{"id":39555,"date":"2023-12-10T01:33:55","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:33:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nguoi-thong-minh-se-biet-cach-phe-binh-gop-y-cho-nguoi-khac-ma-khong-lam-ho-mat-long.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T09:56:21","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T09:56:21","slug":"nguoi-thong-minh-se-biet-cach-phe-binh-gop-y-cho-nguoi-khac-ma-khong-lam-ho-mat-long","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nguoi-thong-minh-se-biet-cach-phe-binh-gop-y-cho-nguoi-khac-ma-khong-lam-ho-mat-long.html","title":{"rendered":"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, g\u00f3p \u00fd cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m h\u1ecd m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Trong ch\u00fang ta li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 ai th\u00edch b\u1ecb ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i d\u00e1m c\u00e1 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng, v\u00ec h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd “x\u00f9 l\u00f4ng” l\u00ean khi b\u1ecb m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 c\u00f2n b\u1ecb ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n

Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c ri\u00eang v\u1ec1 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao.<\/p>\n

L\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u1ea5p s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh thi\u1ebfu suy ngh\u0129 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n nghi ng\u1edd ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

\"Ngh\u1ec7<\/p>\n

Khi bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd \u0111au kh\u1ed5, t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t hay ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 xong. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111au kh\u1ed5 hay l\u00e0m h\u1ecd nghi ng\u1edd v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9?<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt ti\u1ebfc r\u1eb1ng, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 trong suy ngh\u0129 th\u00f4i, ch\u1ee9 tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec l\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng khi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, b\u1ecb c\u00f4ng k\u00edch. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ed7i sai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1eeda, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u1eadn th\u00f9 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m theo 4 c\u00e1ch d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn ra l\u1ed7i sai v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u01a1n b\u1ea1n v\u00ec l\u1eddi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

1. Khen tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng, ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh ri\u00eang v\u1edbi c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/h2>\n

\"Ngh\u1ec7<\/p>\n

B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i g\u00ec, th\u00ec th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00f3i c\u0169ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe.<\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng, ai ch\u1ea3 mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen ng\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9, t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n. C\u00f2n nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh th\u00ec th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. V\u1eady n\u00ean h\u00e3y t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ch\u1ed7 k\u00edn \u0111\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef th\u1ec3 di\u1ec7n cho h\u1ecd nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Khi mu\u1ed1n ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ch\u1ecdn th\u1eddi gian th\u00edch h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i cho h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft, h\u00e3y xem ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe c\u00f3 \u1edf trong t\u00e2m th\u1ebf s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch. N\u1ebfu h\u1ecd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn hay bu\u1ed3n b\u1ef1c, th\u00ec l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng, ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu th\u00eam, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m t\u0103ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng h\u1ecd b\u00e1c b\u1ecf v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

2. Ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong l\u1eddi n\u00f3i l\u1eabn th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9<\/h2>\n

\"Ngh\u1ec7<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u hay v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p g\u00ec. V\u1eady n\u00ean, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi n\u00f3i l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eb3ng nh\u01b0 ru\u1ed9t ng\u1ef1a, n\u00f3i ra h\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng v\u00f2ng vo.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh n\u00e0y th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh trong tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 ghi nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i cho h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1eadn ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u01b0a t\u1ed1t \u1edf h\u1ecd. Sau khi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh th\u00ec h\u00e3y tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 n\u00f3i l\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u00e3y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n khen m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. Tr\u00e1nh b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 s\u1ef1 t\u00e2ng b\u1ed1c kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 xoa d\u1ecbu l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

3. T\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng k\u00edch v\u00e0o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/h2>\n

\"Ngh\u1ec7<\/p>\n

Trong ch\u00fang ta, kh\u00f4ng ai th\u00edch m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb c\u00f4ng k\u00edch c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi h\u1ecd l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sau, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9 cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady n\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd gi\u1eefa l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea1m l\u1ed7i.<\/p>\n

Trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, h\u00e3y l\u00e0m l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd l\u00e0 “ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea5u”, gi\u00fap h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

4. \u0110\u01b0a ra g\u1ee3i \u00fd ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea1y \u0111\u1eddi<\/h2>\n

\"Ngh\u1ec7<\/p>\n

Gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n, l\u00ean m\u1eb7t d\u1ea1y \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m khi\u1ebfn nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00edch v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n, khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

V\u1eady n\u00ean khi mu\u1ed1n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0o l\u1ea7n sau, quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ecf ra mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 h\u1ecd ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u1ea1y \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Khi \u0111\u01b0a ra g\u1ee3i \u00fd, h\u00e3y d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, nh\u01b0, “B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0y” thay v\u00ec, “B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0y”.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng mu\u1ed1n nghe nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 khuy\u00ean b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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