{"id":39524,"date":"2023-12-10T01:32:31","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:32:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/bo-ngay-9-cau-noi-duoi-day-neu-ban-khong-muon-nguoi-nghe-cam-thay-kho-chiu.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T10:01:22","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T10:01:22","slug":"bo-ngay-9-cau-noi-duoi-day-neu-ban-khong-muon-nguoi-nghe-cam-thay-kho-chiu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/bo-ngay-9-cau-noi-duoi-day-neu-ban-khong-muon-nguoi-nghe-cam-thay-kho-chiu.html","title":{"rendered":"B\u1ecf ngay 9 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu!"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u00d4ng cha ta ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft: “L\u1eddi n\u00f3i ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5t ti\u1ec1n mua, l\u1ef1a l\u1eddi m\u00e0 n\u00f3i cho v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng nhau<\/em>“. V\u1eady m\u00e0 tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 \u00fd, ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 th\u1edd \u01a1 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Trong b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng v\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 minh h\u1ecda cho nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn “th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda<\/em>” \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ghi nh\u1edb v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh 9 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y ra \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong> nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

“T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o r\u1ed3i” – “T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft ngay m\u00e0!”<\/h2>\n

\""T\u00f4i<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e2u ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ai ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u00fac m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m. V\u00ec v\u1eady, m\u1ed9t khi chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch m\u00f3c hay \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai<\/strong>. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean nh\u1eafc \u0111i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nghe. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 h\u01a1n h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

“\u1eea\u201d – “Okay”<\/h2>\n

\""T\u00f4i<\/p>\n

\""T\u00f4i<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd trong khi m\u1eb7t v\u1eabn t\u1ec9nh b\u01a1 th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nghi ng\u1edd v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u1ea3 thi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Li\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u “\u1eea<\/em>” c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 “\u1eea, t\u00ed n\u1eefa t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00e0m<\/em>” hay “\u1eea, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m<\/em>“. V\u00ec v\u1eady, \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a th\u00ec n\u00ean th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ngay, \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eafc \u0111i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

“Xin l\u1ed7i nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i th\u1eadt nh\u00e9…”<\/h2>\n

\""T\u00f4i<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eb1ng sau c\u00e2u n\u00f3i “Xin l\u1ed7i nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i th\u1eadt nh\u00e9…<\/em>” ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ch\u1eb3ng hay ho g\u00ec. T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n xin l\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e3i n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 x\u1ea5u x\u00ed v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ee9? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

“C\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111\u00e2u” – “C\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00e2u”<\/h2>\n

\""T\u00f4i<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y th\u1eed t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1eb1ng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00edch r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00edch. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u nh\u01b0 “C\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111\u00e2u<\/em>” hay “C\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00e2u<\/em>” ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang cho r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n khinh th\u1ecb h\u1ecd ch\u1ee9 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 cho h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e2u. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 c\u01b0 x\u1eed t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

“C\u1eadu c\u00f3 n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1edbi t\u1edb \u0111\u00e2u” – \u201cC\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3\u201d<\/h2>\n

\""T\u00f4i<\/p>\n

\""T\u00f4i<\/p>\n

D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd qu\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i. Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n? T\u1ea1i sao ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn h\u1ebft l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i c\u00e2u “C\u1eadu c\u00f3 n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u1edbi t\u1edb \u0111\u00e2u<\/em>” hay \u201cC\u1eadu kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi t\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3<\/em>\u201d. L\u1ea7n sau l\u00e0m \u01a1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

“T\u00f4i \u0111ang nghe” – “T\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u m\u00e0”<\/h2>\n

\""T\u00f4i<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111ang n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ch\u1edd s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 nghe v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. N\u00f3i c\u00e2u “T\u00f4i \u0111ang nghe<\/em>” hay “T\u00f4i hi\u1ec3u m\u00e0<\/em>” trong khi m\u1ea3i m\u00ea l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd g\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111ang ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i \u00fd ki\u1ebfn t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c b\u1ea5t l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1<\/strong>. M\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0n b\u1ea1c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c t\u1eeb c\u1ea3 hai ph\u00eda th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

“Tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i \u0111i!”<\/h2>\n

\""T\u00f4i<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u an \u1ee7i h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. B\u1edfi khi l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec t\u1ef1 h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p t\u00ednh nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i, thay v\u00ec c\u1ed5 v\u0169 hay gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 h\u1ecd gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft kh\u1eb3ng \u0111i l\u1ea1i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

“L\u1ea1i th\u1ebf n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i…”<\/h2>\n

\""T\u00f4i<\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111ang lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n nghi\u00eam t\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 chung c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 hai, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i ra c\u00e2u “L\u1ea1i th\u1ebf n\u1eefa r\u1ed3i…<\/em>“. N\u00f3i c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ecf th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c<\/strong>, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed mu\u1ed1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y n\u00ean l\u00e0m \u01a1n ng\u1eebng l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

“Sao ph\u1ea3i mua m\u1ea5y th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y? \u0110\u1eaft l\u1eafm. Em \u0111\u1eb9p s\u1eb5n r\u1ed3i m\u00e0…”<\/h2>\n

\""T\u00f4i<\/p>\n

\""T\u00f4i<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 c\u1ea3? Hay ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y phi\u1ec1n ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u1eeda kia c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh qu\u00e1 n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt? \u0110\u00f4i khi \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 \u00edch k\u1ef7<\/strong> m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ngh\u0129 cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u1eefa<\/strong>. N\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u1edfng cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 t\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

: 25 \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef n\u00f3i th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00d4ng cha ta ng\u00e0y x\u01b0a \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft: “L\u1eddi n\u00f3i ch\u1eb3ng m\u1ea5t ti\u1ec1n mua, l\u1ef1a l\u1eddi m\u00e0 n\u00f3i cho v\u1eeba l\u00f2ng nhau“. V\u1eady m\u00e0 tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i t\u01b0\u1edfng ch\u1eebng nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 \u00fd, ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn l\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed hi\u1ec3u l\u1ea7m suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39524"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39524"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39524\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39524"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39524"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39524"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}