{"id":39342,"date":"2023-12-10T01:26:17","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:26:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/ky-nang-giao-tiep-hieu-qua-khi-ca-hai-dang-bat-dong-quan-diem.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T10:35:54","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T10:35:54","slug":"ky-nang-giao-tiep-hieu-qua-khi-ca-hai-dang-bat-dong-quan-diem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/ky-nang-giao-tiep-hieu-qua-khi-ca-hai-dang-bat-dong-quan-diem.html","title":{"rendered":"K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 khi c\u1ea3 hai \u0111ang b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai trong ch\u00fang ta. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, b\u1edfi n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh th\u00ec r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3, g\u00e2y m\u1ea5t h\u00f2a kh\u00ed.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u00eam \u0111\u1eb9p, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fat c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng?<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean: B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00d4ng b\u00e0 ta n\u00f3i qu\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng sai \u201cBi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft ta, tr\u0103m tr\u1eadn tr\u0103m th\u1eafng\u201d, v\u1eady n\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean d\u00e0nh ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf phe \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

B\u1ecf ra m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m chung c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn t\u1ed5ng qu\u00e1t h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ebfp theo: C\u00f9ng th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quy t\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u1ede \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng v\u1eady, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 cao nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec quy t\u1eafc lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fa tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng \u0111i \u0103n tr\u01b0a ho\u1eb7c c\u00e0 ph\u00ea. Sau khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, 2 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 quy t\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 trong cu\u1ed9c b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, trung th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe. T\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u01b0 x\u1eed m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u0103n minh, h\u00f2a b\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ee9 ba: T\u1eadn d\u1ee5ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eb7t ra m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi xung quanh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb n\u00f3i t\u1edbi l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecf qua \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1eb7t ra nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng gi\u00fap v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi s\u1ebd gi\u00fap h\u1ec7 th\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng gi\u1eefa quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111ang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng nghe.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ee9 t\u01b0: Gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng to l\u1edbn, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u00e0 m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1eadp luy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

Khi cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u201ch\u1eafn\u201d tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, l\u00fac n\u00e0y thay v\u00ec c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u00e0y t\u1ecf nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u1ea3n bi\u1ec7n l\u1ea1i \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00ean b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, h\u00edt th\u1edf th\u1eadt s\u00e2u v\u00e0 h\u1ea1 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh xu\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n sang m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c, t\u1ea1o s\u1ef1 th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n cho b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 hai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u00edch th\u00fa, b\u1ecf qua nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1eeba r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng: Kh\u00f4ng gi\u1eef \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/strong><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n m\u00e3i mang nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00ec m\u00e3i m\u00e3i b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp chung v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta sinh ra kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ea3, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y k\u1ebb kh\u00e1c, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t th\u00edch th\u00fa tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn. Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n s\u01a1 s\u1ea3y m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u00f4i, xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ed3i k\u1ebft. K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3, cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

V\u1eady n\u00ean, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e3y n\u00ean h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai trong ch\u00fang ta. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng di\u1ec5n ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f9ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Trong nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, b\u1edfi n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh th\u00ec r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3, g\u00e2y m\u1ea5t h\u00f2a kh\u00ed.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39342"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39342"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39342\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39342"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39342"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39342"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}