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Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 hay v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng <\/strong>c\u00f3 kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u tr\u00ean Internet. Qua c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng<\/strong>, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ecdc th\u00eam \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00e0 bi\u1ebft c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ed5 sung k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c l\u00e2u n\u0103m, \u1eaft h\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 v\u1ed1n ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y l\u1eabn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng phong ph\u00fa. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 thi\u1ebfu. \u0110\u1eebng \u201cng\u1ee7 qu\u00ean\u201d tr\u00ean chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng, b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n gi\u1ecfi s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu mu\u1ed1n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e2u, h\u00e3y kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng trau d\u1ed3i cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng ngo\u00e0i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 nh\u00e2n t\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u1ee9ng vi\u00ean. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, h\u00e3y x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3, r\u1ed3i ch\u1ecdn ra nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c trong m\u01a1. Nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng, kh\u00f4ng ai ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, v\u00ec th\u1ebf, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng.<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 top k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u201ct\u1ecfa s\u00e1ng\u201d v\u00e0 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

1. L\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt<\/h2>\n

L\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n b\u1ea1n th\u01b0 th\u00e1i. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 ph\u1ea3i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1edfi b\u1ecf nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i lo \u00e2u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng c\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u nhau h\u01a1n, b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, chia s\u1ebb n\u00f3 v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft n\u00f3. B\u00ed m\u1eadt \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 vui v\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

2. Kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y xung \u0111\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n<\/h2>\n

B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o tranh c\u00e3i gay g\u1eaft v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u1eafng nghe v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u00e1p tr\u1ea3 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng ph\u1ea3n b\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c d\u1eef ki\u1ec7n trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ebfn l\u1ea5n \u00e1t kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, thay v\u00ec s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng thu\u1eadt thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ea1 g\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

3. K\u0129 n\u0103ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ai \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u00ecnh<\/h2>\n

Y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ai \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u d\u1ec5 h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 l\u00e0m b\u1edfi v\u00ec th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ch\u1eb3ng ai th\u00edch nh\u1edd v\u1ea3 c\u1ea3. \u0110a ph\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb cho l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu k\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u g\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc kinh doanh Harvard l\u1ea1i cho r\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c gi\u00fap m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd gi\u00fap m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ghi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “\u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ed9ng” trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/strong> Khi nh\u1edd s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh, kinh nghi\u1ec7m chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m h\u1ecd qu\u00fd m\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

4. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh<\/h2>\n

D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111ang th\u1eed m\u1ed9t th\u00f3i quen t\u1eadp th\u1ec3 d\u1ee5c m\u1edbi, \u00f4n thi \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc hay l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c trong m\u1ed9t d\u1ef1 \u00e1n quan tr\u1ecdng th\u00ec t\u00ednh ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n cho b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

\"K\u1ef9<\/p>\n

M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i khi h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “\u0111\u1ec9nh cao” th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 b\u1ec1n b\u1ec9 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

5. T\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/h2>\n

Cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng th\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh. Ngo\u00e0i ra, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea1n th\u00ec n\u00f3 c\u0169ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ee7 l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

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Tr\u00e1i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c. Do v\u1eady, n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng s\u1edbm r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00e0y cho m\u00ecnh th\u00ec theo th\u1eddi gian, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb n\u1ed7i lo v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ch\u00e1n n\u00e1n l\u1ea5n \u00e1t, khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00e0ng t\u1ef1 ti h\u01a1n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

6. Bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o n\u00ean gi\u1eef tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1<\/h2>\n

R\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec qu\u00e1 n\u00f3ng gi\u1eadn m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00f3i hay c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, khi m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i “l\u00ean ng\u00f4i” th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u0103ng v\u00e0i d\u00f2ng status khi\u00eau kh\u00edch, ch\u00ea bai, ch\u1ecdc gi\u1eadn… l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “nh\u00e1t dao ch\u00ed m\u1ea1ng” c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 “gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft” tr\u00e1i tim c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n.<\/p>\n

Do v\u1eady, h\u00e3y r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n cho m\u00ecnh kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng gi\u1eef im l\u1eb7ng trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

7. Tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn<\/h2>\n

N\u00f3i c\u0169ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nhau h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng n\u00f3i c\u00f2n theo su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

H\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i v\u1edbi c\u00e2u t\u1eeb ng\u1eafn g\u1ecdn, s\u00fac t\u00edch v\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00ecnh mu\u1ed1n truy\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea1t l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7, t\u1ea1o \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

8. “B\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc” ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ecfi<\/h2>\n

Gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 Pablo Picasso \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i “Ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 gi\u1ecfi th\u00ec sao ch\u00e9p. C\u00f2n ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc th\u00ec \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp”.<\/em> N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp, m\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng hay b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

M\u00f4 ph\u1ecfng l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh \u0111i s\u00e2u t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 h\u00ecnh dung ra nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia l\u00e0m. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1nh c\u1eafp hay b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc theo ngh\u0129a \u0111en m\u00e0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebft h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi, n\u1eafm b\u1eaft ch\u00fang v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Do v\u1eady, h\u00e3y \u0111i t\u00ecm m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ecfi h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n, xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u00e1m ch\u1eb7t l\u1ea5y h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

9. K\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt, t\u1ef1 gi\u00e1c v\u00e0 ki\u00ean tr\u00ec th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng chinh ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng hay th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y m\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u00fd \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec m\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i trong \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i vang l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng “\u0111\u1ec3 mai l\u00e0m”, “m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c”<\/em> hay “ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft”.<\/em>… N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt s\u1eaft \u0111\u00e1 th\u00ec gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o vang l\u00ean hay l\u1ea5n \u00e1t tinh th\u1ea7n quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

10. Hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft<\/h2>\n

Einstein \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng “s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa thi\u00ean t\u00e0i v\u00e0 k\u1ebb ngu d\u1ed1t l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 thi\u00ean t\u00e0i lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ecfi th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec7n nay ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\"K\u1ef9<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

T\u1ea1i sao n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng? \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n b\u1edfi v\u00ec trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y tr\u00ean Internet v\u00e0 gi\u1edbi tr\u1ebb, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 8x, 9x \u2013 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u0111\u00fang th\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1i c\u00f4ng ngh\u1ec7 th\u00f4ng tin b\u00f9ng n\u1ed5 th\u01b0\u1eddng cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 th\u1ebf h\u1ec7 “l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7” cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ed1.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai, bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u1ea7n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec, c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

11. Uy t\u00edn<\/h2>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1eafng tay, kh\u00f4ng th\u00f4ng minh, ng\u1ed1c ngh\u1ebfch v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 uy t\u00edn r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 nh\u1eadn di\u1ec7n. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n \u1edf g\u1ea7n. H\u1ecd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 h\u1ecd, lu\u00f4n hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n t\u1eebng gi\u00e2y t\u1eebng ph\u00fat trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 tin c\u1eady m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1.<\/p>\n

12. Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/h2>\n

H\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, th\u1ebf n\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o n\u00f3 c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n mong mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e2n y\u00eau c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i h\u00e0nh x\u1eed theo \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o \u0111em l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m h\u00e0i l\u00f2ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i ch\u1eb3ng mang l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p. H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u1eb1m trong tay b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o ra n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

13. Ngh\u0129 kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

H\u00e3y l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t hay t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 100 tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t ho\u1eb7c s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o h\u01a1n t\u1eeb th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

14. C\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 chia s\u1ebb<\/h2>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t “con qu\u1ef7” t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i trong t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n.<\/strong> \u0110i\u1ec3m kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebf ng\u1ef1 n\u00f3, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n

\"K\u1ef9<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u, ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt tr\u00ean v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ai r\u1ed3i c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

15. Bi\u1ebfn c\u00e1c tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i<\/h2>\n

Tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i. Nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb y\u1ebfu \u0111u\u1ed1i b\u1ecb nghi\u1ec1n n\u00e1t, k\u1ebb m\u1ea1nh t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, c\u00f2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i bi\u1ebfn tr\u1edf ng\u1ea1i th\u00e0nh c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e0 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

Trong m\u1ecdi th\u1eed th\u00e1ch, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd m\u1ea5t ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

16. K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecdc nhanh<\/h2>\n

Tony Robbins h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u0103ng t\u1ed1c \u0111\u1ed9 \u0111\u1ecdc b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ecdc 1 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch\/ng\u00e0y. Warren Buffet v\u00e0 Charlie Munger d\u00e0nh 80% th\u1eddi gian m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecdc. 86% ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0u \u0111\u1ec1u th\u00edch \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecdc ngay t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ecdc nhanh v\u00e0 n\u1eafm b\u1eaft c\u00e1c \u00fd ch\u00ednh.<\/p>\n

17. L\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi<\/h2>\n

L\u00e0m ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c vui v\u1ebb v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec. B\u1edfi v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i l\u1ea7n ch\u00fang ta m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu chinh ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 m\u1ecdi t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

18. L\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/h2>\n

Gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng t\u1ea1o n\u00ean th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ng\u1ee7 ngon s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n th\u1ee9c d\u1eady t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o h\u01a1n, c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 kh\u1ecfe m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n, n\u1ea1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u01a1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u0169ng hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

19. Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m<\/h2>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh k\u1ef7 lu\u1eadt cao nh\u1ea5t, th\u00f4ng minh nh\u1ea5t, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed gi\u00e0u nh\u1ea5t nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m hay c\u1ea3m th\u00f4ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb c\u00f3 b\u1ec7nh v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

Trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kinh doanh hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea1i, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecb xem nh\u1eb9, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1eefa qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 gi\u1eefa nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean n\u00e0y v\u1edbi nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m gi\u00fap cho m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed9i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u00f9ng nhau c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c v\u00ec nhau h\u01a1n, th\u00fac \u0111\u1ea9y nh\u00e2n vi\u00ean ph\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ea5u v\u00ec th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

20. Qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian<\/h2>\n

Qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd th\u1eddi gian hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 cao nh\u1ea5t trong gi\u1edbi doanh nh\u00e2n. Hi\u1ec7n nay c\u00f3 kh\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi ri\u00eang b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng duy tr\u00ec n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ee9 kh\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch, ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m theo k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m v\u00e0 l\u00ean th\u1eddi gian bi\u1ec3u cho ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e1o. Khi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00ean k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch xong th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m theo s\u1ebd \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n

21. L\u1eafng nghe<\/h2>\n

Khi im l\u1eb7ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nghe \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

22. Lo cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc<\/h2>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi!<\/p>\n

Sau c\u00f9ng th\u00ec c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng ai quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, \u0111\u1eebng qu\u00e1 “nh\u00fang m\u0169i” v\u00e0o chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

23. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t trong vi\u1ec7c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng tin v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t l\u00f2ng tin ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 n\u00f3i x\u1ea5u sau l\u01b0ng hay ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t thi\u1ebfu c\u0103n c\u1ee9.<\/p>\n

24. L\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n<\/h2>\n

\"K\u1ef9<\/p>\n

H\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u00ec suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee7 nhanh v\u00e0 ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn.<\/p>\n

25. S\u1ed1ng cho hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i<\/h2>\n

Theo nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac Matt Killingsworth, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ecfi trong vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ebfn hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 ngay trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft. \u00d4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng 47% th\u1eddi gian trong ng\u00e0y ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng kh\u00f4ng to\u00e0n t\u00e2m to\u00e0n \u00fd v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m ngay l\u00fac \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kh\u1edfi ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng thi\u1ebfu h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. B\u1edfi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac kh\u00f4ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u xa m\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u1edf ch\u00ednh kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u1ecf nh\u1eb7t xung quanh m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang v\u1ee5t m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

26. K\u0129 n\u0103ng thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng<\/h2>\n

Tuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u0129 n\u0103ng kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nh\u00e0 t\u00e0i phi\u1ec7t Warren Buffett t\u1eebng n\u00f3i \u00f4ng ph\u00e1t ho\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c “n\u00f4n m\u1eeda” khi ph\u1ea3i tr\u00ecnh b\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1ed9t \u0111\u00e1m ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Huy\u1ec1n tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng k\u1ec3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi vi\u1ebft ti\u1ec3u s\u1eed c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh Alice Schroeder r\u1eb1ng: “T\u00f4i t\u1eebng s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh sao cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u th\u1ee9 g\u00ec c\u1ea3”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 \u0111\u00f3, v\u1ecb t\u1ef7 ph\u00fa n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edd \u0111\u1ebfn kh\u00f3a h\u1ecdc di\u1ec5n thuy\u1ebft Dale Carnegie (t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0110\u1eafc Nh\u00e2n T\u00e2m) k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi v\u00f4 v\u00e0n nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea1n h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n trong s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, h\u00e3y luy\u1ec7n t\u1eadp n\u00f3 ngay t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p<\/h2>\n

N\u00ean k\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng trong bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?<\/h3>\n

Nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ec1u quan tr\u1ecdng. Do \u0111\u00f3 h\u00e3y d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng chia s\u1ebb kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng hay ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. C\u1ed1 g\u1eafng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng quan tr\u1ecdng, h\u1eefu \u00edch nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. Tr\u00e1nh lan man, d\u00e0i d\u00f2ng v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng n\u1ed9i dung kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Skill set l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/h3>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m ti\u1ebfng Anh kh\u00e1 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn. M\u1ed9t skill set l\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 tri\u1ec3n khai m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. V\u1ec1 c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n, skill set k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng kh\u00f3 (c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n) c\u00f2n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m hay c\u00f2n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 giao ti\u1ebfp x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1ch l\u00e0m n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

Th\u00eam k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng li\u00ean quan v\u00e0o h\u1ed3 s\u01a1 xin vi\u1ec7c: Bao g\u1ed3m nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb kh\u00f3a li\u00ean quan nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u1ee9ng tuy\u1ec3n trong h\u1ed3 s\u01a1, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u1edf ph\u1ea7n m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 l\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng trong th\u01b0 xin vi\u1ec7c: B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft h\u1ee3p k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng m\u1ec1m v\u00e0o th\u01b0 xin vi\u1ec7c. Bao g\u1ed3m m\u1ed9t ho\u1eb7c hai k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra v\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee5 th\u1ec3 cho t\u1eebng tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ee9ng minh n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u00edch \u1edf n\u01a1i c\u00f4ng s\u1edf.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec1 c\u1eadp t\u1edbi k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng trong su\u1ed1t bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f9ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb n\u00e0y trong bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n xin vi\u1ec7c. Nh\u1edb li\u1ec7t k\u00ea nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y trong su\u1ed1t bu\u1ed5i ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 v\u00ed d\u1ee5 minh h\u1ecda cho n\u00f3. M\u1ed7i c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng v\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00e1c nhau, v\u00ec th\u1ebf, \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn v\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u00e0 tuy\u1ec3n d\u1ee5ng li\u1ec7t k\u00ea.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u1ec3 tr\u00ean, b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng chinh ph\u1ee5c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi lo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, \u0111\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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