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\u0110\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 20<\/strong> l\u00e0 qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng “r\u1ed1i r\u1eafm<\/em>“. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c th\u1ee5<\/em>“. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 \u0111i tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 l\u00fac n\u00e0y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh vi tr\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec sai.<\/p>\n

Hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb trong th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i xin \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u0103ng t\u1ea3i tr\u00ean Quora<\/strong> v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng h\u1eefu \u00edch, c\u00e1ch d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian sau khi b\u01b0\u1edbc sang tu\u1ed5i 20 v\u00e0 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c h\u1eefu \u00edch nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1ng \u1edf n\u0103m 30 tu\u1ed5i, ngay t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y ch\u00fa t\u00e2m r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n 17 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng<\/strong> c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb tu\u1ed5i 20 d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

1. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi trung th\u1ef1c<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

Khi tr\u1ec5 h\u1eb9n, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n ngo\u1ea1i c\u1ea3nh nh\u01b0 b\u1ecb k\u1eb9t xe ho\u1eb7c chuy\u1ebfn t\u00e0u b\u1ecb ho\u00e3n. Cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean d\u00f9ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ec7n minh cho l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng Quora c\u00f3 t\u00ean Michael Hoffman b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn: “Ch\u1ec9 n\u00ean n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0a ra chi ti\u1ebft l\u00fd do. B\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c th\u00fa nh\u1eadn “t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t” c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb g\u1ea5p 100 l\u1ea7n so v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00e1nh li\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 trung th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ed5 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho giao th\u00f4ng<\/em>“. L\u1ed7i b\u1ea1n m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i.<\/p>\n

2. L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

\u1ede \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 20, r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch sao cho h\u1ee3p l\u00fd. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, b\u1ea1n bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd sai ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n. Theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng Abhinav Gupta vi\u1ebft: “Th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eadn d\u1eef v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch ho\u1eb7c l\u1edd t\u1ecbt ch\u00fang \u0111i. Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eddi ch\u00ea bai v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c l\u1ea1i. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd t\u1ecf v\u1ebb kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 d\u1eb1n s\u1ef1 t\u1ee9c gi\u1eadn l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe. N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa. C\u00f2n n\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00fang, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thanh minh (n\u1ebfu c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/em>) ho\u1eb7c m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m \u01a1n, r\u1ed3i th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

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3. C\u00e1ch b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

“B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng b\u1ecb nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi coi nh\u1eb9 nh\u1ea5t<\/em>“, Deepak Mehta, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh kh\u00e1 d\u1ec5 x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi giao ti\u1ebfp, chia s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea1y anh r\u1eb1ng, n\u1ebfu d\u00e1m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1eaft chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh r\u1ed3i k\u1ebft th\u00fac bu\u1ed5i tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p; b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1edbi ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u00ecn m\u1edbi \u1edf nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i c\u0169. M\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i th\u00fa v\u1ecb, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 v\u00e0i th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt nh\u01b0 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i m\u1edf v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u1eb1ng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n

4. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

“\u0110\u01b0a ra y\u00eau c\u1ea7u l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta hay d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p<\/em>“, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng gi\u1ea5u t\u00ean cho hay. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng cam \u0111\u1ea3m y\u00eau c\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u0103ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u0103ng ch\u1ee9c ho\u1eb7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1ee5 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n; s\u1ebd c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi t\u1eeb c\u00f4ng ty m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp \u1edf nh\u1eefng ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 \u1edf gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i… hay khi \u0111i ch\u1ee3, h\u00e3y t\u1edbi c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng rau c\u1ee7 tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 th\u1eed xem.<\/p>\n

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“Th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. V\u00ec c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129 trong l\u00f2ng, vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng<\/em>“, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng n\u00eau c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t sau n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n

5. C\u00e1ch gi\u1eef l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ee9a v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t trong b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c sinh nh\u1eadt c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c cam k\u1ebft v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp s\u1ebd ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi gian th\u00ec d\u00f9 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra \u0111i n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

Ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p: H\u00e3y l\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn c\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eeba th\u1eddi gian cho ch\u00fang. “M\u1ed9t khi th\u1ea5t h\u1ee9a, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tin b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa. Theo th\u1eddi gian s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/em>“, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng Hoffman t\u01b0\u1eddng thu\u1eadt.<\/p>\n

6. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t th\u00f4ng tin m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u00e0i \u0103n n\u00f3i, ph\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh r\u01a1i v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf l\u00fac \u0111i l\u00e0m: c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y sao cho thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c th\u00ec ngay t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, h\u00e3y luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp t\u00e0i \u0103n n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

“H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1ch th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 tinh ch\u1ec9nh c\u00e1ch vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t email hay c\u01b0 x\u1eed trong cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp<\/em>,” ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng \u1ea9n danh cho bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00ed d\u1ee5: “T\u1ea1i bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp team ti\u1ebfp theo, h\u00e3y c\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 r\u1ee5t r\u00e8 sang m\u1ed9t b\u00ean, h\u00e3y d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean n\u00f3i ra ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn ho\u1eb7c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Thay v\u00ec \u0111\u1ebfm \u0111\u1ebfn 5 m\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1 th\u00ec h\u00e3y n\u00f3i ra. M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t, h\u00e3y th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129, thay v\u00ec m\u00e3i gi\u1eef im l\u1eb7ng<\/em>“, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng chia s\u1ebb “b\u00ed k\u00edp”.<\/p>\n

7. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3n l\u00f2ng<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

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B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch, ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, chuy\u1ec7n bu\u1ed3n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1eddi. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng Carolyn Choi s\u1ebd b\u1eadt m\u00ed cho b\u1ea1n v\u00e0i kinh nghi\u1ec7m b\u01b0\u1edbc qua r\u1ee7i ro khi m\u1edbi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o giai \u0111o\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh:<\/p>\n

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“Tu\u1ed5i 20 l\u00e0 qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian kh\u00e1 t\u1ef1 do; ph\u1ea3i qua 30 \u0111\u1ebfn 40 tu\u1ed5i ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian “l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng” \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m. Sau \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi c\u01a1n ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n v\u00e0 quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i ‘\u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111ua’ th\u1eadt nhanh ch\u00f3ng”<\/em>.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

8. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m h\u00e0nh x\u1eed tr\u00ean b\u00e0n \u0103n<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

“C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n di\u1ec5n ra trong c\u00e1c b\u1eefa \u0103n. Nhai to ho\u1eb7c h\u00e1 mi\u1ec7ng qu\u00e1 r\u1ed9ng, m\u00fat tay v\u00e0 d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee5, khu\u1ef7u tay \u0111\u1eb7t tr\u00ean b\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec1u cho th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/em>“, Drew Pavilonis vi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

9. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

Joe Choi khuy\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb tu\u1ed5i h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 th\u1eadt k\u1ef9 v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3n chi ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: “Xa x\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng chi tr\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m n\u00f4 l\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 cho m\u1ed9t phong c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9o d\u00e0i. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n mua nh\u1eefng m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 trong kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

10. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 20 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e3ng m\u1ea1n m\u1edbi. M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i. Theo Joe Choi, h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch “th\u1ecfa hi\u1ec7p” v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i c\u0169ng quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng k\u00e9m c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c: “Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 nu\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng n\u00f3 v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 ng\u00e0y t\u1eadn th\u1ebf \u0111ang \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ecb ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i. \u0110\u1eebng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. H\u00e3y ng\u1ea9ng cao \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u00e9<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i. H\u00f4m nay b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng ng\u00e0y mai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y b\u1ecf qua ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

11. H\u1ecdc b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

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Vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc \u1edf ngo\u00e0i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u1eefa. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n r\u1ed9ng m\u1edf, \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi t\u1eeb kh\u1eafp m\u1ecdi n\u01a1i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp ngo\u1ea1i ng\u1eef v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u01b0\u1edbc ngo\u00e0i, h\u1ecdc nh\u1ea1c… hay b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa.<\/p>\n

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“\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 n\u01a1i \u0111\u00e2u, b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 l\u00fac n\u00e0o v\u00e0 v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9<\/em>“.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

12. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc
Sau khi th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Dan Gilbert khuy\u00ean: “Ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0m thay \u0111\u1ed5i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n tr\u1ebb c\u1ee9 ngh\u0129, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 lu\u00f4n trong t\u1ea7m tay v\u00e0 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh n\u00ean th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch 5 n\u0103m ho\u1eb7c 10 n\u0103m cho cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt, nh\u1eefng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn l\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u00edch. “Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch trong v\u00e0i n\u0103m t\u1edbi, k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed<\/em>“, Choi cho bi\u1ebft th\u00eam. H\u00e3y l\u1ea5y cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi Choi l\u00e0m v\u00ed d\u1ee5:<\/p>\n

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Su\u1ed1t th\u1eddi gian h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, anh h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec1 k\u1ef9 s\u01b0 v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn \u0110\u00f4ng \u00c2u \u0111\u1ec3 thu ho\u1ea1ch b\u1eafp; song hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n ra nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Trong khi s\u1ed1ng \u1edf ch\u00e2u \u00c2u, anh c\u0169ng ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong m\u1ed9t t\u00f2a nh\u00e0 tr\u00e1ng l\u1ec7 t\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 New York, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n ra.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Mong ch\u1edd nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea3y ra s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean (hy v\u1ecdng vui v\u1ebb<\/em>) b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

13. L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

“C\u1ea7u n\u1ed1i t\u1eeb ph\u00e2n t\u00edch d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 – bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean th\u00f4ng tin s\u1eb5n c\u00f3. Trong khi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nguy hi\u1ec3m, v\u00ec v\u1eady c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n t\u00edch qua ho\u1eb7c ch\u1edd th\u00eam th\u00f4ng tin tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi \u0111\u01b0a ra quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/em>“, Janic Butevics vi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng; song c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, d\u00f9 c\u00f3 ho\u1ea3ng s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 lo l\u1eafng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, b\u00ed quy\u1ebft l\u00e0 “h\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u01b0 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang d\u00ed s\u00fang v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i cho b\u1ea1n 15 gi\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Qua v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n quen v\u1edbi \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 th\u1edf m\u1ed7i khi ph\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u1eefa<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

14. L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 “b\u00e1n” b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc
K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh cho nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean sale.<\/p>\n

“C\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ‘b\u00e1n’ b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng thi\u1ebft y\u1ebfu lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Trong kinh doanh, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u00e1n m\u00ecnh cho kh\u00e1ch h\u00e0ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng. Trong khi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ‘b\u00e1n m\u00ecnh’ cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 l\u1ee3i \u00edch ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd<\/em>“, Lukas Schwekendiek vi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f9a v\u1edbi nhau r\u1eb1ng “\u0111i l\u00e0m, ‘n\u1ed5’ gi\u1ecfi l\u00e0 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ed1t l\u01b0\u01a1ng cao<\/em>“. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang trong t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, nh\u01b0ng kho\u1ea3ng h\u01a1n 50% l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. \u1ede b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed5 v\u0169 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n th\u1ed5i ph\u1ed3ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n; nh\u01b0ng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t. T\u1ea1i th\u1eddi bu\u1ed5i n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n “h\u1eefu x\u1ea1 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean h\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/em>“; trong l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec coi nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t.<\/p>\n

V\u1eady n\u00ean, h\u00e3y qu\u0103ng n\u1ed7i x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 \u0111i, t\u1eadp n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng t\u00e0i n\u0103ng v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m b\u1ea1n c\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng, c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 thu h\u00fat ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

15. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

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\u0110\u00e0m ph\u00e1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng di\u1ec5n ra th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, ngay t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m sao thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n t\u1eeb “kh\u00f4ng<\/em>” chuy\u1ec3n th\u00e0nh “c\u00f3<\/em>“. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3, \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, nh\u01b0ng l\u00e0m sao khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m: hai b\u00ean c\u0169ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i m\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n t\u1eeb r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ngu\u1ed3n: s\u00e1ch v\u1edf, phim \u1ea3nh \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1eddi th\u1ef1c. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean, h\u00e3y ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n nh\u1ecf nh\u01b0 khi \u0111i mua \u0111\u1ed3 ngo\u00e0i ch\u1ee3 ho\u1eb7c th\u1ecfa thu\u1eadn g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8; khi \u0111\u00e3 n\u1eafm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00ed quy\u1ebft r\u1ed3i, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e0m ph\u00e1n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n v\u1edbi s\u1ebfp ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed1i th\u1ee7.<\/p>\n

16. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe\u200b<\/span><\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

“H\u00e3y luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u1eafng nghe; b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n<\/em>“, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng M.Halhan khuy\u00ean. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, theo Dave Kerpen, CEO c\u1ee7a Likeable Local cho bi\u1ebft k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong kinh doanh m\u00e0 c\u00f2n trong \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

L\u1eafng nghe \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n; r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 tin l\u1eddi h\u1ecd n\u00f3i hay kh\u00f4ng, h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 b\u1ecf qua \u00fd g\u00ec, say m\u00ea v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o… Khi bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1eafng nghe c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, h\u00e3y “ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i<\/em>“. Hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng nhau, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1eb5n c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe th\u00ec im l\u1eb7ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Sau \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai “b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng<\/em>” v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t n\u00f3i cho \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eadn khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed5i vai tr\u00f2 cho nhau. M\u1ee5c ti\u00eau cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 khi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u l\u1eabn nhau.<\/p>\n

17. H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn<\/h2>\n

\"H\u1ecdc<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 s\u1ed1 IQ cao ng\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00ec ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng: “T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. T\u1ee9c l\u00e0, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u n\u00e0o h\u1ebft”<\/em>.<\/p>\n

“Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n ch\u1ec9 sau m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00eam. Ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 vun \u0111\u1eafp, c\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ‘\u0111\u1ed5 m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i, s\u00f4i n\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft’ v\u00e0 ti\u00eau t\u1ed1n th\u1eddi gian suy ngh\u0129. Tu\u1ed5i tr\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u n\u00f4ng n\u1ed5i v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch r\u00fat ra b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc sau nh\u1eefng kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111au \u0111\u00f3. Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c t\u00ednh ti\u00ean quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/em>“, ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng Steve Kobrin k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0110\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 20<\/strong> l\u00e0 qu\u00e3ng th\u1eddi gian khi\u1ebfn con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng “r\u1ed1i r\u1eafm<\/em>“. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc n\u1eefa, nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c th\u1ee5<\/em>“. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 \u0111i tr\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 l\u00fac n\u00e0y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho m\u1ecdi h\u00e0nh vi tr\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u00e1p lu\u1eadt c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec sai.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39775"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39775"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39775\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39775"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39775"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39775"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}