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Trong cu\u1ed1n \u201cThe greatest salesman in the world<\/em>\u201d (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: \u201cNg\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi”<\/em>) c\u1ee7a O.G Mandino<\/strong>, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00eau ra r\u1eb1ng:<\/p>\n

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“Trong s\u1ed1 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i may ch\u0103ng c\u00f3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng theo c\u00e1ch gi\u1ed1ng nhau, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn theo c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 do m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau kh\u1ea3 d\u0129 n\u00e0o trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/em>.”<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Trong khi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng mang t\u00ednh t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u1ee7 quan, gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u00f3a v\u00e0 phi l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u00f3a th\u00e0nh ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c th\u00ec th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c gi\u1ed1ng nhau “tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t<\/em>“. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 10 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng hay g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong vi\u1ec7c v\u01b0\u01a1n t\u1edbi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau<\/strong>. M\u1eddi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tham kh\u1ea3o!<\/p>\n

1. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi gian<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecd<\/p>\n

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\u201cB\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 doanh nh\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u00e0o c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft th\u1eddi gian c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u01a1n ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 Richard Branson.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u1edf m\u1ecdi l\u00fac, m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i v\u00ec h\u1ecd thi\u1ebfu \u0111i kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1eadp trung th\u1eddi gian h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1 ra. V\u00e0 khi th\u1eddi gian tr\u00f4i qua, h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n m\u1edbi – \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 b\u1edfi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng m\u00e0ng t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi \u0111\u00edch.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ea7n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

2. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecd<\/p>\n

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\u201cKh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 Roy Disney.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u00e0ng quan tr\u1ecdng, c\u00e0ng n\u1eb1m \u1edf v\u1ecb tr\u00ed cao h\u01a1n tr\u00ean thang gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb, c\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi t\u00ednh k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa s\u1ef1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi n\u0103ng su\u1ea5t l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c<\/strong>. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o h\u1ecd c\u0169ng l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u00edt nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y ghi ch\u00e9p l\u1ea1i m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau, chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ch\u00fang v\u00e0o s\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

3. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng d\u1ea5n b\u01b0\u1edbc<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecd<\/p>\n

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“M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u1edf m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u1edf nh\u1eefng l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c kh\u00e1c, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? Hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng<\/em>.” \u2013 Stephen Covey<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

S\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t t\u1ec7, b\u1ea1n gh\u00e9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 l\u01a1 l\u00e0 v\u00e0 tr\u1ec5 n\u1ea3i trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3 c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 n\u00ean h\u00e3y l\u00e0m t\u1eed t\u1ebf. Cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u00e2n qu\u1ea3, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m sao th\u00ec s\u1ebd h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1eady<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Theo \u0111u\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 \u01b0u t\u00fa trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 kh\u00f4n ngoan c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u00e9m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eadn t\u00e2m t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 gi\u00fap \u00edch cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp. R\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c, vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u1ecdc sinh \u01b0u t\u00fa kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n do b\u1ea1n th\u00f4ng minh \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u, m\u00e0 b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch v\u00e0 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 mang \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

: 20 \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn<\/p>\n

4. T\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecd<\/p>\n

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\u201cB\u1ea1n cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh ra sao th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 Oprah Winfrey<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0: “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi t\u00ednh to\u00e1n<\/em>“, “T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 gh\u00e9t vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc<\/em>” v\u00e0 “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t doanh nghi\u1ec7p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng<\/em>“. H\u1ecd t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1eb7t ra gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa cho h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c ra ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd l\u00e0m d\u01b0\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eafm \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf ngay suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng hay kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n cho m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Ng\u1eebng ngay suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng minh b\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebf b\u00ean b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y c\u1ea7n \u1edf b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t huy t\u1ed1i \u0111a kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong> cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

5. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecd<\/p>\n

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\u201cN\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t h\u00e3y l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb t\u1ed1t<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 Bill Gates<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm ra nh\u1eefng l\u00fd do v\u00e0 l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng v\u00ec sao h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean. \u0110\u00f4i khi, h\u1ecd nh\u1ea7m t\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00f3i quen x\u1ea5u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 “nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf<\/em>“. H\u1ecd thi\u1ebfu kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9 cho vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd d\u00e1m th\u1eed.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1ch kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 d\u1eebng ngay l\u1ea1i khi trong \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i c\u1edb v\u00e0 b\u1eaft tay v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1ed1n d\u0129 sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 th\u00f4ng minh m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3<\/p>\n

6. Thi\u1ebfu t\u00ednh c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecd<\/p>\n

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\u201cB\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap \u00edch g\u00ec cho h\u1ecd<\/em>.\u201d \u2015 Johann Wolfgang von Goethe<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng thi\u1ebfu \u0111i s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4n ngoan v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0: “\u1ed2, ch\u00ed \u00edt th\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u0169ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt<\/em>” hay “Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4i l\u00e0 v\u1eady, th\u00edch l\u00e0m g\u00ec th\u00ec l\u00e0m<\/em>“. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong> v\u00e0 trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat l\u00fd ch\u00ed g\u00ec. Hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean, ch\u1eb3ng ai th\u00edch m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u1ed3i l\u00ea \u0111\u00f4i m\u00e1ch, kho\u00e1c l\u00e1c, khoe khoang th\u1ea5p k\u00e9m hay nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen ng\u1ee3i. Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c n\u00ean l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau qu\u00fd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed t\u1eed t\u1ebf v\u00e0 l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u01b0a hay lu\u00f4n b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 ch\u00ed \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n th\u00e0nh th\u1ee5c. C\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eed t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9ng x\u1ebfp h\u00e0ng ch\u1edd, c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd x\u1eed l\u00fd b\u00f3ng \u0111\u00e8n Gi\u00e1ng sinh v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng khi ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n

7. Hay m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng h\u00e3o huy\u1ec1n<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecd<\/p>\n

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\u201cCh\u1ec9 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0y mai nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c t\u1edbi ch\u1ebft b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh.<\/em>\u201d \u2013 Pablo Picasso<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u1ef1c c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng th\u1eddi gian<\/strong>. H\u1ecd ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f2n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ef1 ph\u00f2ng v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

H\u1ecd nh\u00ecn m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng xem ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec1u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd b\u1ea5m n\u00fat \u201cti\u1ebfp theo<\/em>\u201d, \u201ctua l\u1ea1i<\/em>\u201d ho\u1eb7c \u201ct\u1ea1m d\u1eebng<\/em>\u201d. H\u00e3y hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ebft \u0111i ngay t\u1eeb th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra. H\u00e3y s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u1eafc n\u1ee3 v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 trong 24 gi\u1edd, b\u1edfi v\u00ec ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay ch\u1eb3ng ai h\u1ee9a ch\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y mai<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

8. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecd<\/p>\n

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\u201cL\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay, t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft \u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 Les Brown<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00ednh b\u1edfi quy lu\u1eadt cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y qu\u00e1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta lu\u00f4n coi th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i d\u1ea5u \u1ea5n c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghe r\u1ea5t hay v\u00e0 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 xem ch\u1eebng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea5n b\u01b0\u1edbc<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Ng\u1eebng m\u01a1 m\u1ed9ng v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn, m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec x\u1ea5u nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y th\u1ee9c d\u1eady, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 L\u00c0M \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3<\/strong>. H\u00e3y ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u00e0 ph\u00ea chuy\u1ec7n tr\u00f2 “v\u00f4 \u00edch<\/em>” v\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i.<\/p>\n

9. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecd<\/p>\n

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\u201cC\u1ee9 m\u00e3i n\u1eafng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u01b0a th\u00ec t\u1ea5t th\u00e0nh sa m\u1ea1c<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 T\u1ee5c ng\u1eef \u1ea2 R\u1eadp<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa b\u00e9 ch\u0103n c\u1eebu, c\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfn binh v\u00e0 c\u1eadu r\u1ea5t b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf. C\u1eadu nh\u00ecn t\u00ean kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3 v\u00e0 n\u00f3i: \u201cTa s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 c\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u01a1i<\/em>\u201d v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u1eadu \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n

V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 thu\u1eadn v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng<\/strong> v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u00f3 t\u1ef7 l\u1ec7 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m <\/strong>c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 h\u1ecd t\u1eeb b\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm ngay khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n hoa h\u1ed3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gai, c\u00f3 con m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111au \u0111\u1ebb v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u0169 v\u00e0ng n\u1eb1m ph\u00eda cu\u1ed1i c\u1ea7u v\u1ed3ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua b\u00e3o t\u1ed1.<\/p>\n

V\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u1eed th\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0a ta g\u1ea7n t\u1edbi \u0111\u00edch h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n bi\u1ebfn ta th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng. \u0110\u1eebng e ng\u1ea1i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ea5t m\u1edbi, b\u01b0\u1edbc ra ngo\u00e0i v\u00f9ng an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 th\u1eed th\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Trong kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n s\u1ef1 d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh<\/strong>. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ed \u00edt th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1ed5ng l\u1ed3 r\u1eb1ng h\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng h\u1eb3n to l\u1edbn nh\u01b0 h\u1eafn ngh\u0129.<\/p>\n

10. B\u00e0ng quan v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecd<\/p>\n

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\u201cV\u00ec ng\u01b0\u01a1i l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea1nh n\u00ean ta s\u1ebd nh\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u01a1i ra kh\u1ecfi mi\u1ec7ng<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 S\u00e1ch Kh\u1ea3i Huy\u1ec1n 3:16, Kinh th\u00e1nh.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

V\u00e2ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trung l\u1eadp<\/strong>. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 \u1edf tr\u00ean m\u1ee9c ngu d\u1ed1t th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 c\u1edfi m\u1edf n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

H\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean nh\u00ecn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi theo c\u00e1ch gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd th\u1edd \u01a1 v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 c\u00e1i g\u00ec. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n \u201cki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c l\u1ec5 nghi<\/em>\u201d v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u01a1n t\u1edbi ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng cao nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng sao v\u00ec trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y b\u00ed \u1ea9n v\u00e0 k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u h\u1ecd v\u1eabn t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t. S\u1ef1 b\u00e0ng quan l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7m l\u1eb7ng<\/strong>. H\u00e3y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n \u0111am m\u00ea, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec1n t\u1eeb n\u00f3. H\u00e3y t\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng t\u00e0i n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 phi th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129<\/strong>. H\u1ecd kh\u00e1 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f2n \u0111i\u1ec3m g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ee9ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 v\u1eabn \u1edf nguy\u00ean \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1eef k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u01b0 x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang m\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 mu\u1ed1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y qu\u00e1 t\u1ea3i v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i xu\u1ed1ng, ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

: 13 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111ang “l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed” th\u1eddi gian m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 \u00edch<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

“Trong s\u1ed1 h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i may ch\u0103ng c\u00f3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng theo c\u00e1ch gi\u1ed1ng nhau, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn theo c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 do m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau kh\u1ea3 d\u0129 n\u00e0o trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/em>.”<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39332"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39332"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39332\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39332"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39332"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39332"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}