{"id":39573,"date":"2023-12-10T01:35:04","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:35:04","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/may-man-khong-ngau-nhien-ma-co-ma-la-do-qua-trinh-luyen-tap.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T09:51:57","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T09:51:57","slug":"may-man-khong-ngau-nhien-ma-co-ma-la-do-qua-trinh-luyen-tap","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/may-man-khong-ngau-nhien-ma-co-ma-la-do-qua-trinh-luyen-tap.html","title":{"rendered":"May m\u1eafn kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 c\u00f3, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 do qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp"},"content":{"rendered":"
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May m\u1eafn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 trong ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ki\u1ebfn cho r\u1eb1ng may m\u1eafn hay \u0111en \u0111\u1ee7i l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i “s\u1ed1” c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u00edt \u00fd ki\u1ebfn tr\u00e1i chi\u1ec1u l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u01a1 h\u1ed3, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn hay kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n do “s\u1ed1” hay do \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u0103ng l\u00ean \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y..<\/p>\n

1. Lu\u00f4n h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/h2>\n

\"Lu\u00f4n<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean may m\u1eafn h\u01a1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea5y. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat nh\u00e9! V\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb9p tr\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n \u0111i ra ti\u1ec7m v\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 mua nh\u1eabn chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb t\u1eb7ng \u0111\u00e1m c\u01b0\u1edbi em g\u00e1i, b\u1ed7ng d\u01b0ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u m\u1ed9t b\u0103ng nh\u00f3m x\u00f4ng v\u00e0o ti\u1ec7m v\u00e0ng v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1edbp \u0111i h\u1ebft t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a ch\u1ee7 ti\u1ec7m v\u00e0ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i mua. Sau khi nh\u1eefng t\u00ean c\u01b0\u1edbp \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch th\u00ec ch\u00fang nhanh ch\u00f3ng r\u00fat lui kh\u1ecfi hi\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an to\u00e0n, c\u00f2n t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n th\u00ec b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 g\u00ec? “H\u00f4m nay qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y xui x\u1ebbo” hay “May qu\u00e1! M\u00ecnh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ea1ng s\u1ed1ng”? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn theo l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 th\u1ee9 hai, th\u00ec xin ch\u00fac m\u1eebng, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi may m\u1eafn \u0111\u1ea5y. Thay v\u00ec c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, \u0111au kh\u1ed5 trong nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00ec b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi may m\u1eafn th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1c quan, t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u1ea3y ra. H\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i m\u1ea5t \u0111i th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, c\u00f2n t\u00ednh m\u1ea1ng m\u1ea5t \u0111i th\u00ec xem nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ea5t h\u1ebft. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 hy v\u1ecdng cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

2. Lu\u00f4n t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 xung quanh m\u00ecnh<\/h2>\n

\"Lu\u00f4n<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb v\u00f4 l\u00fd v\u00e0 l\u1ea1 l\u1eabm v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, nh\u1edd v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 th\u00eam nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. T\u1ea1i sao \u01b0? B\u1edfi v\u00ec may m\u1eafn lu\u00f4n m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m m\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, l\u00e0m m\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng xung quanh m\u00ecnh. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, \u1edf nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f2 m\u00f2, h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 xung quanh trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y, ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn m\u1edbi m\u1ebb h\u01a1n cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, gi\u00fap h\u1ecd trang b\u1ecb cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e2n t\u00edch, \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 t\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf qua. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c bao nhi\u00eau, th\u00ec s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o ra cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea5y nhi\u00eau.<\/p>\n

3. D\u00f9 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1eebng ngh\u0129 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh th\u1ea3m h\u1ea1i<\/h2>\n

\"Lu\u00f4n<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng, v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? T\u00f4i xin kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi may m\u1eafn th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n t\u1ea1o cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. V\u00ec sao \u01b0? B\u1edfi v\u00ec v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i \u00edt nhi\u1ec1u c\u0169ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kho\u00e1c l\u00ean m\u00ecnh d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb u s\u1ea7u, \u1ea3m \u0111\u1ea1m, n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ” Nh\u00ecn m\u00ecnh trong th\u1eadt th\u1ea3m h\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 th\u1ea3m h\u1ea1i lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh”. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u1ebfu mang v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i l\u1ea1c quan, y\u00eau \u0111\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 “h\u00e0nh x\u1eed” theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Do v\u1eady, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i kho\u00e1c l\u00ean m\u00ecnh b\u1ed9 qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 tin, n\u1edf n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt t\u01b0\u01a1i v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng ch\u1edd \u0111\u00f3n th\u1eadt nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u may m\u1eafn \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

4. L\u1eafng nghe b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng<\/h2>\n

\"Lu\u00f4n<\/p>\n

Nghe theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean c\u00f3 \u00edch tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta. Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u00e3 bao l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nghe theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u00edch nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i b\u1ecb l\u00ed tr\u00ed ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n b\u1edfi v\u00f4 v\u00e0n l\u00fd do, nh\u01b0ng r\u1ed3i cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i nh\u1eadn ra m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nghe theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n khi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u1ec3 trau d\u1ed3i b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe theo c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Ni\u1ec1m tin c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn th\u00ec s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e0ng cao v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta. Tuy nhi\u00ean, l\u1eafng nghe b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng n\u00f3 kh\u00e1c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m tin m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng, v\u1eady n\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed7i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra s\u1ef1 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c nh\u1ea5t cho m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

May m\u1eafn l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 trong ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng mong mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y. C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ki\u1ebfn cho r\u1eb1ng may m\u1eafn hay \u0111en \u0111\u1ee7i l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i “s\u1ed1” c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u00edt \u00fd ki\u1ebfn tr\u00e1i chi\u1ec1u l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u01a1 h\u1ed3, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn hay kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n do “s\u1ed1” hay do \u00f4ng tr\u1eddi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ef1 may m\u1eafn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u0103ng l\u00ean \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 nh\u1edd nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y..<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39573"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39573"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39573\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39573"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39573"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39573"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}