{"id":39536,"date":"2023-12-10T01:33:00","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:33:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/13-trich-dan-tuyet-voi-ve-tinh-yeu-de-dinh-nghia-mot-tinh-ban-dich-thuc.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T09:59:16","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T09:59:16","slug":"13-trich-dan-tuyet-voi-ve-tinh-yeu-de-dinh-nghia-mot-tinh-ban-dich-thuc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/13-trich-dan-tuyet-voi-ve-tinh-yeu-de-dinh-nghia-mot-tinh-ban-dich-thuc.html","title":{"rendered":"13 tr\u00edch d\u1eabn tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u1ec3 “\u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a” m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c"},"content":{"rendered":"
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S\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n tr\u00ean Facebook. S\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng?<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n<\/strong> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 thi\u1ebfu n\u00f3 th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u1eadt v\u00f4 v\u1ecb. Tuy kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p, l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang ta ch\u0103m ch\u00fat v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng. Tuy nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai trong ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 13 tr\u00edch d\u1eabn \u0111\u1eaft gi\u00e1 v\u1ec1 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c<\/strong>. M\u1eddi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3n \u0111\u1ecdc!<\/p>\n

1. “B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n y\u00eau ch\u00fang ta.” – Elbert Hubbard<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ch\u00fang ta, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 d\u00f9 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng b\u00ed m\u1eadt s\u00e2u k\u00edn v\u00e0 “x\u1ea5u xa<\/em>” nh\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n y\u00eau qu\u00fd b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu c\u00f2n b\u0103n kho\u0103n suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 n\u00ean k\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng b\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec h\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc th\u1eadt k\u1ef9 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn.<\/p>\n

2. “Th\u00e0 b\u1ecb gh\u00e9t m\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, c\u00f2n h\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau qu\u00fd m\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng gi\u1ea3 t\u1ea1o.” – Andr\u00e9 Gide<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c<\/strong> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1. Vi\u1ec7c che gi\u1ea5u s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau qu\u00fd b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3n \u1ea3nh s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ee3i \u00edch g\u00ec cho b\u1ea1n? Xung quanh c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1i sao ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3? H\u00e3y s\u1ed1ng th\u1eadt v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ee3p t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

3. “Tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ki\u1ec3u t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0o gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ec7t nhau c\u1ea3.” – F. Scott Fitzgerald<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh ph\u1ea3n chi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. Hay n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u, b\u1ea1n ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 mong t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh hay l\u1ea5p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ed7 tr\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u0169. V\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng mong \u0111\u1ee3i v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00f4 \u00edch v\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n th\u00eam t\u1ed1n th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

: 37 nghi th\u1ee9c x\u00e3 giao \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft<\/p>\n

4. “T\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3… nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u trong s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.” – Mama Zara<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i khi \u1edf trong b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd truy\u1ec1n cho b\u1ea1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat e ng\u1ea1i, \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

5. “T\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd g\u1ee1 b\u1ecf \u0111i l\u1edbp m\u1eb7t n\u1ea1 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng thi\u1ebfu n\u00f3 v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng n\u00f3.” – James Baldwin<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn, r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng t\u1eeb hai ph\u00eda. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n<\/em>” th\u00ec t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng b\u00ed m\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i? T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3?<\/p>\n

6. “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u0111ang y\u00eau.” – George Eliot<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c th\u1ee5 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u1ebfu thi\u1ebfu \u0111i s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7 l\u1eabn nhau<\/strong>. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean tinh th\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu, v\u1eeba th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m, v\u1eeba g\u1eafn k\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n

Cho ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mong mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd cho l\u1ea1i ta th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c. T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng v\u1eady, h\u00e3y trao \u0111i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ee3i d\u00e2y g\u1eafn k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t ng\u1eafn l\u1ea1i. M\u1ed9t khi x\u1ea3y ra s\u1ef1 “m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng<\/em>” v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng t\u1ed1t \u1edf c\u1ea3 hai, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

7. “T\u00f4i \u00edch k\u1ef7, thi\u1ebfu ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn v\u00e0 h\u01a1i b\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n. T\u00f4i hay m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i, thi\u1ebfu ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u00fac kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i l\u00fac t\u00f4i t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec d\u0129 nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng l\u00fac t\u00f4i tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t.” – Marilyn Monroe<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n
T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec t\u1ed1t khi c\u1ea3 hai kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 tha th\u1ee9 cho nhau. Ch\u1eb3ng ai sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng khuy\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec3m, nh\u1eefng l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m ri\u00eang. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft tha th\u1ee9 khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, bi\u1ebft n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh khi m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i sai l\u1ea7m.<\/span><\/p>\n

: N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i 10 c\u00e2u n\u00e0y!<\/span><\/p>\n

8. “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 trao \u0111\u1ed5i gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y, v\u1eady l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n.” – Jay Z<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i khi c\u1ea3 hai kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng thi\u1ebfu s\u00f3t<\/strong> c\u1ee7a nhau. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng, th\u1edd \u01a1 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng v\u00ec l\u00fd do n\u00e0o c\u1ea3, h\u00e3y xem l\u1ea1i c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u00fd do ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n

9. “H\u00e3y \u0111\u1eafm ch\u00ecm trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 h\u00e3y y\u00eau say \u0111\u1eafm ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean can \u0111\u1ea3m.” – L\u00e3o T\u1eed<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

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T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ki\u00ean c\u1ed1 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi khi s\u1ef1 b\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eb3ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i song song v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

: S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt khi \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh cho ta g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00fang ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng sai th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/p>\n

10. “H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n trao nhau n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed7i khi g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t, v\u00ec n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.” – Mother Teresa<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n
\u200b”M\u1ed9t n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng m\u01b0\u1eddi thang thu\u1ed1c b\u1ed5<\/em>“. T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng n\u1edf n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt t\u01b0\u01a1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c n\u1ebfu mong mu\u1ed1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u1ea1nh l\u00f9ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. N\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt t\u01b0\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n g\u00e2y thi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m m\u1ea1nh v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eaft ch\u1eb7t h\u01a1n!<\/p>\n

11. “T\u00ecnh y\u00eau ch\u01b0a tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh n\u00f3i: “Anh y\u00eau em v\u00ec anh c\u1ea7n em.” T\u00ecnh y\u00eau tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh n\u00f3i: “Anh c\u1ea7n em v\u00ec anh y\u00eau em.” – Erich Fromm<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 coi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n. Xem m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ri\u00eang ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f4i khi h\u1ecd t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i \u0111i ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang m\u1ec7t sau m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y d\u00e0i v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 th\u00f4i. H\u00e3y t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u th\u1eadt k\u1ef9 l\u00fd do tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u00e0 suy ng\u1eabm l\u00fd do v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m cho b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

12. “\u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 l\u1eabn nhau.” – Audrey Hepburn<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee5c v\u1ee5 b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n n\u00f3. Nguy c\u01a1 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mang theo v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i \u00f4m \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n s\u1ebd nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ngh\u00ecn t\u1eeb. B\u1ea1n b\u00e8 l\u00e0 n\u01a1i ch\u00fang ta gi\u1ea3i t\u1ecfa nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, gi\u00e3i b\u00e0y t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 n\u00ean h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

13. “Y\u00eau m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tin v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eebng x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m t\u1edbi ai.” – William Shakespeare<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"B\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i g\u1eb7p ai ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m quen<\/strong>. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t khi y\u00eau m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft l\u00fd do v\u00ec sao, th\u1eadt ng\u1edb ng\u1ea9n khi cho r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i m\u1edf l\u00f2ng, h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng, \u0111\u1ee7 tin c\u1eady \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebft l\u1ed9 nh\u1eefng b\u00ed m\u1eadt th\u1ea7m k\u00edn. Khi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u1ebfn ai, \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng n\u00e0o?<\/p>\n

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: 10 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 N\u1ed6I \u0110AU m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y cho b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

S\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n tr\u00ean Facebook. S\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng? T\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 thi\u1ebfu n\u00f3 th\u00ec […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39536"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39536"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39536\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39536"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39536"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39536"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}