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Ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u gi\u1eef ch\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1ea3i qua nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. \u0110\u00fang v\u1eady, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c g\u1eafn ch\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt, r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y \u0111ang \u00e2m th\u1ea7m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh<\/span> k\u1ebb gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p>\n

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“Hold fast to dreams, For if dreams die, Life is a broken-winged bird, That cannot fly<\/em>.” \u2015 Langston Hughes<\/p>\n

“H\u00e3y gi\u1eef ch\u1eb7t l\u1ea5y \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 ch\u1ebft, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fa chim b\u1ecb g\u00e3y c\u00e1nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/em>.”<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch c\u01b0 x\u1eed n\u00e0y g\u1eafn ch\u1eb7t v\u1edbi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng n\u00e9t c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu, khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i, mong manh v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 v\u1ee1, lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0a cho ch\u00fang ta l\u1eddi bi\u1ec7n h\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eeb b\u1ecf gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft 5 th\u00f3i quen nguy hi\u1ec3m<\/strong> “gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft” \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean b\u1ecf ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c<\/strong> d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y. N\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n g\u1eafn li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00eau b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nh\u1eefng sai s\u00f3t n\u00e0y v\u00ec ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang \u0111ang gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

1. S\u1ee3 h\u00e3i nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ean<\/h2>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/strong>: Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n b\u1ecb bao v\u00e2y b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i kh\u00e1c nhau<\/strong>, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb chia l\u00eca, m\u1ea5t m\u00e1t, s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb l\u00e0m nh\u1ee5c ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 s\u1ee3 c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 tuy\u1ec7t ch\u1ee7ng. Nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed h\u1ecd, ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n h\u1ecd b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n s\u1ef1 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m v\u00e0 h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

L\u00fd do<\/strong>: S\u1ee3 h\u00e3i nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ean l\u00e0 tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00ecnh t\u1eeb th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 l\u00fac c\u00f2n b\u00e9, b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng “con kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ra ngo\u00e0i n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng m\u1eb9 m\u00ecn s\u1ebd b\u1eaft con \u0111i m\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea5y<\/em>“. Hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u00e2y gi\u1edd nghe th\u1eadt bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a b\u00e9, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i khi b\u1ecb d\u1ecda nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Do \u0111\u00f3, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0: la h\u00e9t th\u1ecfa th\u00edch khi vui, nh\u1ea3y m\u00faa lo\u1ea1n x\u1ea1 ho\u1eb7c y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb cho l\u00e0 l\u1ed1 b\u1ecbch, s\u1ee3 b\u1ecb g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u00ean theo \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ean n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi, \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0m cho ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i khi b\u01b0\u1edbc qua ranh gi\u1edbi c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec m\u1edbi m\u1ebb v\u00e0 d\u1ea7n gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

: 31 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n

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2. Nghi\u1ec7n n\u1ed7i \u0111au<\/h2>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/strong>: Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n n\u1ed7i \u0111au s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nghe theo ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a con tim m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 nghe theo \u00fd th\u1ee9c n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m<\/strong>. H\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y vui v\u1ebb g\u00ec. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 xung quanh h\u1ecd, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u00edch v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. Nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

L\u00fd do<\/strong>: Nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1eadt l\u00e0m t\u0103ng th\u00eam n\u1ed7i \u0111au trong c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh g\u00e2y ra s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ed1 kh\u00e1ng c\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i n\u1ed7i \u0111au n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi l\u1ea1i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u1ea3o hi\u1ec7p v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 \u0111au kh\u1ed5 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u1edf l\u1ef3 lu\u00f4n trong n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nghi\u1ec7n n\u1ed7i \u0111au v\u00e0 n\u1ed7i \u0111au \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd sinh ra s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c d\u00e0nh cho ch\u00fang ta ho\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh. Nghi\u1ec7n n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean nguy hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i d\u1eabn ch\u00fang ta t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1ecdng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n ho\u1eb7c bu\u1ed3n th\u1ea3m trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

3. Tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n<\/h2>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/strong>: Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i nh\u1eefng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1<\/strong>, m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00fang c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 m\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o ra n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

L\u00fd do<\/strong>: S\u1ef1 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n ng\u00e0y nay \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh cho ng\u00e0y mai, nh\u01b0ng theo th\u1eddi gian, s\u1ef1 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng th\u1ee9 hai<\/strong>. Ch\u00fang ta ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m ch\u1eadm tr\u1ec5 ni\u1ec1m hy v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 ao \u01b0\u1edbc cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y mai s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111ang \u0111\u1ebfn. S\u1ef1 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 do ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ef1 tin trong th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/strong> (\u0111\u00f4i khi l\u00e0 do l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng<\/em>). Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c hay c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mu\u1ed1n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. Nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 v\u00ec l\u00fd do g\u00ec \u0111i n\u1eefa, s\u1ef1 tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 mang ch\u00fang v\u00e0o t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

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: \u0110\u1eebng m\u00e3i n\u00f3i: “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft”, h\u00e3y th\u1eed 4 c\u00e1ch sau \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t<\/p>\n

4. S\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1i t\u00f4i<\/h2>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

(L\u01b0u \u00fd: \u0111\u1eebng nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn gi\u1eefa c\u00e1i t\u00f4i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ki\u00eau h\u00e3nh<\/em>)<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/strong>: Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ng\u1ed9 nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/strong>. H\u1ecd k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c v\u1eadt s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, d\u00f9 h\u1eefu h\u00ecnh hay v\u00f4 h\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd v\u1eady. Nh\u1eefng v\u1eadt s\u1edf h\u1eefu n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 chi\u1ebfc \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i th\u00f4ng minh m\u00e0 h\u1ecd mua g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y nh\u1ea5t, b\u1ed9 s\u01b0u t\u1eadp qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 ki\u1ec7n \u0111i k\u00e8m \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau… H\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 v\u1ecdng ngay c\u1ea3 trong \u00fd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c m\u1ea5t \u0111i v\u1eadt s\u1edf h\u1eefu n\u00e0y, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fang h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec – ch\u00ednh l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a h\u1ecd r\u1eddi xa nh\u1eefng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 trong \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

L\u00fd do<\/strong>: T\u1eeb khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u sinh ra, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea7n quen v\u1edbi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i c\u00e1 t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i, “\u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i<\/em>” v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb h\u1ecfng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f3c v\u00ec c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta. Theo th\u1eddi gian c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt m\u00e0 c\u00f2n lan r\u1ed9ng ra nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 v\u00e0o th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta li\u1ec1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean hung h\u0103ng. S\u1ef1 hung h\u0103ng n\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c c\u00e3i v\u00e3 kh\u00e1c nhau (b\u1edfi v\u00ec quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh sai c\u1ea3<\/em>).<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, c\u00e1i t\u00f4i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1ng “\u00e1nh h\u00e0o quang ch\u00f3i l\u1ecdi”<\/em>. V\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y xem nh\u1eb9 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, ngay c\u1ea3 khi h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd mong \u0111\u1ee3i, h\u1ecd s\u1ed1ng trong n\u1ed7i \u0111au c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 thay v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i \u0111eo \u0111u\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y bi\u1ebft tr\u01b0\u1edbc r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i l\u00fac t\u1eeb b\u1ecf t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea9y h\u1ecd xa gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh h\u00e0ng v\u1ea1n d\u1eb7m.<\/p>\n

5. S\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/h2>\n

\"5<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m<\/strong>: Ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. S\u1ef1 l\u01a1 \u0111\u00e3ng l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch n\u1ed5i tr\u1ed9i nh\u1ea5t trong h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd lu\u00f4n suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd t\u1eebng c\u01b0 x\u1eed ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

L\u00fd do<\/strong>: T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u ghi nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh trong \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n \u1edf qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng khi ch\u00fang tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn n\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n m\u1ea3i m\u00ea trong suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0: “T\u1ea1i sao anh ta l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i v\u1eady? T\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i c\u01b0 x\u1eed nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf? Ho\u1eb7c t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, vi\u1ec7c kia…?<\/em>” th\u00ec ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 r\u1ed3i \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n xa r\u1eddi th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

S\u1ed1ng m\u00e3i v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, d\u00f9 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p hay t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7, th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y nguy h\u1ea1i cho nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho vi\u1ec7c l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea1ch ra trong hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9.<\/p>\n

5 ki\u1ec3u h\u00e0nh vi \u1ee9ng x\u1eed ho\u1eb7c th\u00f3i quen k\u1ec3 tr\u00ean \u0111ang hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n trong m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta, d\u00f9 \u00edt hay nhi\u1ec1u. B\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen nguy h\u1ea1i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng qua qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong>. Khi ch\u00fang ta nh\u1eadn ra ch\u00fang v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c h\u1ea1i x\u1ea5u<\/strong> m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y \u0111eo \u0111u\u1ed5i gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n trong ni\u1ec1m h\u00e2n hoan.<\/p>\n

: 11 kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 tu\u1ed5i gi\u00e0 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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