{"id":39841,"date":"2023-12-10T01:44:09","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:44:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/3-kieu-ban-be-ma-ban-nen-co-trong-cuoc-doi-minh.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T08:52:17","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T08:52:17","slug":"3-kieu-ban-be-ma-ban-nen-co-trong-cuoc-doi-minh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/3-kieu-ban-be-ma-ban-nen-co-trong-cuoc-doi-minh.html","title":{"rendered":"3 ki\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean c\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Tr\u1ea3i qua bao nhi\u00eau n\u0103m th\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. V\u1eady ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 d\u00e0nh bao nhi\u00eau th\u1eddi gian cho h\u1ecd? \u0110\u00e2y c\u00f3 l\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta th\u00eam ph\u1ea7n \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eb3m s\u00e2u trong t\u00ecnh b\u1eb1ng h\u1eefu l\u00e0 ao \u01b0\u1edbc nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n b\u00e8<\/strong> c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u00ea\u0301n t\u00e2\u0301t ca\u0309 cu\u0300ng tr\u01a1\u0309 n\u00ean ha\u0323nh phu\u0301c. C\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian cho b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i theo th\u1eddi gian, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ki\u00ea\u0309u ba\u0323n be\u0300 lu\u00f4n c\u00e2\u0300n xu\u00e2\u0301t hi\u00ea\u0323n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00ea\u0309 giu\u0301p cu\u00f4\u0323c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u00f4\u0301ng \u0111\u00f4\u0323ng va\u0300 phong ph\u00fa.<\/p>\n

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“S\u1ebd c\u00f3 ba ki\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u00e0 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi: ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1, ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 d\u01b0\u0323a d\u00e2\u0303m v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00ea\u0309 chung vui v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n<\/em>“. William Rawlins, gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 – chuy\u00ean gia \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Ohio, M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch “The Compass of Friendship<\/em>” \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00fac k\u1ebft: “B\u1eb1ng chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n trong l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u1ea7y s\u00e2u s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i trong t\u00f4i, d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau tu\u1ed5i \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec nh\u1eefng mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u1edf nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd v\u1eabn nguy\u00ean v\u1eb9n.<\/em>“<\/p>\n

Gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Rawlins chi\u0309 ra nh\u01b0\u0303ng \u0111\u0103\u0323c \u0111i\u00ea\u0309m quan tro\u0323ng \u01a1\u0309 t\u01b0\u0300ng ki\u00ea\u0309u ba\u0323n b\u00e8:<\/strong><\/h2>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e2m s\u1ef1…\u200b<\/strong><\/h3>\n

\"3<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u0103n kho\u0103n v\u1edbi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai hay \u0111ang lo l\u1eafng li\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn c\u00f3 nh\u1eafn tin tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u1ea1i hay kh\u00f4ng, v\u1eady th\u00ec h\u00e3y l\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee9a b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ra “than th\u1edf<\/em>” nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng tr\u0103n tr\u1edf trong \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

Chuy\u00ean gia Rawlins cho bi\u1ebft: “S\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n – b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8. \u0110\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi, khi h\u1ecfi \u00fd ki\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u00e8, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00e1ch quan, th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n theo h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u00e0y h\u01a1n h\u1eb3n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m b\u1edfi h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng l\u00fac c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00f3 nghe gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n \u0111i m\u1ed9t h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean b\u1ecf \u0111i “l\u1edbp v\u1ecf b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7<\/em>” c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u00fd ki\u1ebfn kh\u00f3 nghe \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e2u t\u1ee5c ng\u1eef m\u00e0 \u00f4ng b\u00e0 ta v\u1eabn th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i: “M\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00f2ng sau”, n<\/em>h\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i ra \u0111\u00fang s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt m\u1edbi ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean c\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00fd do..\u200b<\/strong><\/h3>\n

\"3<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng trong t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 khi bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh \u0111ang c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ef1a d\u1eabm, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y, nh\u01b0: \u0111\u00f3n t\u1ea1i s\u00e2n bay khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean gh\u00e9 qua, cho b\u1ea1n m\u01b0\u1ee3n m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00f4i gi\u00e0y chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n s\u1eafp t\u1edbi hay tr\u00f4ng ch\u1eebng con b\u1ea1n su\u1ed1t m\u1ed9t gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ed3 trong cu\u1ed9c h\u1eb9n v\u1edbi b\u00e1c s\u0129. H\u1ecd lu\u00f4n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i<\/strong> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n

T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i: H\u00e3y th\u1eed ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng, d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n quan t\u00e2m. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

“Nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 cho h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 quan t\u00e2m b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n gi\u00fap cho b\u1ea1n m\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u00ec ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/em>“, Rawlins c\u00f3 n\u00f3i.
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Ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f9ng ta chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng ni\u1ec1m vui…<\/h3>\n

\"3<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng ta chung vui, chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc vui v\u1ebb trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/strong>. Nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ni\u1ec1m vui \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0111i ch\u01a1i c\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0: \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p hay gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u00e0nh g\u1ea7n g\u0169i.<\/p>\n

Rawlins t\u1eebng vi\u1ebft: “C\u01a1 h\u1ed9i k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 l\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111o s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 do m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 b\u1eaft bu\u1ed9c hay m\u1ed9t vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 (nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p<\/em>), b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lo l\u1eafng.<\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fac c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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