{"id":39805,"date":"2023-12-10T01:43:19","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:43:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/lieu-co-phai-nhan-tin-cang-nhieu-thi-moi-quan-he-cang-ben-vung-hay-khong.html"},"modified":"2023-12-24T21:50:26","modified_gmt":"2023-12-24T14:50:26","slug":"lieu-co-phai-nhan-tin-cang-nhieu-thi-moi-quan-he-cang-ben-vung-hay-khong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/lieu-co-phai-nhan-tin-cang-nhieu-thi-moi-quan-he-cang-ben-vung-hay-khong.html","title":{"rendered":"Li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eafn tin c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00e0ng b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng hay kh\u00f4ng?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"content-detail textview\">\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1eafn tin cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau hay kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eafn tin cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u0169ng nh\u1eafn tin l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hay \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi? Sau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n, vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eafn tin ch\u1ee9ng minh b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3 su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y, s\u1ef1 li\u00ean quan gi\u1eefa vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eafn tin v\u00e0 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u1edf hai gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau. N\u00f3i c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 gi\u1ed1ng nhau v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 nh\u1eafn tin th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi n\u1eeda kia c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. V\u1eady li\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eafn tin c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00e0ng b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">\n<h2>C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?\u200b<\/h2>\n<p>Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 tr\u00ean t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed <em>Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy<\/em> \u0111i t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 li\u00ean quan gi\u1eefa th\u00f3i quen nh\u1eafn tin v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1eeb 276 thanh ni\u00ean tham gia (c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i t\u1eeb 18 \u0111\u1ebfn 25) \u0111ang trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 r\u00e0ng bu\u1ed9c, h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u thu\u1eadt l\u1ea1i th\u00f3i quen giao ti\u1ebfp v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, v\u1ee3 ch\u1ed3ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean g\u1eedi tin nh\u1eafn t\u1edbi n\u1eeda kia. Trong s\u1ed1 276 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia, m\u1ed9t n\u1eeda \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00ednh h\u00f4n ho\u1eb7c k\u1ebft h\u00f4n r\u1ed3i. B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00e1c, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n h\u1ecd c\u00f3 suy ngh\u0129 n\u00ean k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia quan t\u00e2m c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">\n<h2>Nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c chung<\/h2>\n<p>\u1ede m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ed9, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef th\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng tin nh\u1eafn theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch gi\u1ed1ng nhau, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng \u1edf c\u1ea3 2 gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u00e0y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m qua tin nh\u1eafn n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 li\u00ean k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng gi\u1eefa hai gi\u1edbi, s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan gi\u1eefa s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng tin nh\u1eafn m\u00e0 h\u1ecd g\u1eedi \u0111i h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y so v\u1edbi <strong>m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/strong> v\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng hay kh\u00f4ng. C\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 r\u1eb1ng khi n\u1eef gi\u1edbi nh\u1eafn tin c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u v\u1edbi n\u1eeda kia c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 t\u1ec9 l\u1ec7 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00e0ng cao, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n<h2>M\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c gi\u1eefa s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng tin nh\u1eafn g\u1eedi \u0111i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">\n<div id=\"articleads2\" class=\"adbox in-article adsense\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p>Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nam gi\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng tin nh\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 trao \u0111\u1ed5i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c gi\u1eefa s\u1ed1 l\u01b0\u1ee3ng tin nh\u1eafn trung b\u00ecnh t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nam gi\u1edbi tham gia nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u khi g\u1eedi tin nh\u1eafn t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u0169ng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u00f3 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u00f4ng qua tin nh\u1eafn nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n nam gi\u1edbi. Tuy v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tham gia l\u1ea1i coi vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eafn tin nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng vui v\u1ebb l\u1eafm v\u1edbi n\u1eeda kia c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<h2>L\u1eddi khuy\u00ean d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n<p style=\"text-align: center\">\n<p>C\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 mang t\u00ednh t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i, c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c g\u1eedi nhi\u1ec1u tin nh\u1eafn s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y an to\u00e0n h\u01a1n trong s\u1ef1 b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n m\u1edbi n\u00e0y c\u00f2n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 h\u1eefu \u00edch xung quanh vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Lori Schade &#8211; nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u ch\u00ednh c\u1ee7a d\u1ef1 \u00e1n cho bi\u1ebft: &#8220;<em>Nam gi\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng tin nh\u1eafn nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec v\u00e0 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eedi nhi\u1ec1u tin nh\u1eafn th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng \u00edt h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd<\/em>&#8220;.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p>&#8220;C\u00f3 l\u1ebd \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch khi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd [\u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng] mu\u1ed1n ki\u1ec3m tra ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ra m\u1eb7t, thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i di \u0111\u1ed9ng&#8221; &#8211; Lori Schade suy \u0111o\u00e1n.\u200b<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>Schade khuy\u00ean r\u1eb1ng, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i d\u1eebng nh\u1eafn tin ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n, n\u1ebfu cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p th\u00ec n\u00ean gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp h\u01a1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c trao \u0111\u1ed5i tin nh\u1eafn k\u00e9o d\u00e0i. C\u00f4 c\u0169ng cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu h\u01a1n, b\u1edfi v\u00ec khi nh\u1eafn tin, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi &#8220;<em>c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, nghi\u1ec1n ng\u1eabm v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 m\u1edbi ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn cho v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng<\/em>&#8220;.<\/p>\n<div id=\"articleads3\" class=\"adbox in-article\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<p>V\u00ec v\u1eady, khi trao \u0111\u1ed5i tin nh\u1eafn, h\u00e3y c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u1ea5t. H\u01b0\u1edbng cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m s\u1eafp t\u1edbi ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau m\u1ebfn v\u00e0 tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u1eafn tin cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau hay kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eafn tin cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u0169ng nh\u1eafn tin l\u1ea1i cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c hay \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi? Sau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n, vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eafn tin ch\u1ee9ng minh b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n duy tr\u00ec s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i \u0111\u00f3 su\u1ed1t c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39805"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39805"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39805\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":69621,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39805\/revisions\/69621"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39805"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39805"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39805"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}