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H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng vui v\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa s\u1ee9c vui \u0111\u00f9a b\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n vui t\u00ednh v\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai mu\u1ed1n \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 hay k\u00eau ca, ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n s\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n – r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c bu\u1ed3n l\u00e2y.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc n\u0103m 2014 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia thu\u1ed9c tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Virginia cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn cho m\u00ecnh c\u00fa s\u1ed1c \u0111i\u1ec7n thay v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i ng\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n trong v\u00f2ng 15 ph\u00fat. H\u00e3y c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111i\u1ec3m l\u1ea1i 10 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p tr\u00ean trang Business Insider<\/strong> \u0111\u1ec3 xem b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t, nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n hay kh\u00f4ng nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n lu\u00f4n t\u1ea1o b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed tr\u1ea7m l\u1eafng v\u00e0 t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t<\/h2>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddiMike Nudelman\/Business Insider<\/span><\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec t\u00ecm ra s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe, g\u00f3p vui cho c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn cho bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 b\u1ecb r\u01a1i v\u00e0o th\u00e1i c\u1ef1c m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u. C\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee9 im l\u1eb7ng, l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i g\u00ec c\u1ea3, ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ri\u00eang, t\u1ecf ra u\u1ec3 o\u1ea3i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 nghe trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i khi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 b\u1ef1c b\u1ed9i v\u00e0 m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi. Th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean Jack Bennett g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 “cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1ee9ng gi\u1eefa ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe<\/em>“, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng nghe ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 nghe m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu n\u00f3i g\u00ec. Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng.<\/p>\n

2. Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddiMike Nudelman\/Business Insider<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea1t nh\u1ebdo, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh v\u00e0 b\u1ecf qu\u00ean ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u1edf nh\u00e0 v\u1eady. Khi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdp, th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i r\u1ea5t \u00edt ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i g\u00ec, ch\u1ec9 l\u1eb7ng im nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i, \u0111\u00f4i khi g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ecf ra l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

Th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean Garrick Saito mi\u00eau t\u1ea3 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m “ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i v\u00e0 ph\u1edbt l\u1edd nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n (c\u00f3 l\u1ebd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1edbn!) <\/em>v\u00e0 ng\u1ea7m n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: “t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u cho ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e9p l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 m\u00e0 th\u00f4i”<\/em>. \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean ch\u00fa t\u00e2m quan s\u00e1t khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 xem c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd \u0111ang th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

3. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfu l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u01b0\u1eddi<\/h2>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddiMike Nudelman\/Business Insider<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi mang m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u00edch l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n b\u00ean nhau. \u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t, kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch thu h\u00fat v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh hay th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc. B\u1edfi m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc cho th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t “nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c linh \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/em>“: kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn, ch\u1eaft l\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng; sau \u0111\u00f3 “l\u00e0m qu\u00e1<\/em>” l\u00ean. \u0110i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. “Khi t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 h\u00f3m h\u1ec9nh, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn. V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n g\u00ec<\/em>“, th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean Will Wister, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00fa v\u1ecb, chia s\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

4. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n lu\u00f4n l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1<\/h2>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddiMike Nudelman\/Business Insider<\/span><\/p>\n

Th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean Andy Warwick ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a anh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn qu\u00e1n r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n. Sau m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian, Andy kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1eefa v\u00e0 v\u1ed9i r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi nh\u00f3m. K\u1ec3 t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0o cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n, anh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u1edbi b\u1ea3o t\u00e0ng, \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch, leo n\u00fai hay \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e2u ngo\u00e0i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ebfn pub.<\/p>\n

“Theo quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n, lu\u00f4n s\u1ed1ng theo m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Vi\u1ec7c thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng khi\u1ebfn kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu t\u1ed1i cu\u1ed1i tu\u1ea7n n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng t\u1edbi qu\u00e1n bar, th\u00ec khi g\u1eb7p ai \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1?<\/em>“, Andy b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn.\u200b<\/p>\n

Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n hay l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 g\u1ecdi m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i n\u01b0\u1edbc u\u1ed1ng quen thu\u1ed9c khi \u0111i u\u1ed1ng c\u00e0 ph\u00ea, t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169, kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi l\u1ea1. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n th\u00edch s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u00edt v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng.<\/p>\n

5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n\u200b<\/h2>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddiMike Nudelman\/Business Insider<\/span><\/p>\n

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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi “tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i<\/em>” th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 c\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i; ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t nhi\u1ec1u khi c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00e1i qu\u00e1. Khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi c\u00f3 g\u00ec m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 “kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec<\/em>” ho\u1eb7c “v\u1eabn v\u1eady<\/em>“, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 nh\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111ang d\u1ea7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t. \u0110\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n gi\u1eef cho t\u00e2m tr\u00ed m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1edfi m\u1edf h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u s\u00e1ch truy\u1ec7n hay h\u1ecdc m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m m\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

Alexa Knowles k\u1ec3: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n th\u01b0\u1eddng r\u1ea5t \u00edt n\u00f3i. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, h\u1ecd s\u1ee3 n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea1i sai nhi\u1ec1u. Th\u1ee9 hai, h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129: ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n nghe m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i ch\u1ee9? Ngay c\u1ea3 khi ai \u0111\u00f3 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1p l\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c cho \u00fd ki\u1ebfn, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd ng\u1eadp ng\u1eebng ki\u1ec3u nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ec3 coi, \u0111\u1ea1i lo\u1ea1i l\u00e0, t\u00f4i \u0111o\u00e1n<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

6. Lu\u00f4n n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 g\u00ec<\/h2>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddiMike Nudelman\/Business Insider<\/span><\/p>\n

Khi kh\u00f4ng coi tr\u1ecdng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 tin \u0111\u01b0a ra ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c tranh lu\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. “Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 tin. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t \u00edt khi tranh lu\u1eadn ho\u1eb7c n\u00eau \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1 t\u00e0i kh\u00e1c nhau trong cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i<\/em>“, Maranda Marvin, t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec7u, th\u00fa nh\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

Nh\u00ecn chung, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd theo s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4ng. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eefng th\u1ebf, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng “bu\u1ed3n<\/em>” ph\u1ea3n b\u00e1c l\u1ea1i \u00fd ki\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 n\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n sai. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd, vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, n\u00eau ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

7. Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n hay<\/h2>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddiMike Nudelman\/Business Insider<\/span><\/p>\n

“Mu\u1ed1n quy\u1ebfn r\u0169 ho\u1eb7c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 k\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u00fa v\u1ecb. Ngo\u00e0i ra, b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch thu h\u00fat m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0o c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c, k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau<\/em>“, Dave Cheng \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, vui v\u1ebb lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, thu h\u00fat s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u00e0 t\u00ecm \u0111i\u1ec3m d\u1eebng th\u00edch h\u1ee3p cho nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n d\u00f9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec7u th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecf d\u1edf c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c chuy\u1ec3n ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111ang n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1 k\u1ef3 c\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

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8. Kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi “b\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 xa x\u00f4i<\/em>” c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddiMike Nudelman\/Business Insider<\/span><\/p>\n

“Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ea7m ho\u1eb7c ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecdc \u1ea9n \u00fd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u00ean trong nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 xa x\u00f4i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh. Hay n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n, h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng ch\u00fa nai ng\u01a1 ng\u00e1c \u0111i l\u1ea1c t\u1eeb h\u00e0nh tinh kh\u00e1c t\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1eb7t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u00fang \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean “n\u00f3i th\u1eb3ng, n\u00f3i th\u1eadt” ch\u1ee9 \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n ho\u1eb7c g\u1ee3i \u00fd l\u1ea5p l\u1eedng<\/em>“, Drew Austin cho bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

9. S\u1ee3 h\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi m\u1ebb<\/h2>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddiMike Nudelman\/Business Insider<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y, n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi l\u1ea1 v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ni\u1ec1m ph\u1ea5n kh\u00edch kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn lo\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i trong 800 ng\u00e0n n\u0103m qua. Cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i s\u1ebd ng\u1eebng l\u1ea1i ngay, n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n

“V\u1edbi t\u00f4i, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec7u l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec m\u1edbi l\u1ea1 t\u1eeb h\u1ecd c\u1ea3. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e1n ng\u1eaft, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng kh\u00e1c nhau ngay t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7<\/em>“, th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean Stan Hayward b\u00e0n lu\u1eadn.\u200b<\/p>\n

10. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ai \u0111\u00f3 “t\u00ecnh nguy\u1ec7n” tham gia cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n<\/h2>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddiMike Nudelman\/Business Insider<\/span><\/p>\n

“Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00e1n ng\u1eaft th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfn ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u00edch th\u00fa tham gia v\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. T\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi ch\u1ea1m m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n \u0111i\u1ec7u<\/em>“, th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean Marie Holland nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft n\u1ea1p ai \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong cu\u1ed9c h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n th\u00ec ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n v\u00e0 t\u1ebb nh\u1ea1t r\u1ed3i.<\/p>\n

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H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mong mu\u1ed1n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng vui v\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ecfa s\u1ee9c vui \u0111\u00f9a b\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n vui t\u00ednh v\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai mu\u1ed1n \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 hay k\u00eau ca, ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n s\u1ee3 s\u1ef1 nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n – r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c bu\u1ed3n l\u00e2y.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39787"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39787"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39787\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39787"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39787"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39787"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}