{"id":39935,"date":"2023-12-10T01:47:20","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:47:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/khoa-hoc-chung-minh-tam-trang-khong-tot-cua-nguoi-cha-anh-huong-nghiem-trong-den-su-phat-trien-cua-tre.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T08:31:10","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T08:31:10","slug":"khoa-hoc-chung-minh-tam-trang-khong-tot-cua-nguoi-cha-anh-huong-nghiem-trong-den-su-phat-trien-cua-tre","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/khoa-hoc-chung-minh-tam-trang-khong-tot-cua-nguoi-cha-anh-huong-nghiem-trong-den-su-phat-trien-cua-tre.html","title":{"rendered":"Khoa h\u1ecdc ch\u1ee9ng minh: T\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nghi\u00eam tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nh\u00e0 tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c – Friedrich Nietzsche<\/strong> t\u1eebng vi\u1ebft: “Whoever does not have a good father should procure one”<\/em> (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha t\u1ed1t, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u00e1c t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n)<\/em>.<\/p>\n

H\u00e0ng tr\u0103m nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eadp lu\u1eadn ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha<\/strong> \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi c\u00f2n h\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa…<\/p>\n

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Nh\u00ecn chung, c\u00e1c nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng t\u00ecnh y\u00eau<\/strong> – hay s\u1ef1 ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf<\/strong> c\u1ee7a b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh vi, l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng, s\u1ef1 \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u00e2m l\u00fd v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb<\/strong>. Theo ti\u1ebfn s\u0129 Ronald P. Rohner – gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c Trung t\u00e2m nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1i b\u1ecf c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 (Center for the Study of Parental Acceptance and Rejection<\/em>) t\u1ea1i tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Connecticut cho bi\u1ebft, trong m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m, s\u1ef1 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 l\u1edbn trong c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m l\u00fd, l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m v\u00e0 l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng ch\u1ea5t k\u00edch th\u00edch \u1edf tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

D\u0129 nhi\u00ean, khi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u1edf b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh th\u00ec m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd kh\u00e1c. S\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00ecnh c\u1ea3m c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n, c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng. H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u nh\u1eadn ra v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd<\/h2>\n

C\u00e1c h\u1ecdc gi\u1ea3 t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc bang Michigan (Michigan State University \u2013 MSU<\/em>) \u0111\u00e3 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng vai tr\u00f2 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh, m\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i tinh th\u1ea7n, t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c d\u00e0i h\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

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Trong nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u tr\u00ean, c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc bang Michigan \u0111\u00e3 thu th\u1eadp d\u1eef li\u1ec7u t\u1eeb 730 h\u1ed9 gia \u0111\u00ecnh tham gia cu\u1ed9c kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh m\u1ea7m non ti\u1ec1n m\u1eabu Early Head Start<\/strong> t\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ecba \u0111i\u1ec3m tr\u00ean to\u00e0n n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eadp trung t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 nh\u01b0 tr\u1ea7m c\u1ea3m, lo \u00e2u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp \u0111\u1ebfn con c\u00e1i. H\u1ecd nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi c\u00e1ch c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c v\u1edbi con c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd trong nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha g\u00e2y ra nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i, li\u00ean quan tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t trong k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/strong> c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em (nh\u01b0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 ch\u1ee7 v\u00e0 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c) tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi em b\u00e9 l\u00ean l\u1edbp n\u0103m tu\u1ed5i. Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u1ed7i mu\u1ed9n phi\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha trong nh\u1eefng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng sau n\u00e0y, so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng lo \u00e2u, bu\u1ed3n phi\u1ec1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u0169ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh r\u1eb1ng th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0m cha, l\u00e0m m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng r\u1ea5t x\u1ea5u t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c v\u00e0 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb khi tr\u1ebb m\u1edbi l\u00ean 2-3 tu\u1ed5i – th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, ngay c\u1ea3 khi s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 mang \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. \u0110\u00fang nh\u01b0 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef<\/strong> c\u1ee7a con trai h\u01a1n l\u00e0 con g\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

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Nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf s\u00e2u s\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng: “M\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m cha ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m l\u00fd cho con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng v\u00e0 th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe cho b\u1ecdn tr\u1ebb”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 ra m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00edch c\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng, hi\u1ec7n gi\u1edd nhi\u1ec1u b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng khoa h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 c\u01a1 s\u1edf cho th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 trong vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i v\u00e0 “m\u1ea3nh gh\u00e9p” c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong b\u1ee9c tranh gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

Thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha<\/h2>\n

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L\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, d\u1ec5 l\u00e0m ta n\u1ea3n ch\u00ed, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh cha m\u1eb9. D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng \u00f4ng b\u1ed1 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf t\u1ed1i \u0111a nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c<\/strong> g\u00e2y ra cho \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb khi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t:<\/p>\n

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Nh\u00e0 tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0110\u1ee9c – Friedrich Nietzsche<\/strong> t\u1eebng vi\u1ebft: “Whoever does not have a good father should procure one”<\/em> (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha t\u1ed1t, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm cho m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi cha kh\u00e1c t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n)<\/em>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39935"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39935"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39935\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39935"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39935"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39935"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}