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Gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/strong> ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ch\u00fang ta v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc thay, nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7n nay \u0111ang d\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap cho ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 6 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh c\u00e0ng nhanh c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t<\/strong>:<\/p>\n

1. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m<\/h2>\n

Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh, th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch d\u00e0nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. L\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh b\u1eb1ng c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Khi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng hay \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. B\u1edfi gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean v\u00e0 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3<\/strong> ch\u00fang ta, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean s\u1ebd l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 cho r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111au l\u00f2ng cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay c\u1ed1 \u00fd. Khi c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh ph\u00ea b\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch l\u1eabn nhau, v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh t\u1ea1o ra kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa h\u1ecd v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i t\u1ed1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n, t\u00e2m s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u nhau h\u01a1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00f3a \u0111i kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\"Nh\u1eefng<\/p>\n

Khi n\u00f3i ra c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u l\u1eddi ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c th\u00ec kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 h\u00e0n g\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 th\u1ee9 tha nh\u01b0ng n\u1ed7i \u0111au trong l\u00f2ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n m\u00e3i sau \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ec v\u1eady, h\u00e3y c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u1edbi l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta. Khi n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng hay v\u1edbi c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t s\u1ef1 \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3. H\u00e3y ghi nh\u1edb c\u00e2u n\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi m\u1edf l\u1eddi tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh “N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1eebng n\u00f3i g\u00ec c\u1ea3<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

Trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn, ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m g\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 ngay. Lu\u00f4n n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9ng vi\u00ean, c\u1ed5 v\u0169 tinh th\u1ea7n m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. B\u1edfi l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ebfn g\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y “t\u1ef1 ti<\/em>” v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng? H\u00e3y gi\u00fap c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u1edf m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp.<\/p>\n

2. Bu\u00f4n chuy\u1ec7n<\/h2>\n

Bu\u00f4n chuy\u1ec7n c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t nguy hi\u1ec3m. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 th\u00f3i quen n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u sau l\u01b0ng v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c g\u1eb7p s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 v\u1edbi th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u00ec h\u00e3y g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi h\u1ecd. Ngo\u00e0i ra, kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3i th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o cho c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 b\u1edfi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn gi\u1eefa hai “phe” \u2013 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean kia.<\/p>\n

\"Nh\u1eefng<\/p>\n

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Trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f3 hai “phe” ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 n\u1ed9i b\u1ed9 gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111ang b\u1ecb chia r\u1ebd. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng nhau th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn, h\u00f2a gi\u1ea3i c\u00e1c m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u00e2u n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 c\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn l\u1ed7i.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y gi\u00fap h\u1ecd nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 khi \u0111\u1ee9ng t\u1eeb g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ni\u1ec1m n\u1edf h\u00e0n g\u1eafn m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m h\u01a1n. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf, c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Khi th\u1ea5y h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0111i bu\u00f4n chuy\u1ec7n sau l\u01b0ng h\u1ecd. Lu\u00f4n nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng: “Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng d\u00ednh l\u00edu v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

3. Thi\u1ebfu s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft tr\u00ean m\u1ee5c Ask Amy \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u0103ng tr\u1ef1c tuy\u1ebfn cho th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/strong>. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ef1c k\u00ec h\u1ee3p l\u00fd t\u1eeb Amy Dickinson tr\u00ean t\u1edd b\u00e1o Chicago Tribute:<\/p>\n

\"Nh\u1eefng<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u1edbi nhau l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e0n k\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau th\u00f4ng qua c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp m\u1eb7t gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n th\u1eeba bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd s\u1ebd t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i tham gia nh\u01b0ng c\u1ee9 ng\u1ecf \u00fd m\u1eddi h\u1ecd. B\u1edfi th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00ec b\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng kh\u00ed g\u01b0\u1ee3ng g\u1ea1o trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 do kh\u00f4ng m\u1eddi m\u1ecdc v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tham gia c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp m\u1eb7t gia \u0111\u00ecnh. V\u00ec v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean m\u1eddi c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean tham gia bu\u1ed5i h\u1ecdp m\u1eb7t ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c gia \u0111\u00ecnh, c\u00f2n vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 tham gia v\u00e0o hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi tham gia. N\u1ebfu th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n th\u1eaft ch\u1eb7t s\u1ef1 g\u1eafn k\u1ebft quan h\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 t\u00ecnh th\u00e2n gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean, th\u00ec h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ea1i c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i t\u1ee5 h\u1ecdp c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec l\u00fd do g\u00ec t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i tham gia \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f3 g\u1ea7n gi\u1eefa c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

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4. S\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i<\/h2>\n

S\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 ho\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/strong>. S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt lu\u00f4n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi tr\u1ecdng. \u0110\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t v\u00e0i n\u0103m ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 m\u1edbi ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eddi n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng “kim trong b\u1ecdc l\u00e2u ng\u00e0y c\u0169ng l\u00f2i ra<\/em>“. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9?<\/p>\n

\"Nh\u1eefng<\/p>\n

H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i c\u00f2n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tan v\u1ee1 trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 tan v\u1ee1 n\u00e0y xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh ni\u1ec1m tin b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec ni\u1ec1m tin s\u1ebd v\u01a1i c\u1ea1n d\u1ea7n. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i, v\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 che gi\u1ea5u vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 con ri\u00eang t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c t\u00ecnh ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, s\u1ebd g\u00e2y m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin \u1edf c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i n\u1ed7i \u0111au cho th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 sau.<\/p>\n

H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai tr\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3 cho ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n cho c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 mai sau n\u1eefa. V\u00ec v\u1eady, t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng s\u1eeda sai, h\u01a1n l\u00e0 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i v\u00e0 bao bi\u1ec7n cho s\u1ef1 d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 \u1ea5y. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng<\/em>” cho b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y c\u1edfi m\u1edf v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1edbi gia \u0111\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c s\u1eeda sai, v\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 gia \u0111\u00ecnh. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng che gi\u1ea5u s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt ch\u1ec9 khi\u1ebfn gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u00eam m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

5. Kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t<\/h2>\n

Tr\u1ebb em l\u1edbn l\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ed9t m\u00e1i nh\u00e0 c\u00f9ng cha m\u1eb9, c\u00f9ng k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng s\u1ef1 d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 nh\u01b0ng khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi anh ch\u1ecb em ru\u1ed9t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00f9ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f9ng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o.<\/p>\n

\"Nh\u1eefng<\/p>\n

M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00ean, c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau, \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t, b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn. T\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n th\u00ec c\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh th\u1eadt s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 xung \u0111\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00ec ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u1ea5y th\u00ec k\u1ebft c\u1ee5c nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebd l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tan v\u1ee1 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00ec ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd (b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 h\u1ecd nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u0111\u00e2u) ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u1ee9c cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a t\u00ecnh y\u00eau.<\/p>\n

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6. Kh\u00f4ng xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tha th\u1ee9<\/h2>\n

L\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 “ch\u1ea5t k\u1ebft d\u00ednh<\/em>” c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i v\u1edbi nhau. Kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ea3. T\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n n\u00ean n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1eefa l\u00e0nh v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 gi\u00fap t\u00ecnh th\u00e2n trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ec1n ch\u1eb7t h\u01a1n. Khi xin l\u1ed7i m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n h\u1ecd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c gi\u1eefa b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

\"Nh\u1eefng<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng xin l\u1ed7i th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng ho\u1eb7c t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 xin l\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft trong nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh h\u01a1n v\u00e0 xin l\u1ed7i khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh hay c\u1ed1 \u00fd. \u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u00f5 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c, tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m cho ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i, h\u00e3y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi tha th\u1ee9 “duy\u00ean d\u00e1ng”, <\/em>b\u1edfi m\u1ed7i th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh lu\u00f4n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 nhau. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean gi\u1eef m\u1ed1i h\u1eadn th\u00f9, v\u00ec h\u1eadn th\u00f9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng cho ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ebfn gia \u0111\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y tha th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1eddi n\u00f3i su\u00f4ng. V\u00ed d\u1ee5, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n qu\u00ean m\u1eddi m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ebfn chung vui t\u1ea1i b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c sinh nh\u1eadt th\u00ec n\u00ean xin s\u1ef1 tha th\u1ee9 t\u1eeb h\u1ecd v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u00f9 \u0111\u1eafp cho th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1eddi anh \u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111i \u0103n tr\u01b0a. “H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n l\u1eddi n\u00f3i<\/em>“, v\u00ec v\u1eady h\u00e3y cho h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh trong l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Gia \u0111\u00ecnh<\/strong> ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn, \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ch\u00fang ta v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc thay, nhi\u1ec1u gia \u0111\u00ecnh hi\u1ec7n nay \u0111ang d\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p n\u00e0y ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean trong gia \u0111\u00ecnh, v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 s\u1ef1 h\u00f2a h\u1ee3p trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh. Hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean trong vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 gi\u00fap cho ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 6 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng sai l\u1ea7m ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 gia \u0111\u00ecnh m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n tr\u00e1nh c\u00e0ng nhanh c\u00e0ng t\u1ed1t<\/strong>:<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39847"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39847"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39847\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39847"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39847"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39847"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}