{"id":39845,"date":"2023-12-10T01:44:14","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:44:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/khi-gap-that-bai-hay-nho-den-nhung-cau-noi-nay.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T08:51:53","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T08:51:53","slug":"khi-gap-that-bai-hay-nho-den-nhung-cau-noi-nay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/khi-gap-that-bai-hay-nho-den-nhung-cau-noi-nay.html","title":{"rendered":"Khi g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y"},"content":{"rendered":"
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C\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong> khi g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng chia s\u1ebb c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n khi g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ai ch\u01b0a? Chia s\u1ebb l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch hay \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u00f3. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. Khi g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i sau t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n

H\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 ai c\u0169ng t\u1eebng \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong \u0111\u1eddi. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u1eebng c\u00f3 bu\u1ed3n hay ngh\u0129 qu\u1ea9n. H\u00e3y bi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c, l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1edfi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n, t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec3m k\u00e9m, b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1t v\u00ec m\u1ea5t tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 trong gi\u1edd t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n l\u1edbn h\u01a1n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua k\u1ef3 ki\u1ec3m tra, kh\u00f4ng v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc hay kh\u00f4ng xin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c \u1edf c\u00f4ng ty mong mu\u1ed1n\u2026 Nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng v\u00e0 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 nh\u01b0 Bill Gates c\u0169ng t\u1eebng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec th\u1ebf, d\u1ec5 hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1i sao ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n nghe nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

\"Khi<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, h\u00e3y ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong th\u1eddi gian g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y nh\u1ea5t, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c s\u1ed1ng theo nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng, \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111ang theo \u0111u\u1ed5i. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 qu\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 hay \u0111ang t\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch “kh\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ebfc<\/em>“. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1ec9nh l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc 11 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e0i n\u0103ng d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng h\u01a1n cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

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“Everything is hard before it is easy<\/em>“<\/p>\n

“M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng”<\/em><\/p>\n

(Johann Wolfgang von Goethe)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng t\u1eaft n\u00e0o c\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean chuy\u00ean nghi\u1ec7p \u1edf m\u1ed9t l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u nh\u1ecdc nh\u1eb1n. Vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a gi\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u01a1i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y v\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn. Ngay l\u00fac kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh. Th\u1eadt l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i tuy\u1ec7t di\u1ec7u ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? H\u00e3y t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1ec1 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1ea3i qua. C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, b\u1edfi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 n\u01a1i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

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“Success is not built on success. Not great success. Great success is built on failure, frustration, even catastrophe.”<\/em><\/p>\n

“Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng t\u1eeb th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. C\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. M\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00ednh t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u1eeb th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda”.<\/em><\/p>\n

(Sumner Redstone)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

T\u1eeb “th\u1ea3m h\u1ecda<\/em>” trong c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t hay v\u00ec n\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y ngay c\u1ea3 th\u1eddi kh\u1eafc t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn ta \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng to l\u1edbn sau n\u00e0y. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nh\u1ecf l\u1ebb m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c l\u1edbn n\u1eefa. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u00fd ch\u00ed, n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ec3 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng gi\u1eef nguy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft, kh\u00e1t v\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0i th\u00e1ng. Khi ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 ch\u00e1n n\u1ea3n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, khi h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng trong nh\u1eefng l\u0129nh v\u1ef1c m\u1edbi, ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c to l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai. N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nhanh ch\u00f3ng khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 “t\u1ee5t gi\u1ea3m<\/em>” nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft. Sau khi b\u1ecb n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i \u0111\u00e8 b\u1eb9p, h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ecf cu\u1ed9c gi\u1eefa ch\u1eebng.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

\"Khi<\/p>\n

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“My great concern is not whether you have failed, but whether you are content with your failure.”<\/em><\/p>\n

“Tr\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ra sao, m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.”<\/em><\/p>\n

(Abraham Lincoln)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho ch\u00fang ta mu\u00f4n v\u00e0n kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1eed th\u00e1ch v\u00e0 cho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i bi\u1ebft bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 khi l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng vi\u1ec7c, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 mong mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 s\u1ed1ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ra sao, h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng, quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ta, bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c, bi\u1ebft b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, r\u00fat kinh nghi\u1ec7m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Khi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 minh m\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n, r\u1ed3i d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t, kh\u00f4ng n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ai.<\/p>\n

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“Failure is the condiment that gives success its flavor”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 gia v\u1ecb t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 ngon mi\u1ec7ng c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng”.<\/em><\/p>\n

(Truman Capote)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

T\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 Truman Capota \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i l\u00ean m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ec1u “kh\u00f4ng hay<\/em>” x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft, gi\u00fap ta bi\u1ebft qu\u00fd tr\u1ecdng nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 “t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/em>“. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n

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“Please know that I am aware of the hazards. I want to do it because I want to do it. Women must try to do things as men have tried. When they fail, their failure must be a challenge to others”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i v\u1eabn mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n th\u1ebf. Ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, ph\u1ea3i th\u1eed th\u00e1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Khi h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1eed th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c”.<\/em><\/p>\n

(Amelia Earhart)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00ec n\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n nghi\u00eang v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y d\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ta v\u1eabn s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9.<\/p>\n

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“Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“S\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn ra h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf g\u1ea7n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o trong gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1eeb b\u1ecf”.<\/em><\/p>\n

(Thomas Edison)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

C\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y mu\u1ed1n nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y “m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c tranh l\u1edbn<\/em>” ngay khi \u0111ang m\u1eafc k\u1eb9t trong th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i t\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u01b0\u1edbc ra ngo\u00e0i kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn ra b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

\"Khi<\/p>\n

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“Mistakes are the portals of discovery”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“Sai l\u1ea7m l\u00e0 c\u00e1nh c\u1ed5ng c\u1ee7a kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1”.<\/em><\/p>\n

(James Joyce)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Nh\u1eefng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra t\u1eeb sai l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

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“Remembering that I’ll be dead soon is the most important tool I’ve ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything\u2014all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure\u2014these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important.”<\/em><\/p>\n

“H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u1edbn trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. V\u00ec h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 – t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng mong \u0111\u1ee3i, ni\u1ec1m ki\u00eau h\u00e3nh, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 m\u1ea5t m\u1eb7t hay th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i \u2013 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 quan tr\u1ecdng”.<\/em><\/p>\n

(Steve Jobs)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Steve Jobs cho ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t “c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5<\/em>” tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng li\u1ec7u th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i s\u1ebd t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng? Steve Jobs c\u0169ng cho r\u1eb1ng th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh minh, d\u00e1m s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a con tim v\u00e0 tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

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“I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you are not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“T\u00f4i hy v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u00f4i mong b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9”.<\/em><\/p>\n

(Eric Roth, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 s\u1edbm hay qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3. T\u00f4i hi v\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng cung b\u1eadc c\u1ea3m x\u00fac trong \u0111\u1eddi, s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi xa l\u1ea1, s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed1i ti\u1ebfc. N\u1ebfu cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, t\u00f4i hi v\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 can \u0111\u1ea3m v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh t\u1eeb trong tr\u00e1i tim \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi, ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh \u0111ang r\u1ea5t vui v\u1ebb, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 d\u0169ng kh\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ecf qua ni\u1ec1m ki\u00eau h\u00e3nh v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00ean ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n

\"Khi<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n
\n

“You’ve got to experience failure to understand that you can survive it”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“Ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u00f3”.<\/em><\/p>\n

(Tina Fey)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 h\u1eefu hi\u1ec7u nh\u1ea5t gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua s\u00f3ng gi\u00f3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ee3 g\u00ec n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

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“Everything you want is on the other side of fear”.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

“T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111ang n\u1eb1m \u1edf ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia c\u1ee7a n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3”<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n

(Jack Canfield)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

M\u1ed9t c\u00e2u n\u00f3i c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n – s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1c, nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 – \u0111\u1ec1u n\u1eb1m \u1edf ph\u00eda b\u00ean kia c\u1ee7a n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee7 can \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1eed b\u01b0\u1edbc qua (v\u00e0 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/em>) \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi ch\u00fang. B\u1edfi ch\u00ednh b\u1ee9c t\u01b0\u1eddng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i \u0111ang ch\u1eafn ngang tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3!<\/p>\n

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“Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

“Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng \u0111i t\u1eeb th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u00e0y t\u1edbi th\u1eadt b\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5t \u0111i nhu\u1ec7 kh\u00ed.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

(Winston Churchill)<\/p>\n

“It is not a disgrace to fail. Failing is one of the greatest arts in the world.”<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u201cTh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi<\/strong><\/p>\n

(Charles Kettering)<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Charles Kettering l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t doanh nh\u00e2n n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng. Khi \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y, \u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec to l\u1edbn. Th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Thay v\u00ec x\u1ea5u h\u1ed5, h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i qua th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Sau khi \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i hay v\u1ec1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea7y hoa h\u1ed3ng nh\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eabn t\u01b0\u1edfng. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 r\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eaft th\u00ec m\u1edbi c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i. N\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed th\u00ec th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00ec th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ai bi\u1ebft v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady sau m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

C\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/strong> khi g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng chia s\u1ebb c\u00e1ch \u1ee9ng x\u1eed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n khi g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u1edbi ai ch\u01b0a? Chia s\u1ebb l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch hay \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u00f3. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y. Khi g\u1eb7p th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ecdc nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i sau t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p cho v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111ang g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39845"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39845"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39845\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39845"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39845"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39845"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}