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“Ng\u01b0\u1eddi truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng cho b\u1ea1n hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n – h\u00e3y l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4n ngoan<\/em>.” – Hans Hensen<\/strong><\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n quen, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p hay kh\u00f4ng? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i l\u00f2ng tin c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, gieo r\u1eafc nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch bi\u1ec7t ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh, b\u1edfi ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 “lo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1eadt x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/em>” – s\u1ed1ng theo b\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e0n. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng, l\u00f2ng tr\u1eafc \u1ea9n v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t x\u00fac t\u00e1c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ea5u b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh xa 10 ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi sau, hay \u00edt nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t.<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111eo b\u00e1m \u0111\u1ec3 chi\u1ebfm l\u1ea5y qu\u1ef9 th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3u<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 l\u1ebd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh hay b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o\u1ea1t th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng t\u00ean c\u01b0\u1edbp! Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nghe th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. H\u1ecd l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u00fac mu\u00f4n thu\u1edf v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p t\u1eeb h\u1ecd c\u1ea3. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 \u0111\u1ee7 c\u1ea3 cho v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mi\u1ec5n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m cho b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac b\u1ea1n n\u00ean gi\u1ea3m thi\u1ec3u t\u1ed1i \u0111a vi\u1ec7c ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd ng\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c tho\u00e1t kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y th\u1eed m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 chi\u1ebfn thu\u1eadt nh\u01b0 t\u1eaft \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh trong ng\u00e0y ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ph\u00e1t ra c\u00e1c tin nh\u1eafn kh\u1ea9n c\u1ea5p. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

2. Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh\/ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3u<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng t\u00e2m lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tuy nhi\u00ean n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n\/ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac b\u1ea1n n\u00ean ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i. Khi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t g\u00f3p \u00fd, m\u00e0 h\u01a1i c\u00f3 h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u00f9 d\u1eadp, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean m\u1eb7c k\u1ec7 h\u1ecd.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng gi\u00fap \u00edch g\u00ec v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nghe.<\/p>\n

3. Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch \u0111\u00f3ng vai n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n trong m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3u<\/p>\n

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Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia trong tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eadn tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t hay l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u1ecd lu\u00f4n cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n, gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1nh xa ra b\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi gi\u00e1, v\u00ec bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u c\u00f3 ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb h\u1ecd “\u0111\u00e2m sau l\u01b0ng<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

4. Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n mang trong m\u00ecnh th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3u<\/p>\n

Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t t\u00e1n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u0103n b\u1ec7nh truy\u1ec1n nhi\u1ec5m t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. H\u00e3y ti\u00eam v\u1eafc-xin ph\u00f2ng ng\u1eeba b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1nh xa h\u1ecd ra. Bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ea5y c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n lo l\u1eafng, \u01b0u phi\u1ec1n, bi quan, suy s\u1ee5p tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t hay ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng l\u00e2u h\u01a1n<\/strong>; b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 l\u1ea1c quan s\u1ebd t\u0103ng tu\u1ed5i th\u1ecd ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111au bu\u1ed3n hay ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. M\u1ed9t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Yale cho th\u1ea5y: quan ni\u1ec7m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n k\u00e9o d\u00e0i th\u00eam 7 n\u0103m tu\u1ed5i th\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

5. Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh v\u00e0 ti\u00eau di\u1ec7t n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3u<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 c\u1ea1n ki\u1ec7t n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng c\u01a1n b\u1ed9c ph\u00e1t ngu xu\u1ea9n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed7i tr\u1ebb con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u1ee9? Ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ebd th\u1eed th\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y tr\u00fat c\u01a1n gi\u1eadn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ecbu tr\u1eadn? Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3ng n\u1ea3y, d\u1ec5 m\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh th\u00ec c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng<\/strong>. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i cho h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb tr\u00ed trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

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“T\u00f4i c\u00f2n nh\u1edb m\u00ecnh t\u1eebng ch\u1ee9ng ki\u1ebfn c\u1ea3nh b\u00e1c s\u0129 s\u1ec9 v\u1ea3, m\u1eafng m\u1ecf v\u00e0 la h\u00e9t con trai \u00f4ng \u1ea5y qua \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i trong l\u00fac ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ee3i t\u1edbi l\u01b0\u1ee3t kh\u00e1m. Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp khi ph\u1ea3i nghe nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ed5i b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c!<\/em>” – Anna Chui <\/strong>cho bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

6. Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3u<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u00e0o v\u00f2ng quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; l\u00fd do \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0: h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n m\u01b0\u1ee3n \u201c\u0111\u00f4i tai<\/em>\u201d \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m hay th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng l\u00fac b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n h\u1ecd \u1edf b\u00ean. T\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u00eca kh\u00f3a \u0111\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u1ee9ng x\u1eed \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00fd do m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n

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\u201cT\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb bi l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 xa x\u1ec9. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fang th\u00ec nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 sinh t\u1ed3n<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 Dalai Lama<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n

7. Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u00e0 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n
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\u201cL\u1eeba d\u1ed1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi im l\u1eb7ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i<\/em>.\u201d – Adrienne Rich\u200b<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n

M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ec1 th\u1ed1t h\u1ee9a gi\u1eef b\u00ed m\u1eadt khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd nghe chuy\u1ec7n ri\u00eang t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh chuy\u1ec7n-m\u00e0-ai-ai-c\u0169ng-bi\u1ebft th\u00ec c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn mu\u1ed1n t\u1eeb m\u1eb7t n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng tin c\u1eady c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n chuy\u1ec7n n\u1ee3 n\u1ea7n ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 m\u01b0\u1ee3n ti\u1ec1n r\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3u<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n: ni\u1ec1m tin, t\u00ednh trung th\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

8. Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ednh to\u00e1n v\u00e0 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i k\u1ebb ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1edd v\u1ea3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft. V\u0169 kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n phi\u1ebfm c\u00f3 xen l\u1eabn nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 h\u01b0 c\u1ea5u c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3u<\/p>\n

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Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i b\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 v\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea5u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u1ee9ng tuy\u1ec3n v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n r\u00f9ng r\u1ee3n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, v\u1ec1 s\u1ebfp v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c l\u01b0\u01a1ng ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n. \u0110i\u1ec1u c\u1ed1t y\u1ebfu l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd gi\u1ea3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7 v\u00e0 mang l\u1ee3i \u00edch v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n t\u00ednh to\u00e1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch moi th\u00f4ng tin t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, r\u1ed3i d\u00f9ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng s\u1ef1 r\u1ed9ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 l\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 hi\u1ebfm khi b\u00e1o \u0111\u00e1p g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n. T\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh xa nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf v\u00ec h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 l\u1ee3i d\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1n th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

9. Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 \u00fd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3u<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong nh\u00f3m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au l\u00f2ng. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ba m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n bu\u00f4ng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch d\u1ea1y con nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong khi c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 h\u1ecd gi\u00e1o d\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i g\u00ec l\u1edbn lao; hay ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i b\u00e2ng qu\u01a1 nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 trung th\u1ef1c, si\u00eang n\u0103ng v\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng d\u1ecbp kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u00fang l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n y\u00eau qu\u00fd, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m theo b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 qu\u00ean g\u1ecdi cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean b\u1ecf qua. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f4ng k\u00edch b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 l\u00fd do m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh xa h\u1ecd ra.<\/p>\n

10. Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3u<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 an to\u00e0n, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe v\u00e0 sinh t\u1ed3n? Theo nh\u00e2n h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 n\u00f3i th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u00fd, b\u1edfi k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean Tr\u00e1i \u0110\u1ea5t, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng g\u00ec. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00e0 ch\u00fang lu\u00f4n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1ed7i lo s\u1ee3 th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a 1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi?!<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, c\u00f3 t\u1eeb 75% \u0111\u1ebfn 90% nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i kh\u00e1m b\u00e1c s\u0129 th\u00ec b\u1ecb m\u1eafc c\u00e1c b\u1ec7nh li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng<\/strong>. C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0i s\u1ebd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ee7 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh r\u1ed3i, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i lo th\u00eam vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay b\u1ecb c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng xung quanh ta n\u1eefa. C\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 “s\u1ed1ng s\u00f3t<\/em>” trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

C\u00f2n b\u1ea1n th\u00ec sao, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o trong b\u00e0i v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? N\u1ebfu c\u00f3, h\u00e3y chia s\u1ebb kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

: 8 ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh c\u00e0ng xa c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201cT\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 l\u00f2ng t\u1eeb bi l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 xa x\u1ec9. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fang th\u00ec nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 sinh t\u1ed3n<\/em>.\u201d \u2013 Dalai Lama<\/strong>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39429"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39429"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39429\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39429"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39429"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39429"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}