{"id":39929,"date":"2023-12-10T01:47:10","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:47:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/4-ly-do-nen-loai-bo-ngay-tu-xin-loi-trong-von-tu-cua-ban.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T08:33:04","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T08:33:04","slug":"4-ly-do-nen-loai-bo-ngay-tu-xin-loi-trong-von-tu-cua-ban","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/4-ly-do-nen-loai-bo-ngay-tu-xin-loi-trong-von-tu-cua-ban.html","title":{"rendered":"4 l\u00fd do n\u00ean lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ngay t\u1eeb “xin l\u1ed7i” trong v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ebfp, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebfp ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ebfn cao \u0111\u1ed9, nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng g\u00f5 b\u00e0n ph\u00edm c\u1ea1ch-c\u1ea1ch kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9, m\u1eaft d\u00e1n v\u00e0o m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh m\u00e1y t\u00ednh. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i “Becky, xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n anh nh\u01b0ng…”<\/em><\/p>\n

L\u00fac t\u00f4i \u0111ang chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb l\u00ean chuy\u1ebfn t\u00e0u DC v\u00e0o \u0111\u00fang gi\u1edd cao \u0111i\u1ec3m th\u00ec t\u00f4i b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ea9y l\u00ean t\u00e0u b\u1edfi d\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ed1i h\u1ea3 v\u00e0 v\u1ed9i v\u00e3. T\u00f4i k\u1eb9p chi\u1ebfc t\u00fai x\u00e1ch v\u00e0o gi\u1eefa hai ch\u00e2n, tay v\u1edbi l\u00ean thanh ch\u1eafn ngang \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef th\u0103ng b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ebfn \u0111i d\u00e0i tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0. T\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, b\u00e0n tay c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh kh\u00e1ch s\u01b0\u1ee3t qua tay t\u00f4i. M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa t\u00f4i l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i \u00edt nh\u1ea5t 15 l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, d\u00f9 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 l\u1ed7i hay kh\u00f4ng. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb quen thu\u1ed9c trong t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

\"L\u1eddi<\/p>\n

H\u1ee1i nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eafc b\u1ec7nh xin l\u1ed7i “kinh ni\u00ean<\/em>” gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i, t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m nh\u01b0 v\u1eady?<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3 thuy\u1ebft chung cho tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang qu\u00e1 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng t\u1eeb “xin l\u1ed7i”, th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c m\u1ea5t l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 r\u1ea5t kinh kh\u1ee7ng – \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef – r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m cho m\u00ecnh b\u1edbt khi\u1ebfm nh\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng. Ngo\u00e0i ra, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh ho\u1eb7c k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch nhanh ch\u00f3ng.<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 l\u00fd do ch\u00fang ta n\u00ean c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc khi n\u00e0o, t\u1ea1i sao v\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u00e3y lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf n\u00f3 ngay ra kh\u1ecfi v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n:<\/p>\n

1. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m gi\u1ea3m gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i<\/h2>\n

\"L\u1eddi<\/p>\n

Khi ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i qu\u00e1 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 qu\u00e1 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, ho\u1eb7c xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, n\u1eb1m ngo\u00e0i s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, hay vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec3m m\u1ea5u ch\u1ed1t \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 khi n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, khi\u1ebfn cho l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng, khi\u1ebfn cho nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 quan tr\u1ecdng gi\u1ea3m \u0111i “tr\u1ecdng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng”. H\u00e3y c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng khi d\u00f9ng t\u1eeb xin l\u1ed7i – ch\u1ec9 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 trong nh\u1eefng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

2. Ch\u00fang ta h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n khi n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i qu\u00e1 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean<\/h2>\n

\"L\u1eddi<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ed3ng r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 khi\u00eam nh\u01b0\u1eddng. Ch\u00fang ta lu\u00f4n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb ki\u00eau ng\u1ea1o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ed3i n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 xong. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u00fa v\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb h\u01a1n ch\u00fang ta. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a b\u1ea1n \u0111ang t\u1ef1 h\u1ea1 th\u1ea5p l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

S\u1ebd ch\u1ea3 c\u00f3 g\u00ec sai khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 tin, t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n. L\u1ea7n sau, n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ai va v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y qu\u00ean \u0111i l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i \u0111i m\u00e0 thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

3. Xin l\u1ed7i d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xung \u0111\u1ed9t.<\/h2>\n

\"L\u1eddi<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111\u1ed1i \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi “xin l\u1ed7i” \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1eadp t\u1eaft nh\u1eefng tranh c\u00e3i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u x\u1ea3y ra. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i “c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn” v\u00e0 “m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd” \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c xung \u0111\u1ed9t th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch b\u00f3p m\u00e9o t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00fang ta s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh ho\u1eb7c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi ho\u1eb7c s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c g\u00e2y r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i. \u0110\u00e3 bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta nghe ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i “T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 xin l\u1ed7i r\u1ed3i m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i qu\u00e1i g\u00ec n\u1eefa \u0111\u00e2y?<\/em>” \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i khi s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng l\u1eddi xin l\u1ed7i “nh\u1ea1t” (ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt) \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5p li\u1ebfm m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

4. Xin l\u1ed7i l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u2013 \u0110\u00c1NG TH\u01af\u01a0NG!<\/h2>\n

\"L\u1eddi<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t t\u1ea1i n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, s\u1ebd nhanh ch\u00f3ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 v\u00e0 g\u1eafn m\u1eafc l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ea1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hay m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, vi\u1ec7c xin l\u1ed7i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 quy lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n thi\u1ec7n. Khi b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i nhi\u1ec1u th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tin v\u00e0 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng n\u00f3, khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

Th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n:<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i xin l\u1ed7i trong 24 gi\u1edd. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng xin l\u1ed7i khi b\u1ea1n sai ph\u1ea1m. H\u00e3y ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m v\u00e0 xin l\u1ed7i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n d\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb “xin l\u1ed7i”.<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u1eeb\/ c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c n\u00e0y:<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Khi b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ebfp, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebfp ch\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3n b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1eadp trung l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ebfn cao \u0111\u1ed9, nh\u1eefng ti\u1ebfng g\u00f5 b\u00e0n ph\u00edm c\u1ea1ch-c\u1ea1ch kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng ngh\u1ec9, m\u1eaft d\u00e1n v\u00e0o m\u00e0n h\u00ecnh m\u00e1y t\u00ednh. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i “Becky, xin l\u1ed7i v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m phi\u1ec1n anh nh\u01b0ng…”<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39929"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39929"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39929\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39929"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39929"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39929"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}