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Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i kh\u00f4n ngoan trong giao ti\u1ebfp<\/strong> s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kinh doanh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay trong giao ti\u1ebfp <\/strong>th\u00ec nh\u1edb \u0111\u1eebng d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n

Mu\u1ed1n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i t\u1ed1t trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 quan tr\u1ecdng. B\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi \u1edf m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f4ng s\u1edf. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi giao ti\u1ebfp t\u1ed1t lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi giao ti\u1ebfp k\u00e9m th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb lu m\u1edd tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u00edt c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh th\u01b0\u1eddng lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i g\u00ec v\u00e0 l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i nh\u1ea5t trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u1ee1 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t kh\u00f4ng ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111ang ngh\u0129. S\u1ef1 v\u00f4 \u00fd n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c l\u1ee1 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng h\u1ee3p l\u00fd th\u01b0\u1eddng x\u1ea3y ra do b\u1edfi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 tinh t\u1ebf trong giao ti\u1ebfp. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/strong> – t\u00f9y v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

\"9<\/p>\n

Trung t\u00e2m Talent Smart<\/em> \u0111\u00e3 ki\u1ec3m tra tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac<\/strong> (emotional intelligence – EQ<\/em>) c\u1ee7a h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec7n nay. Thi\u1ebfu k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1edfi khi giao ti\u1ebfp ch\u00fang ta qu\u00e1 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp theo v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd xem c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n qu\u00ean \u0111i vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111i\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u1edbn khi\u1ebfn m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf n\u00ean v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hy v\u1ecdng s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u m\u1ed9t ai cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadp trung t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd, l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. C\u00e1i hay c\u1ee7a kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng giao ti\u1ebfp l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n s\u1eeda \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat trong c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cho m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. M\u1eddi c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng tham kh\u1ea3o 9 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i “t\u1ec7<\/em>” m\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng trong giao ti\u1ebfp d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

1. “Tr\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u1ebb m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi”<\/h2>\n

\"9<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e2u n\u00e0y khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng quen v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng; k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi tr\u00f4ng h\u1ecd th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7t s\u1ee9c v\u00e0 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ec3u hi\u1ec7n v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng d\u1ec5 nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft tr\u0129u xu\u1ed1ng, m\u00e1i t\u00f3c l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n, d\u1ec5 m\u1ea5t t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 \u0111ang c\u00e1u k\u1ec9nh, kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang trong t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 c\u00e1u b\u1eb3n v\u00e0 hay c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng bi quan h\u00f3a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. N\u1ebfu g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 c\u00e1i t\u00f4i l\u1edbn, h\u1ecd c\u00f2n ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c qu\u00e1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2, quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i<\/strong>: “M\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n v\u1eabn \u1ed5n ch\u1ee9?<\/em>” th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7. Trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n, n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Thay v\u00ec \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y h\u1ecfi th\u1eb3ng. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng m\u1edf l\u00f2ng v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb. Quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft thay v\u00ec th\u00f4 l\u1ed7.<\/p>\n

2. “B\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n…” ho\u1eb7c “B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd…”<\/h2>\n

\"9<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3. Khi t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn, ch\u00fang ta hay \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 sai v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh qua m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n, do \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ph\u00f2ng th\u1ee7 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n m\u1edf l\u00f2ng chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t t\u1ec7 n\u1ebfu th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean d\u00f9ng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i<\/strong>: \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00e3y d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn. N\u1ebfu h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i “B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u1ebb l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1ec9<\/em>” ho\u1eb7c “B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00f3…<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

3. “Nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i…”<\/h2>\n

\"9<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y d\u1eebng n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y ngay t\u1ee9c kh\u1eafc, b\u1edfi th\u1eddi gian l\u00e0m ch\u00fang ta qu\u00ean m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u. Khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng ki\u1ec3u c\u00e2u n\u00e0y, c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb ai \u0111\u00f3 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m v\u00ec y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00f4ng minh h\u01a1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. Vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u n\u00f3i cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i ch\u00fat n\u00e0o v\u00e0 t\u1ecf v\u1ebb tr\u1ecbch th\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i<\/strong>: N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n; \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o h\u1ecd s\u1ebd nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i. B\u1edfi nhi\u1ec1u khi l\u1ed7i n\u1eb1m \u1edf c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3i qu\u00e1 m\u00f9 m\u1edd, ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n

4. “Ch\u00fac may m\u1eafn”<\/h2>\n

\"9<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i tinh t\u1ebf nh\u1ea5t b\u1edfi n\u00f3 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean d\u00f9ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8\/ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft theo ki\u1ec3u \u0111\u00f9a vui; kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c ho\u1eb7c v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1. B\u1edfi n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u00fac ai \u0111\u00f3 may m\u1eafn, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ngh\u0129: H\u1ecd c\u1ea7n may m\u1eafn th\u00ec m\u1edbi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i<\/strong>: “T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/em>“. C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u00e2u tr\u00ean, v\u00ec n\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng: B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng\/k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng; gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n hay s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e2u kinh \u0111i\u1ec3n.<\/p>\n

5. “T\u00f9y b\u1ea1n” ho\u1eb7c “C\u1ee9 l\u00e0m g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n”<\/h2>\n

\"9<\/p>\n

Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ho\u1eb7c h\u1ecd coi tr\u1ecdng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec v\u1eady \u0111\u1eebng th\u1edd \u01a1 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u c\u00e2u thi\u1ebfu t\u00ednh x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u01b0 “T\u00f9y b\u1ea1n<\/em>” ho\u1eb7c “C\u1ee9 l\u00e0m g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n<\/em>“; k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eadn b\u1ecbu hay ch\u1eb3ng mu\u1ed1n quan t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i<\/strong>: “Th\u1eadt ra, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u00e1ng ki\u1ebfn n\u00e0o c\u1ea3, nh\u01b0ng theo t\u00f4i th\u00ec…<\/em>“. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t \u00fd ki\u1ebfn (k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 kh\u00f4ng d\u00f9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c<\/em>), ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

6. “V\u00e2ng, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t th\u00ec t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd…”<\/h2>\n

\"9<\/p>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch v\u1ea1ch ra c\u00e1c sai l\u1ea7m tr\u01b0\u1edbc kia c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i<\/strong>: “T\u00f4i xin l\u1ed7i<\/em>“. D\u00e1m nh\u1eadn sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ee3p l\u00fd h\u01a1n, gi\u1eef b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c. Th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i sai l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u0103n ch\u1eb7n sai l\u1ea7m ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n.<\/p>\n

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7. “Wow, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea3m \u0111i v\u00e0i c\u00e2n”<\/h2>\n

\"9<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen nh\u01b0ng b\u00ean trong \u0111\u00f3 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ea1o \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft quan t\u00e2m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 tr\u00f4ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb gi\u1ea3m c\u00e2n r\u1ed3i, cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb b\u00e9o ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. H\u00e3y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u00f3a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch ch\u1ec9 khen c\u00f4 \u1ea5y xinh l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i.\u200b<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i<\/strong>: “B\u1ea1n tr\u00f4ng th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t<\/em>“. Thay v\u00ec n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n tr\u00f4ng ra sao, b\u1ea1n t\u1eebng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 n\u00e0o. H\u00e3y khen ng\u1ee3i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. V\u1edbi c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y, c\u00f4 \u1ea5y s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra c\u00f4 \u1ea5y gi\u1ea3m c\u00e2n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 ghi nh\u1eadn t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1edbi m\u00f3c qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta l\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 khen ng\u1ee3i, ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i l\u00ean c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n

8. “B\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi anh \u1ea5y\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y”<\/h2>\n

\"9<\/p>\n

Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eeba ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 l\u00ed do n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, l\u1eddi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t n\u00e0y l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i<\/strong>: “Anh \u1ea5y\/c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t…<\/em>” C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u1ea1c quan m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0m ch\u1ee9a b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

9. “B\u1ea1n tr\u00f4ng th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t khi \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y”<\/h2>\n

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S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng t\u1eeb “v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n<\/em>” nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khen gi\u00e1n ti\u1ebfp v\u1eady, l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u00ec tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00f4 l\u1ed7. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng minh th\u00f4ng qua ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ed1m y\u1ebfu, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb. B\u1edfi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng minh v\u00e0 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y n\u00f3i:<\/strong> “B\u1ea1n tr\u00f4ng th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t<\/em>“. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u khen tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

10. \u201cT\u00f4i gh\u00e9t l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh\u201d<\/h2>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng qu\u00ean m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Khi b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n tin r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec sau khi nghe c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp theo.<\/p>\n

11. \u201c\u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i\u201d<\/h2>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n v\u00e0 theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng, ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i. \u201c\u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i,\u201d – c\u00e2u n\u00f3i mang t\u00ednh r\u0169 b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi mu\u1ed9n b\u1eefa t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho giao th\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fac ch\u01b0a? Nh\u01b0ng suy ngh\u0129 s\u00e2u h\u01a1n, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 s\u1edbm h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi mu\u1ed9n.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh tr\u00e1nh xa c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb n\u00e0y v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ed1n tr\u00e1nh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 n\u1eb1m ngo\u00e0i t\u1ea7m ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecf ti\u1ec1n ra c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1.<\/p>\n

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Thay v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ed3i ch\u1ec9 tay, h\u00e3y ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed9n do giao th\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fac, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i : \u201cT\u00f4i xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfn mu\u1ed9n. L\u1ea7n sau t\u00f4i s\u1ebd l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ch\u1eadm tr\u1ec5 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra.\u201d<\/p>\n

T\u00f3m l\u1ea1i, \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u00ean v\u00e0o trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i \u0111em \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn. H\u00e3y th\u1eed s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ee3i \u00fd d\u01b0\u1edbi v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1c ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Cha \u00f4ng ta c\u00f3 c\u00e2u: “H\u1ecdc \u0103n, h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i, h\u1ecdc g\u00f3i, h\u1ecdc m\u1edf<\/em>“, h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng nhau luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u00e9. D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 IQ cao \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u m\u00e0 EQ (Emotional Intelligence<\/em>) th\u1ea5p, th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.[11 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 EQ th\u1ea5p]<\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb!<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i kh\u00f4n ngoan trong giao ti\u1ebfp<\/strong> s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n kinh doanh t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay trong giao ti\u1ebfp <\/strong>th\u00ec nh\u1edb \u0111\u1eebng d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39713"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39713"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39713\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39713"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39713"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39713"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}