{"id":39795,"date":"2023-12-10T01:42:54","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:42:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nhung-thoi-quen-khien-cho-ban-tro-nen-kem-thong-minh.html"},"modified":"2023-12-24T21:50:05","modified_gmt":"2023-12-24T14:50:05","slug":"nhung-thoi-quen-khien-cho-ban-tro-nen-kem-thong-minh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/nhung-thoi-quen-khien-cho-ban-tro-nen-kem-thong-minh.html","title":{"rendered":"Nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean k\u00e9m th\u00f4ng minh"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh<\/strong> trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ecf trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i \u0111ang v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i l\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd.<\/p>\n

D\u00f9 \u1edf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc hay n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n \u0103n m\u1eb7c hay nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 n\u1ed9i dung c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i khi\u1ebfn cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea1n theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00e9m th\u00f4ng minh th\u00ec b\u1ea1n h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed1i chi\u1ebfu xem v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1eafc nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

1. \u0102n m\u1eb7c l\u00f4i th\u00f4i<\/h2>\n

Trang ph\u1ee5c l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o khi g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0103n m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1eb9p, g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9 l\u00e0 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean g\u1eb7p b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng s\u1eed kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng t\u1eeb h\u1ecd. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0103n m\u1eb7c l\u00f4i th\u00f4i vid d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n m\u1eb7c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc \u00e1o ph\u00f4ng ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc qu\u1ea7n th\u1ec3 thao th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft khi ph\u1ea3i d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u1ede nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c hay \u0111i ti\u1ec7c n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng quy \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 trang ph\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 theo m\u1ed9t quy chu\u1ea9n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. B\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m theo \u0111\u00fang quy chu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a trang ph\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u01b0\u1edbc ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p hay b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 l\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu nghi\u00eam t\u00fac ho\u1eb7c ng\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c… kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u. N\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ra kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fa \u00fd th\u00ec h\u00e3y xem l\u1ea1i trang ph\u1ee5c b\u1ea1n m\u1eb7c h\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9nh t\u1ec1 v\u00e0 g\u1ecdn g\u00e0ng hay ch\u01b0a?<\/p>\n

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2. D\u00f9ng sai t\u1eeb<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ed7i m\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean k\u00e9m th\u00f4ng minh tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n d\u00f9ng sai t\u1eeb hay d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb th\u00e2n m\u1eadt hay ti\u1ebfng l\u00f3ng khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu nghi\u00eam t\u00fac, v\u00f4 duy\u00ean th\u00e2m ch\u00ed l\u00e0 ng\u1ed1c ngh\u1ebfch. \u1ede nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u c\u0169ng l\u00e0 n\u01a1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 t\u01b0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u1edf v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddii th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

3. Nh\u00ecn v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbnh th\u1eabn th\u1edd<\/h2>\n

Trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta, nhi\u1ec1u khi b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p \u0111ang nh\u00ecn m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang nh\u00ecn g\u00ec nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 khi \u0111ang nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i, d\u00f9 cho \u0111\u00e3 b\u00e0o ch\u1eefa r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 h\u1ecd n\u00f3i. C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u l\u00fd do khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nghe v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u1ecd \u0111ang \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp t\u1edbi. V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n t\u1eadp trung nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3ng kh\u00f4ng v\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea5t h\u1ed3n v\u00e0 c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean k\u00e9m th\u00f4ng minh \u0111i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

4. N\u00f3i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi \u1edf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 n\u01a1i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ra qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129 r\u1eafng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ebfu tinh t\u1ebf, s\u1eafc s\u1ea3o. M\u1ed9t nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc v\u00e0ng khi n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u1ea3m nh\u1ea3m d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng, gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu th\u1eadp th\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng th\u00f4ng tin quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n n\u00ean ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi m\u00ecnh n\u00f3i ra \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean n\u00f3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng suy ngh\u0129 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ra tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u00e0m h\u1ed3 v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n thi\u1ebfu hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

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5. N\u00f3i qu\u00e1 \u00edt<\/h2>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, n\u00f3i qu\u00e1 \u00edt c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng im l\u1eb7ng trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111ang n\u00f3i, thi\u1ebfu ch\u00ednh ki\u1ebfn ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 nh\u00fat nh\u00e1t hay x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 k\u00e9m th\u00f4ng minh, tuy nhi\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng suy ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf \u1edf nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n m\u1edf l\u1eddi, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ee7<\/strong> \u0111\u1ec3 cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n khi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

6. \u0110\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c v\u1ec1 tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111\u00f4i khi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u1ea5y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n sai.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi qua \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd t\u1eebng ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf r\u1eb1ng, v\u1edbi b\u1ea3y t\u1ef7 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, c\u00f3 b\u1ea3y t\u1ef7 c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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