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Ch\u1ee7 t\u1ecbch v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 gia c\u01b0 n\u01a1i t\u00f4i \u1edf l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u1ea1c s\u0129 v\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 x\u0103m m\u00ecnh 38 tu\u1ed5i. Kh\u1eafp m\u00ecnh \u00f4ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1edbi ch\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh x\u0103m v\u00e0 x\u1ecf khuy\u00ean, \u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 s\u1edf h\u1eefu m\u00e1i t\u00f3c t\u1ebft ki\u1ec3u dreadlock m\u00e0u n\u00e2u \u0111ung \u0111\u01b0a d\u00e0i t\u1edbi th\u1eaft l\u01b0ng. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y t\u1eeb khi 20 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u00e0 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft – gi\u1edd c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1edfi nghi\u1ec7p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 chung 1 b\u00ed quy\u1ebft l\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ph\u1edbt l\u1edd nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i s\u1ed1 \u0111\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u00ean s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00ean b\u1ecf qua n\u1ebfu c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 kh\u00f3 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ph\u1edbt l\u1edd ch\u00fang \u0111i…<\/p>\n

#1. Nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

L\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4i nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ecf qua tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 duy nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghe th\u1ea5y l\u00e0 nh\u1ecbp \u0111\u1eadp c\u1ee7a tr\u00e1i tim m\u00ecnh.<\/strong> V\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u00e3y h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u1eafng nghe \u00e2m thanh \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd hi\u1ec3u n\u00f3 \u0111ang n\u00f3i g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

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Khi d\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n, ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd qu\u00ean \u0111i con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. V\u00ec th\u1ebf \u0111\u1eebng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ai v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh 1 ai kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng hay g\u1ee3i c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong>. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd b\u1ecb chinh ph\u1ee5c v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u01a1i ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u00fa th\u1ef1c th\u00ec, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n \u00fd ngh\u0129a g\u00ec n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh? Ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn (mentor) c\u0169ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ngh\u0129 g\u00ec. V\u00ec th\u1ebf n\u00ean n\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3, cho d\u00f9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa, xem nh\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac ph\u1edbt l\u1edd h\u1ecd v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn sang h\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

#2. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9<\/h2>\n

Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 di\u1ec5n ra, v\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc thay v\u00ec quay \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i ph\u00eda sau. \u0110\u1eebng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, h\u00e3y l\u00e0m h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng m\u00e0ng t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00e1c. Nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 l\u1ed1i cho b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fang s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00f2ng lu\u00e2n h\u1ed3i tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1eb9p<\/strong>. B\u1ea1n m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. B\u1ea1n th\u00f4ng minh l\u00e0 b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng ng\u1ed1c ngh\u1ebfch. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 b\u1edfi tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft th\u1ebf n\u00e0o l\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n r\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

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S\u1ebd th\u1eadt tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi khi b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n, r\u1eb1ng ngay c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ec7 h\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u00f4i khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb \u0111ang v\u1ee1 v\u1ee5n th\u00ec th\u1ef1c ra ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111ang r\u01a1i v\u1ec1 1 n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n h\u00f4m nay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 trong ng\u00e0y mai. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd \u1edf v\u00e0o v\u1ecb tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u00f4m nay nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n

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#3. Nh\u1eefng b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 1 ng\u00e0y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ebfn r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i \u0111i, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf qua 1 v\u00e0i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n b\u1edfi ch\u00fang khi\u1ebfn tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1. H\u00e3y ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1edbi v\u00e0 b\u1ecf m\u1eb7c ch\u00fang. \u0110\u1eebng ch\u1ea5t ch\u1ed3ng nh\u1eefng g\u00f4ng c\u00f9m \u0111\u00f3 l\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i ch\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/strong>. Cho d\u00f9 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ngay l\u00fac n\u00e0o l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 h\u00e3y b\u1ecf \u0111i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u phi l\u00fd \u0111ang k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n xu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Sau m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1eb9p t\u01b0\u01a1i lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. B\u1ea1n v\u1ea5p ng\u00e3 r\u1ed3i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00ean, b\u1ea1n m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m, s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o. B\u1ea1n b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng. H\u00e3y ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng h\u00f4m nay \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u00e2n hu\u1ec7 \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1edf, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111u\u1ed5i theo nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111am m\u00ea. \u0110\u00f4i khi c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u01b0\u01a1i \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00e1c. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111ang ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i m\u00ecnh sau \u0111o\u1ea1n r\u1ebd. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m theo danh s\u00e1ch d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec1u s\u1ebd \u1ed5n:<\/p>\n

#4. Nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au<\/h2>\n

C\u00f3 2 lo\u1ea1i n\u1ed7i \u0111au b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i trong \u0111\u1eddi: nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Nh\u01b0ng khi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec ch\u00fang ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t. N\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n 1 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i \u0111au (c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft) \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang. Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00f4i. N\u1ebfu ch\u01b0a \u1edf n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n, h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian h\u00ecnh dung b\u1ea1n \u1edf n\u01a1i m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda \u0111\u00f3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh 1 s\u1edbm 1 chi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd.<\/p>\n

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H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn khi b\u1ea1n v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n v\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n t\u1ea1o n\u00ean nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng. Cho d\u00f9 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang c\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ra sao, h\u00e3y c\u1ee9 ng\u1ea9ng cao \u0111\u1ea7u, ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng v\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc. Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 c\u1ea5t ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea7n m\u1eabn, ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 trong l\u1eb7ng l\u1ebd v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng.<\/p>\n

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#5. Nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/h2>\n

Ban \u0111\u1ea7u, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i “c\u00f3” v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea7n h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i “kh\u00f4ng” v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. H\u00e3y th\u00f4i cam k\u1ebft qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 th\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 c\u00f9ng 1 l\u00fac, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i “kh\u00f4ng” th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i “kh\u00f4ng”, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u00e1nh l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 L\u00fd Ti\u1ec3u Long \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: “V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u0103ng l\u00ean h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3m \u0111i h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. H\u00e3y d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft<\/strong>“. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u1ea5p b\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 r\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1eddi gian cho nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng. \u0110\u1eebng gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ecd. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee9 c\u00e1i g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1u tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed1i \u01b0u ti\u00ean h\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ea7u, m\u00e0 ch\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang ta d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y s\u1ebd n\u00f3i cho ta bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y cho b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng \u01b0u ti\u00ean th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

: 8 l\u00fd do b\u1ea1n n\u00ean h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i “KH\u00d4NG” ngay t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd<\/p>\n

#6. Nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/h2>\n

Ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong khi v\u1eabn ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 cho nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tin t\u01b0\u1edfng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng t\u1eadp trung, t\u1ef1 tin b\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u1ecf, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1eddi c\u1ea3 1 ng\u1ecdn n\u00fai b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch r\u1eddi t\u1eebng vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e1 nh\u1ecf. M\u1ed7i 1 vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e1 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n di chuy\u1ec3n, cho d\u00f9 ch\u00fang l\u1edbn hay b\u00e9, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 1 ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi 1 k\u0129 n\u0103ng m\u1edbi hay b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c kinh doanh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hy v\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian. \u0110\u00f4i khi s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 xem \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 ti\u1ebfn tr\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f4i khi b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh khi k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi nhanh nh\u01b0 hy v\u1ecdng. D\u00f9 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 d\u1ea7n l\u00ean. H\u00e3y c\u1ee9 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang di chuy\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng vi\u00ean \u0111\u00e1 1 c\u00e1ch ch\u1eadm ch\u1ea1p nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang di chuy\u1ec3n 1 ng\u1ecdn n\u00fai.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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#7. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1eb1m ngo\u00e0i t\u1ea7m ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1eebng \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec. L\u00e0m nh\u1eefng g\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eb7c ch\u00fang. N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u00ec ch\u00fang s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 th\u1ef1c, \u0111\u1eebng t\u1ef1 k\u00e9o m\u00ecnh xu\u1ed1ng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t. H\u00e3y th\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p. Qu\u00ean \u0111i nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m d\u00f9 ch\u1ec9 trong 1 gi\u00e2y th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i di\u1ec5n ra \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00fd do. H\u00e3y c\u1ee9 cu\u1ed1n theo n\u00f3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ban \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang c\u0169ng s\u1ebd mang l\u1ea1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Trong giai \u0111o\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec1u tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i v\u00e0 theo 1 tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng l\u00f2ng r\u1ed3i qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi phong ph\u00fa h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u. Nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng “con qu\u1ef7 d\u1eef” c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1edfi cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng ch\u00fang c\u0169ng s\u1ebd k\u1ebft th\u00fac nh\u01b0ng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb ch\u00fang s\u1ebd t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e3i<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

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#8. Nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 v\u00f4 c\u0103n c\u1ee9<\/h2>\n

S\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng \u0111\u00f3n nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1ee7i ro, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u00e0nh th\u1ef1c m\u00e0 n\u00f3i th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u ch\u00fang m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Gi\u1edd l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng v\u00f9ng an to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1edbi m\u1ebb v\u00e0 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 v\u1ec1 l\u00e2u v\u1ec1 d\u00e0i, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd \u00edt s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

: 12 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea9y ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh ra kh\u1ecfi v\u00f9ng an to\u00e0n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y<\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. Khi nghi ng\u1edd, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, lo l\u1eafng, b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c, h\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ee9t b\u1ecf ch\u00fang, c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 r\u00fat tay kh\u1ecfi ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb n\u00f3ng v\u1eady. H\u00e3y t\u1ef1 nh\u1eafc m\u00ecnh t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 n\u1eb1m trong m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u1edfi ngu\u1ed3n trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed s\u1ebd ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/strong>. V\u00ec th\u1ebf h\u00e3y li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh, h\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng \u00fd ngh\u0129a \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn ngh\u0129.<\/p>\n

#9. Nh\u1eefng nghi ng\u1edd kh\u00f4ng d\u1ee9t<\/h2>\n

H\u00e3y tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh khi ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 Roal Dahl \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i: “V\u00e0 tr\u00ean h\u1ebft, h\u00e3y nh\u00ecn ng\u1eafm th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft l\u1ea5p l\u00e1nh b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng b\u00ed m\u1eadt v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u1ea5t lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n \u1ea9n n\u00e1u \u1edf nh\u1eefng n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng ng\u1edd nh\u1ea5t. Nh\u1eefng ai kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u00ec di\u1ec7u s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y ch\u00fang<\/em>“.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Ch\u1ee7 t\u1ecbch v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 gia c\u01b0 n\u01a1i t\u00f4i \u1edf l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t nh\u1ea1c s\u0129 v\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 x\u0103m m\u00ecnh 38 tu\u1ed5i. Kh\u1eafp m\u00ecnh \u00f4ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1edbi ch\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eefng h\u00ecnh x\u0103m v\u00e0 x\u1ecf khuy\u00ean, \u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00f3 s\u1edf h\u1eefu m\u00e1i t\u00f3c t\u1ebft ki\u1ec3u dreadlock m\u00e0u n\u00e2u \u0111ung \u0111\u01b0a d\u00e0i t\u1edbi th\u1eaft l\u01b0ng. \u00d4ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y t\u1eeb khi 20 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi, bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef m\u00e0 t\u00f4i bi\u1ebft – gi\u1edd c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh 1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1edfi nghi\u1ec7p th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39967"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=39967"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39967\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=39967"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=39967"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=39967"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}