{"id":40000,"date":"2023-12-10T01:49:15","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:49:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/5-chi-phi-chim-cua-hanh-phuc.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T08:17:09","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T08:17:09","slug":"5-chi-phi-chim-cua-hanh-phuc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/5-chi-phi-chim-cua-hanh-phuc.html","title":{"rendered":"5 “chi ph\u00ed ch\u00ecm” c\u1ee7a h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac"},"content":{"rendered":"
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B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tham gia c\u00e1c l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 kinh t\u1ebf c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nghe \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y: “Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1eefa tr\u01b0a mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed c\u1ea3”.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec1u m\u1ea5t ph\u00ed, ngay c\u1ea3 khi nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3n ph\u00ed \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng t\u1eeb l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Trong n\u1ec1n v\u0103n h\u00f3a b\u1ecb \u00e1m \u1ea3nh b\u1edfi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0 hi\u1ec7n nay, \u0111a ph\u1ea7n ai c\u0169ng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i th\u1ee9 ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i: h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c l\u1ee3i \u00edch. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea7n th\u01b0\u1edfng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 r\u1ee7i ro, mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3i qua \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng tr\u1edb tr\u00eau thay, s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng hy sinh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng kh\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n

:<\/strong><\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac c\u0169ng m\u1ea5t ph\u00ed. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed. V\u00e0 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 Cover Girl, Tony Robbins hay \u0110\u1ee9c \u0110\u1ea1t Lai L\u1ea1t Ma \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 c\u01a1n gi\u00f3 tho\u1ea3ng qua v\u1eady \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n

1. B\u1ea1n bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u00e0 sai l\u1ea7m<\/h2>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0, m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe h\u01a1i v\u00e0 2 \u0111\u1ee9a con l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean “ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o”. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t checklist. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u nh\u00e2n khi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n vui, r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n gi\u00e0 \u0111i sau v\u00e0i th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n qua \u0111\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

\"H\u1ea1nh
M\u1ed9t khi ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n<\/span><\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng di\u1ec5n ra theo c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 lu\u00f4n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u2013 ch\u00fang thay \u0111\u1ed5i v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn h\u00f3a. S\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m nay s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “\u0111\u1ea7m l\u1ea7y” \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby nh\u1eefng v\u1ebft nh\u01a1 b\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a ng\u00e0y h\u00f4m qua v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng nhanh ch\u00f3ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng lu\u00f4n ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o th\u00ec t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f3n pizza y\u00eau th\u00edch v\u00e0 tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 (m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i lo toan hay bon chen g\u00ec n\u1eefa c\u1ea3).<\/p>\n

Ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u00f3a.<\/strong> N\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 “ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o” xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1ecf b\u00e9 \u0111\u1ea7y xinh x\u1eafn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n th\u00ec t\u1ef1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o.<\/strong> \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u01b0\u1edbc trong \u0111\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n ho\u1eb7c t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m.<\/p>\n

Khi t\u1eeb b\u1ecf kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 th\u1ee9 ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd “n\u00ean” ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i ph\u00f3ng ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh kh\u1ecfi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 n\u1ed7i th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n. V\u00e0 th\u01b0\u1eddng, ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta! \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ti\u00eau chu\u1ea9n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 d\u1ec5 b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 bu\u1ed9c ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 th\u00edch. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef l\u1ea5y ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u khi\u1ec3n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi bi\u1ebft n\u1ec1n d\u00e2n ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Canada n\u00ean nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao season finale c\u1ee7a phim Breaking Bad (R\u1ebd tr\u00e1i) l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1ed9n x\u1ed9n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd di\u1ec5n ra theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng khao kh\u00e1t c\u1ee7a m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u tr\u1edb tr\u00eau l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang ta s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n, tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3, m\u1edbi l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n

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2. B\u1ea1n bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng. Ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n, s\u1ed1ng d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 t\u1ecf ra ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9 tr\u01b0\u1edbc t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu. Ch\u00fang ta coi m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ed9c nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng duy nh\u1ea5t v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n

\"H\u1ea1nh
Lu\u00f4n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u xem x\u00e9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o trong ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n qu\u1ea3 quy\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 b\u1ecb mu\u1ed9n do t\u1eafc \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng? Hay b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1edbm h\u01a1n? B\u1ea1n trai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00edch k\u1ef7? Hay b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 c\u1ea7u to\u00e0n v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi anh ta qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u? C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i do s\u1ef1 y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u0103ng ch\u1ee9c? Hay v\u1eabn c\u00f2n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng l\u1ebd ra b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh?<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt th\u01b0\u1eddng \u1edf m\u1ed9t n\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 hai c\u00e1i tr\u00ean \u2013 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 n\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1eeb ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y sang ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00e1c. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa nh\u1eefng g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, b\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd quen d\u1ea7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 v\u1eabn x\u1ea3y ra. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t g\u00e3 say r\u01b0\u1ee3u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n, khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb g\u00e3y ch\u00e2n v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i ph\u1eabu thu\u1eadt. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c t\u1eeb ch\u1ea5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 x\u00e1c l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ed3i ph\u1ee5c \u0111i, \u0111\u1eebng k\u00eau ca n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat khu\u00e2y kh\u1ecfa trong ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng sau c\u00f9ng, n\u00f3 h\u00e0m \u1ea9n m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ea5m ng\u1ea7m ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u00ean trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n: r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u00e1ng th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ai \u0111ang ngh\u0129 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

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3. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u00f9 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra \u0111i n\u1eefa<\/h2>\n

L\u00f2ng d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m lu\u00f4n \u0111i k\u00e8m v\u1edbi n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i. D\u0169ng c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i, nghi ng\u1edd, s\u1ef1 m\u1ea5t an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

\"H\u1ea1nh
D\u0169ng c\u1ea3m kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u1eadn ra c\u00e1c tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta t\u1eeb kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y sang kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc kh\u00e1c th\u00ec h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u1ebd tr\u00e0o d\u00e2ng r\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ed9t ng\u1ed9t h\u1ea1 xu\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c truy hoan tr\u00e1c t\u00e1ng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb Wall Street(1)<\/sup> m\u00e0 nay \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb d\u1eb9p b\u1ecf. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft th\u1ee9 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 khu ph\u1ed1 n\u00e0y th\u00ec \u0111\u00e1ng bu\u1ed3n thay cho b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh “\u0111\u00e0n h\u1ed3i” ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c hoan l\u1ea1c.<\/p>\n

H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c, k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn cho c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn v\u00e0 tr\u1ebb con \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ecfa m\u00e3n kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ea3m x\u00fac t\u1ee9c th\u00ec c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u2013 k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c ch\u00f3ng m\u1eb7t hay b\u1ef1c m\u00ecnh t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u2013 m\u00e0 n\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb s\u00e2u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. S\u1ef1 h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n<\/strong> (Ultimate Life Satisfaction) kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a b\u1edfi th\u1ee9 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m v\u00e0 x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi ch\u00fang ta m\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/strong><\/p>\n

4. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n cho nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh<\/h2>\n

C\u00e1ch hay h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecdn th\u1ee9 g\u00ec t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t v\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i hay th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u00e2u xa v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n?<\/p>\n

\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c b\u1edfi ti\u1ec1n ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ti\u1ec1n s\u1ebd k\u00e9o theo s\u1ef1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u1ebft c\u1ea3m x\u00fac kh\u00f4ng \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u00e0nh vi n\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n, hi\u1ec3m \u0111\u1ed9c. Coi ti\u1ec1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n cho gia \u0111\u00ecnh v\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. M\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n n\u00e0y s\u1ebd th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng bi\u1ebfn ch\u1ee9ng quen thu\u1ed9c kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

\"H\u1ea1nh
H\u00e3y \u0111i t\u00ecm m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n cho c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p thu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c s\u1ebd k\u00e9o theo nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi kh\u00f4 c\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 k\u00e9m h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. Nh\u01b0ng coi s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p thu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c ph\u1ea9m ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat v\u00e0 truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch m\u1edbi l\u1ea1 v\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd s\u1ebd b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00e0 cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p thu\u1eadn, ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ngh\u1ecbu v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh th\u01b0\u1eddng \u00edt khi xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

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V\u1eady l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n? T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. Khi \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac k\u00e9o d\u00e0i, b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh “\u0111\u00e0n h\u1ed3i” c\u0169ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t g\u1ee3i \u00fd cho b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn. T\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. C\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n.<\/strong> H\u00e3y t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u00e1c c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ed1ng nh\u1ea5t hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec sai n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n coi t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c, ti\u1ec1n b\u1ea1c hay \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c b\u1edfi th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 s\u00e2u xa h\u01a1n n\u00f3, ti\u1ec1n c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c b\u1edfi th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng h\u01a1n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ti\u1ec1n v\u00e0 \u00e2m nh\u1ea1c c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c b\u1edfi th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a h\u01a1n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

5. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i<\/h2>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng vi\u1ebft trong m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 h\u1eb9n h\u00f2 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i v\u00e0 b\u1ecb coi l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 \u0111\u00f9a trong m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

\"H\u1ea1nh
\u0110\u1eebng s\u1ee3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i<\/span><\/p>\n

N\u00e9t \u0111\u1eb9p trong b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 \u0111a d\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb s\u1ed1ng<\/strong>. Khi t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 cho ch\u00fang th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y c\u00e1c h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1ch h\u00e0nh x\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd b\u1ecb h\u1ea1 g\u1ee5c b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1eb3n v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn \u1ea9n danh \u00e1c \u00fd tr\u00ean Internet v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t thi\u1ebfu l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u1ec1 gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m c\u0169ng s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 mong mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. \u0110\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea5u m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1edfi g\u00ec gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n kh\u00e9o h\u01a1n t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: “Haters gonna hate”<\/em> (nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ghen \u0103n t\u1ee9c \u1edf c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 lu\u00f4n gh\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00f4i m\u00e0).<\/p>\n

Trong b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 m\u1ed9t h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng li\u1ec1u l\u0129nh n\u00e0o, th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i c\u0169ng lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 y\u00eau c\u1ea7u c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9.<\/strong> V\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9, theo \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a, l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u2013 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta, s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00e0 th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta quan t\u00e2m. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac.<\/strong><\/p>\n

H\u00e3y th\u00eam gia v\u1ecb cho s\u1ef1 \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn. H\u00e3y \u0111\u1eafm m\u00ecnh trong s\u1ef1 khinh b\u1ec9. K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb h\u1ea1 g\u1ee5c m\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang h\u01a1n l\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady.<\/strong> Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ghen \u0103n t\u1ee9c \u1edf c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 lu\u00f4n gh\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00f4i. \u0110\u1eebng quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

(1): B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xem th\u00eam b\u1ed9 phim The Wolf of Wall Street (S\u00f3i gi\u00e0 ph\u1ed1 Wall) \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng sa \u0111\u1ecda c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi qu\u00e1 tham lam v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u00e0u c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 gi\u00e1 n\u00e0o.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 ai \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng tham gia c\u00e1c l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 kinh t\u1ebf c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng nghe \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e2u n\u00f3i n\u00e0y: “Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1eefa tr\u01b0a mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed c\u1ea3”.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40000"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40000"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40000\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40000"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40000"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40000"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}