{"id":39427,"date":"2023-12-10T01:29:18","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:29:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nghe-thuat-ung-xu-khi-duoc-ai-do-khen-ngoi.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T10:20:23","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T10:20:23","slug":"nghe-thuat-ung-xu-khi-duoc-ai-do-khen-ngoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nghe-thuat-ung-xu-khi-duoc-ai-do-khen-ngoi.html","title":{"rendered":"Ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt \u1ee9ng x\u1eed khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai \u0111\u00f3 khen ng\u1ee3i"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, c\u00f3 l\u1ebd ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng th\u00edch nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00f3, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khen, b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i th\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1ecf ra b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 th\u1ea3n nhi\u00ean, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ch\u1ea5t trong l\u00f2ng \u0111ang vui s\u01b0\u1edbng.<\/p>\n

Theo c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i th\u01b0\u1eddng ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn theo 3 c\u00e1ch: ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ebb b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb cao ng\u1ea1o nh\u01b0ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb xem l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng khi\u1ebfm nh\u00e3 v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i l\u1eabn ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe \u0111\u1ec1u b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i. V\u1eady n\u00ean, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9 l\u1eddi khen b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1nh l\u1ea1c h\u01b0\u1edbng.<\/p>\n

\"Ngh\u1ec7<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00ean v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi khen c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3<\/h2>\n

1. Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/strong><\/p>\n

Khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen t\u1eeb ai \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi \u0111\u00f4i khi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 trung th\u1ef1c. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c \u201cqu\u00e1 khen\u201d m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi t\u00e1n d\u01b0\u01a1ng, h\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 thu\u1eadn theo t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/p>\n

2. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u1edd \u0111i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Ngh\u1ec7<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i l\u1edd \u0111i l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00f3, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, khi b\u1ea1n l\u1edd \u0111i l\u1eddi khen n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ngh\u0129, ch\u1eafc h\u1ecd n\u00f3i qu\u00e1 nh\u1ecf n\u00ean b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nghe r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd n\u00f3i v\u00e0 th\u1eadt ng\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi hai l\u1ea7n. Khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khen, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i, b\u1edfi l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

3. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u1ef1 h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ed1 t\u1ecf ra khi\u00ean t\u1ed1n, tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m nh\u1eb9 l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai \u0111\u00f3 khen b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i theo ki\u1ec3u: “\u00d4i, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u” ho\u1eb7c “Ai c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4i”. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea5y. Vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t hai l\u00ed do \u0111\u1ec3 dung h\u00f2a nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen hay n\u00f3i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e3ng qu\u00ean gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ghi nh\u1edb khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen<\/h2>\n

1. B\u00e0y t\u1ecf l\u00f2ng c\u1ea3m k\u00edch v\u00e0 gi\u1eef cho m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Ngh\u1ec7<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai. C\u1ea3m \u01a1n m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

2. Ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 hay bi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi giao ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd. B\u1edfi khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng hay kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i kh\u00e1c nhau. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean khoanh tay ho\u1eb7c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m khi giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang g\u00e2y s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd.<\/p>\n

\"Ngh\u1ec7<\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, h\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o m\u1eaft \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, nghi\u00eang ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung h\u01a1n v\u00e0o c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u c\u1ea3m khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f4i b\u00ean \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

3. Chia s\u1ebb nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng g\u1eafn c\u00f4ng lao cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ai trong ch\u00fang ta, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap s\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng lao cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

N\u00ean n\u00f3i g\u00ec sau khi b\u00e0y t\u1ecf l\u00f2ng bi\u1ebft \u01a1n<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i nh\u1ea5t. Sau khi n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i hay l\u00e0m g\u00ec ti\u1ebfp theo. L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 h\u00e3y d\u00f9ng n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft th\u00fac c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng n\u00ean c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 h\u00e3y th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 d\u00f9ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n ti\u1ebfp sang m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u01b0a c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111i xa h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

\"Ngh\u1ec7<\/p>\n

V\u00ed d\u1ee5: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fac m\u1eebng v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i th\u01b0\u1edfng cho m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c thi ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn cho s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1 \u00e1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i: \u201cC\u1ea3m \u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u! T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t th\u00edch s\u1ef1 c\u1ea1nh tranh khi l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong d\u1ef1 \u00e1n n\u00e0y…\u201d V\u00e0 r\u1ed3i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi khen t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn cho m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p trong t\u1eebng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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