{"id":39310,"date":"2023-12-10T01:25:02","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:25:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/quan-niem-sai-lam-nhat-ve-tu-duy-thanh-cong-ma-nhieu-nguoi-van-cho-la-dung.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T10:41:49","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T10:41:49","slug":"quan-niem-sai-lam-nhat-ve-tu-duy-thanh-cong-ma-nhieu-nguoi-van-cho-la-dung","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/quan-niem-sai-lam-nhat-ve-tu-duy-thanh-cong-ma-nhieu-nguoi-van-cho-la-dung.html","title":{"rendered":"Quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn cho l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb v\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u201ct\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb g\u00ec \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean?<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1eeb kh\u00f3a \u201csuy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c\u201d ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u danh s\u00e1ch. Trong khi t\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 quan tr\u1ecdng t\u1eeb c\u00e1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

\"Quan<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 n\u1eafm v\u1eefng v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng (v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu l\u1ee3i \u00edch t\u1eeb n\u00f3), \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t g\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hai l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 quan ni\u1ec7m sai l\u1ea7m nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn cho l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang!<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng?<\/h2>\n

Gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea7m gi\u1eefa suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1edbi t\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, h\u1ecd nhanh ch\u00f3ng nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh suy ngh\u0129 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng, th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng – th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n b\u1ea1n (kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u01b0 duy), k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e2u.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 ng\u1eafn.<\/p>\n

\"Quan<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u00ean quan nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng t\u01b0 duy, cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fang ta nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu h\u00e0nh vi g\u00f3p ph\u1ea7n t\u1ea1o n\u00ean th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. T\u01b0 duy l\u00e0 t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9, s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, chuy\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

Do \u0111\u00f3, t\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u1eadp h\u1ee3p s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng mang l\u1ea1i k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 trong c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec?<\/h2>\n

\"Quan<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb t\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng suy ngh\u0129 (v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng) nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ban \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0 Richard Branson hay Tony Robbins th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nh\u01b0:<\/p>\n

Khi nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd ch\u1ecdn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1ea1c quan v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf (v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi ho\u00e0i nghi) v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

V\u00ec th\u1ebf, ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1ea1c quan, m\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong, h\u01a1n vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o b\u1ec1 n\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1! B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00f4ng mong suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u2013 thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean trong s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i<\/strong> v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i!<\/p>\n

\"Quan<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra m\u1ed9t s\u1edbm m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 th\u00f3i quen suy ngh\u0129 l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 cam k\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c nh\u1eefng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf v\u00e0 thay th\u1ebf ch\u00fang b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u01a1i t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. Nh\u01b0 Tony Robbins n\u00f3i, ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra.<\/p>\n

Theo \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i – t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy n\u1ebfu th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nghi\u00eam t\u00fac v\u00e0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. H\u00e3y \u00fd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi t\u01b0 duy m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u01b0 duy c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c 24 gi\u1edd. N\u00f3 qu\u1ea3 th\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u0169ng v\u1eady \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n

T\u00edch c\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9.<\/h2>\n

\"Quan<\/p>\n

T\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ebfn t\u01b0 duy t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/strong>. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebd l\u00e0m c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n! V\u00ed d\u1ee5, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn n\u00ean t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i thay v\u00ec ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i v\u1eadt v\u00e0 b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n

B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ed1t, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u00e0 gi\u00fap ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef v\u1eefng trong th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i!<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb v\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u201ct\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng\u201d xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb g\u00ec \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean? \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, t\u1eeb kh\u00f3a \u201csuy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c\u201d ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u danh s\u00e1ch. Trong khi t\u01b0 duy th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng bao g\u1ed3m vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39310"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39310"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39310\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39310"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39310"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39310"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}