanh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

12. Ng\u1eebng l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/h2>\n
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“B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 tr\u00e1i \u0111\u00e0o ch\u00edn m\u1ecdng v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u n\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gh\u00e9t \u0111\u00e0o<\/em>.” – Dita Von Teese<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

H\u00e3y coi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e1ch. S\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch ph\u00e2n kh\u00fac th\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch. D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi th\u00edch b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 gia t\u0103ng c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u00e3y nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c s\u1ed1 \u201cng\u01b0\u1eddi gh\u00e9t b\u1ea1n\u201d s\u1ebd t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 thu\u1eadn v\u1edbi m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n

13. T\u1eeb b\u1ecf vi\u1ec7c ti\u00eau t\u1ed1n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian<\/h2>\n
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\u201cV\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian.<\/em>\u201d \u2013 Jack Kornfield<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u00ean cu\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n n\u1ee3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i bao xa. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf th\u00f3i quen ti\u00eau t\u1ed1n th\u1eddi gian v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 ng\u1eebng cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung, ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng t\u1ed1i \u0111a 24 gi\u1edd trong ng\u00e0y. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng di s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00eam phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3: Zdravko Cvijetic<\/em><\/p>\n

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