{"id":39675,"date":"2023-12-10T01:38:41","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:38:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/co-nhan-da-day-sau-dieu-nen-tranh-neu-ai-lam-duoc-at-se-thanh-cong.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T09:28:43","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T09:28:43","slug":"co-nhan-da-day-sau-dieu-nen-tranh-neu-ai-lam-duoc-at-se-thanh-cong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/co-nhan-da-day-sau-dieu-nen-tranh-neu-ai-lam-duoc-at-se-thanh-cong.html","title":{"rendered":"C\u1ed5 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y s\u00e1u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh, n\u1ebfu ai l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1eaft s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng"},"content":{"rendered":"
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T\u1eeb xa x\u01b0a \u0111\u1ebfn nay, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi c\u1ed5 nh\u00e2n d\u1ea1y ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 sai, n\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5 \u0111i\u1ec3n h\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi B\u1eafc T\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 t\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edbng Kh\u1ea5u Chu\u1ea9n, \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i th\u01a1 “L\u1ee5c H\u1ed1i” ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 6 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc d\u1ea1y cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta, c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn sau n\u00e0y. Ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi 6 c\u00e2u th\u01a1 ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea9n ch\u1ee9a s\u00e2u xa trong \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0m \u00fd v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a s\u00e2u th\u1eb3m, gi\u00fap con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta s\u1edbm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00e1c ng\u1ed9 tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng cho \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd l\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ea1o l\u00fd trong t\u1eebng c\u00e2u th\u01a1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

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L\u1ee5c h\u1ed1i minh<\/strong><\/p>\n

L\u00e0m quan t\u01b0 l\u1ee3i, m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi ti\u1ebfc
Gi\u00e0u kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ki\u1ec7m, ngh\u00e8o m\u1edbi x\u00f3t xa
Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ebfu h\u1ecdc, gi\u00e0 h\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed9n
Th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc, c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn kh\u00f4n ngu\u00f4i
R\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00e0o cu\u1ed3ng ng\u00f4n, t\u1ec9nh h\u1ed1i mu\u1ed9n m\u00e0ng
An kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, \u0111\u1ed5 b\u1ec7nh tr\u00e1ch ai.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

1. “L\u00e0m quan t\u01b0 l\u1ee3i, m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i m\u1edbi ti\u1ebfc”<\/h2>\n

\"L\u00e0m<\/p>\n

Trong v\u0103n h\u00f3a truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng th\u00ec quan l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m nom \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng cho nh\u00e2n d\u00e2n, l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e2n x\u1eed s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00fang sai, c\u00f3 ch\u1ee9c c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n, \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ec3 tr\u1ecdng ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m quan ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f4n h\u1eadu. \u0110\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t c\u1ea5p t\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m quan, ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a t\u1eebng c\u00f3 c\u00e2u “nh\u00ecn \u0103n m\u1eb7c kh\u1eafc bi\u1ebft ch\u1ee9c quan cao”, qu\u1ea3 th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng sai, nh\u01b0ng d\u00f9 b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 l\u00e0 quan cao nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec “Tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ea7u ba th\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00f3 th\u1ea7n linh”. \u0110\u00e3 l\u00e0m quan c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f4ng t\u00e2m, ch\u00ednh tr\u1ef1c, l\u1ea5y d\u00e2n l\u00e0m g\u1ed1c, \u0111\u1eebng v\u00ec t\u01b0 l\u1ee3i c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n che m\u1eaft m\u00e0 l\u00e0m li\u1ec1u, n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn vui bu\u1ed3n nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi m\u00e0 bao che sai ph\u1ea1m, nh\u1eadn h\u1ed1i l\u1ed9, x\u1eed oan, gi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 l\u00fd, \u0111\u1ebfn khi s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1i l\u1ed9 th\u00ec h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc c\u0169ng mu\u1ed9n m\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n

2. “Gi\u00e0u kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ki\u1ec7m, ngh\u00e8o m\u1edbi x\u00f3t xa”<\/h2>\n

\"L\u00e0m<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft chi ti\u00eau th\u00ec cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau c\u0169ng s\u1ebd x\u00e0i h\u1ebft, “mi\u1ec7ng \u0103n n\u00fai l\u1edf” l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u01b0a v\u1eabn d\u1ea1y. N\u1ebfu bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch thu v\u00e9n, \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 th\u00ec t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n nh\u1ecf b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u01a1 ng\u01a1i l\u1edbn. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 v\u00e0 ti\u00eau pha l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed xa hoa th\u00ec s\u1edbm mu\u1ed9n g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb tr\u1eafng tay. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u00edch nghi v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1eeb ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3 th\u00e0nh gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, th\u00ec con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 suy s\u1ee5p ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ti\u00eau s\u00e0i hoang ph\u00ed, xa x\u1ec9 th\u00ec c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Khi \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 quen v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u00fang t\u00fac, \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, ti\u00eau ti\u1ec1n nh\u01b0 n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ecdi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec1u d\u00f9ng ti\u1ec1n. \u0110\u1ebfn khi g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u00ec h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u1ebd quay l\u01b0ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. L\u00fac gi\u00e0u tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e2ng niu, nh\u00e0 nh\u00e0 t\u00f4n k\u00ednh, nay l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thay \u0111\u1ed5i, nh\u00e2n t\u00ecnh ngu\u1ed9i l\u1ea1nh, ch\u1ee3t nh\u1edb l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y th\u00e1ng huy ho\u00e0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia, h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed9n r\u1ed3i!<\/p>\n

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3. “Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ebfu h\u1ecdc, gi\u00e0 h\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed9n”<\/h2>\n

\"L\u00e0m<\/p>\n

Khi c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, c\u00f2n kh\u1ecfe \u0111\u1ea7u \u00f3c c\u00f2n nh\u1ea1y b\u00e9n, nhanh nh\u1eady, d\u1ec5 ti\u1ebfp thu nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tri th\u1ee9c cho c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u01b0ng do l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng, ham ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1ebfn khi t\u00f3c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea1c th\u00ec l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed9n m\u00e0ng, th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i. Hi\u1ec7n nay r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i suy ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng “Tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ch\u01a1i, gi\u00e0 h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc”, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb, c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian n\u00ean h\u00e3y h\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee5 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft \u0111\u00e3, sau n\u00e0y h\u00e3y t\u00ednh. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f4ng ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t ai, b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 phung ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng tr\u00e2n qu\u00fd, tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, gi\u00e0 s\u1ebd bi th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

4. “Th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc, c\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn kh\u00f4n ngu\u00f4i”<\/h2>\n

\"L\u00e0m<\/p>\n

M\u1ed7i khi tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4n ngoan h\u01a1n, bi\u1ebft nh\u00ecn xa tr\u00f4ng r\u1ed9ng, t\u00edch l\u0169y th\u00eam \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c. V\u00ec th\u1ebf trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u1ef1c ti\u1ec5n, h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n gi\u1eef tinh th\u1ea7n ham h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, g\u1eb7p chuy\u1ec7n th\u00ec l\u01b0u t\u00e2m, kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u h\u00e3y th\u1ec9nh gi\u00e1o c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia nh\u00e2n s\u0129, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc. T\u00edch l\u0169y kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, s\u1ebd gi\u00fap ta ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng th\u00e0nh th\u1ee5c. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi m\u1edbi l\u00e0 gi\u00e0 c\u1ed7i.<\/p>\n

5. “R\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00e0o cu\u1ed3ng ng\u00f4n, t\u1ec9nh h\u1ed1i mu\u1ed9n m\u00e0ng”<\/h2>\n

\"L\u00e0m<\/p>\n

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Sau khi men r\u01b0\u1ee3u ng\u1ea5m v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u, l\u1ea3m nh\u1ea3m, kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. B\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edt n\u00f3i, l\u00fac c\u00f3 r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00e0o l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb l\u1eafm l\u1eddi; b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee3, y\u00eau con khi say th\u00ec \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1eadp v\u0169 phu… V\u00ec th\u1ebf m\u00e0 tai h\u1ecda t\u1eeb r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00f4 k\u1ec3, khi t\u1ec9nh l\u1ea1i th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n m\u00e0ng, h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc kh\u00f4ng k\u1ecbp.<\/p>\n

6. “An kh\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u01b0\u1ee1ng, \u0111\u1ed5 b\u1ec7nh tr\u00e1ch ai”<\/h2>\n

\"L\u00e0m<\/p>\n

Khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f2n kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh ch\u1ec9 bi\u1ebft lao v\u00e0o l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u0103m s\u00f3c cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ecb b\u1ec7nh th\u01b0\u1eddng suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 qua, r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian khi c\u00f2n kh\u1ecfe. Ch\u1ee7 quan, xem th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0m khi\u1ebfn cho c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea7n suy ki\u1ec7t, r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ec7nh t\u1eadt k\u00e9o \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, ham s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed9n m\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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