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Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian, c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean trang Business Insider \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 l\u1eddi gi\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p v\u1ec1 “C\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng nh\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc<\/em>?” t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng doanh nh\u00e2n tham gia di\u1ec5n \u0111\u00e0n h\u1ecfi \u0111\u00e1p Quora. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 11 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 kh\u00f3 h\u1ecdc nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng h\u1eefu \u00edch trong b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3mWilliam Brawley \/ flickr<\/span><\/p>\n

C\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 \u0111\u00fang nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Tuy nhi\u00ean, d\u00f9 ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p n\u00e0o \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp v\u00e0 tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 theo m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian bi\u1ec3u h\u1ee3p l\u00fd s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 ngon v\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o m\u1ed7i khi th\u1ee9c d\u1eady.<\/p>\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u cho th\u1ea5y khi tu\u00e2n th\u1ee7 theo m\u1ed9t l\u1ecbch ng\u1ee7 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 \u0111i v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 v\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh d\u1eady h\u01a1n, nh\u00ecn chung n\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n

2. \u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3m<\/p>\n

“B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt nh\u1ea5t, s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m hay \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng g\u00ec h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u1ebb m\u1eafc ch\u1ee9ng r\u1ed1i lo\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch, ch\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/em>.” – Kamia Taylor
Theo nh\u01b0 nh\u00e0 doanh nghi\u1ec7p Jane Wurdwand gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch: “\u0110\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb b\u1ecf qua trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kinh doanh hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i<\/em>.”<\/p>\n

“S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m – kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c – k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m d\u1ecbch v\u1ee5 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00e1n h\u00e0ng th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y doanh thu t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m \u1edf trong tinh th\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111\u1ed9i – c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 esprit d’corps – th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c. S\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m, th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u gi\u00fap c\u00e1c nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhau v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng b\u1edfi h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f2n l\u1edbn lao h\u01a1n l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c<\/em>” c\u00f4 vi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

3. Qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3mFlickr \/ Vancouver Film School<\/span><\/p>\n

“Qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao nh\u1ea5t b\u1edfi c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng. Tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t m\u1ee9c tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 sao cho h\u1ee3p l\u00fd<\/em>“, doanh nh\u00e2n Alina Grzegorzewska gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

“\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch. Vi\u1ec7c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n nh\u1eefng k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3, m\u00e0 kh\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m d\u00e0i ngo\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 l\u00ean l\u1ecbch tr\u00ecnh k\u0129 l\u01b0\u1ee1ng sao cho t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecbn<\/em>h” – Alina Grzegorzewska.<\/p>\n

4. T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3m<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 Louise Christy vi\u1ebft, “C\u00f3 nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea3o v\u1edbi t\u00f4i r\u1eb1ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. V\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean, t\u00f4i tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Sau n\u00e0y, t\u00f4i ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1eef v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u00e2y tai h\u1ecda kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp v\u00ec khi \u1edf trong m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh tr\u1ea1ng h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1<\/em>“.
C\u00f4 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch r\u1eb1ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 kh\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1edfi kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m hay thi\u1ebfu n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean theo m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y t\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Harvard cho th\u1ea5y, khi h\u1ecfi xin l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee9ng th\u1ef1c tri th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecd. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c h\u01a1n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i k\u00e9m \u0111i b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu th\u1eadp v\u00e0 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u th\u00f4ng tin h\u01a1n, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e2ng cao kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i h\u01a1n h\u1ecd trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

5. Ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3m<\/p>\n

“Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp m\u1edbi, h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 \u00f4n thi IELTS hay \u0111ang ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1 \u00e1n quan tr\u1ecdng n\u00e0o th\u00ec s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c<\/em>.” – Khaleel Syed<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng ng\u1eebng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec, gi\u1eef v\u1eefng v\u1ecb tr\u00ed \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

6. Suy ngh\u0129 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3mFrancisco Osorio \/ flickr<\/span><\/p>\n

“\u0110\u1ebfn cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3<\/em>.” – Shobhit Singhal<\/p>\n

M\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c, Betsy Myers – gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp The Center for Women and Business t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Bentley cho bi\u1ebft, vi\u1ec7c suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m d\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

7. Bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n im l\u1eb7ng – th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3m<\/p>\n

“B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ee9 \u0111i v\u00f2ng quanh than v\u00e3n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n gi\u1eef im l\u1eb7n<\/em>g” – Roshna Nazir<\/p>\n

Trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p vi\u1ec7c gi\u1eef im l\u1eb7ng l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n.”Khi gi\u1eadn d\u1eef, bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n, lo l\u1eafng hay b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1ed1t ra b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 \u0111ang \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn trong \u0111\u1ea7u<\/em>“, Anwesa Jana cho bi\u1ebft. V\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed1i h\u1eadn v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Im l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u00fang l\u00fac, \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ecb k\u00edch \u0111\u1ed9ng<\/strong> l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc nh\u1ea5t. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00f3 h\u1ecdc nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

8. L\u1eafng nghe<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3m<\/p>\n

Theo Richard Careaga, \u0111i li\u1ec1n v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 im l\u1eb7ng l\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe.<\/p>\n

“Ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn khi \u1edf n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c b\u1edfi c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m – tin nh\u1eafn c\u1ea7n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi ngay v\u00e0 chu\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c reo. \u00dd t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n n\u00f3i l\u00e0, n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u00f4ng tin v\u1eeba \u0111\u1ee7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 n\u1ed5 tung ra”, Nicole Lipkin, t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n “What Keeps Leaders Up At Night” (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: “\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o b\u1eadn t\u00e2m h\u00e0ng \u0111\u00eam”)<\/em> \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi trang Business Insider.<\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t m\u1eb9o \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n. Theo nh\u01b0 Lipkin n\u00f3i,”m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n khi c\u00f3 chung \u00fd ki\u1ebfn”<\/em>. H\u00e3y th\u1eadn tr\u1ecdng khi l\u1eafng nghe m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa t\u00e2m l\u1eafng nghe nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp nh\u1eadn th\u00f4ng tin m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

9. \u0110\u1eebng xen v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c!<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3mS Packwood \/ Flickr.com<\/span><\/p>\n

“Ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u00e0nh th\u1ea1o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3<\/em>” – Aarushi Ruddra.
Vi\u1ec7c quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00edch m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0m l\u00e3ng ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Aarushi Ruddra n\u00f3i: “B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngay th\u1eb3ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3<\/em>.” H\u00e3y ph\u00e2n \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n

10. \u0110\u1eebng “bu\u00f4n chuy\u1ec7n”<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3m<\/p>\n

“\u0110\u1ed1i v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/em>” – Jason T Widjaja.<\/p>\n

“Bu\u00f4n chuy\u1ec7n<\/em>” l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o.\u200b<\/p>\n

Widjaja n\u00f3i: “T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n khi h\u1ecdc k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc, t\u1ef1 c\u00e1ch ly m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 m\u1ee9c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng x\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o. V\u00ed d\u1ee5: “Xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m gi\u00e1n \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng<\/em>?”<\/p>\n

“Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00f4 gi\u00e1. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng<\/em>” – Jason T Widjaja n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

11. L\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

\"Ki\u1ec3m<\/p>\n

Theo Mark Givert, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

“Th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Tuy nhi\u00ean, qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai<\/em>“.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eefng v\u00e0ng trong m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng<\/strong>, d\u00f9 l\u00e0 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u1ea5u nh\u1ea5t. K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 trau d\u1ed3i, t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i v\u00e0 luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1eeb t\u1eeb, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng t\u1ef1 tin h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian, c\u00f4ng s\u1ee9c v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39877"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39877"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39877\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39877"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39877"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39877"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}