{"id":40016,"date":"2023-12-10T01:49:52","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:49:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/co-phai-ban-la-nguoi-vua-huong-noi-vua-huong-ngoai.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T08:12:56","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T08:12:56","slug":"co-phai-ban-la-nguoi-vua-huong-noi-vua-huong-ngoai","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/co-phai-ban-la-nguoi-vua-huong-noi-vua-huong-ngoai.html","title":{"rendered":"C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Internet hi\u1ec7n nay \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby c\u00e1c b\u00e0i b\u00e1o ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u nh\u1eadn d\u1ea1ng hay \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i (introvert) v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i (extrovert).<\/strong><\/p>\n

V\u00e0o n\u0103m 1921, Carl Jung<\/strong> \u2013 m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng to l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch bom t\u1ea5n Psychology Types<\/strong>, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn kh\u00e1i ni\u1ec7m h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ea7n c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch. Theo \u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn b\u1edfi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac, trong khi \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i l\u1ea1i th\u00edch th\u00fa v\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u00f4i \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 d\u1ea5n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o ch\u00fang. Ngo\u00e0i ra, \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i n\u1ea1p l\u1ea1i n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i th\u00ec th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd ki\u1ec7t qu\u1ec7, c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t l\u1eabn tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh trong hai ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u00ec sao? \u0110\u1eebng lo l\u1eafng b\u1edfi v\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i, v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i (Ambivert).<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Ambivert\"<\/p>\n

Ambivert l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/h2>\n

Vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh thu\u1ed9c th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0o: Introvert (h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i), extrovert (h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i) hay ambivert (v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i, v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i)<\/strong> s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n trong vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0 \u00fd v\u00e0 t\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eddi t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ea7u \u00fd h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n

Hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t Ambivert<\/h2>\n

\"Ambivert\"<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u1edf tr\u00ean, ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i th\u00edch s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng<\/strong> ho\u1eb7c \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u1ecd lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng quy chu\u1ea9n c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u00e1c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 h\u1ecd l\u00e0m ch\u00fang kh\u00e1 t\u1ed1t. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng vui s\u01b0\u1edbng th\u00e1i qu\u00e1 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01a1n thu\u1ea7n h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1eefng gi\u1edd ph\u00fat h\u00f2a nh\u1eadp c\u00f9ng c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c m\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u00edch. Ngo\u00e0i ra, “ambivert” c\u0169ng th\u00edch nh\u1eefng l\u00fac \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, tuy kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t l\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

R\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, v\u1edbi c\u00e1c \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m \u1edf tr\u00ean th\u00ec thi tho\u1ea3ng, “ambivert” c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1ecb nh\u1ea7m l\u1eabn. V\u00ec s\u1edf h\u1eefu hai t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch n\u00ean \u0111\u00f4i khi, h\u1ecd s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb “l\u1ec7ch” h\u1eb3n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, qu\u00e1 h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i ho\u1eb7c qu\u00e1 h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i d\u1eabn t\u1edbi hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng “m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng”. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 do t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng v\u1ed1n c\u00f3 th\u00ec h\u1ecd d\u1ec5 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00e0 suy s\u1ee5p.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

L\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi “trung gian” n\u00ean “ambivert” s\u1edf h\u1eefu nhi\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m r\u1ea5t linh ho\u1ea1t. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 s\u1edf th\u00edch c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u00edch nghi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1edbi h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh (mi\u1ec5n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u00e9p m\u00ecnh \u1edf qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3). H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c theo nh\u00f3m. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean ho\u1eb7c l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1edd th\u1eddi c\u01a1. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng l\u1eadp ra c\u00e1c k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra ho\u1eb7c c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u00f3 nguy c\u01a1 s\u1ebd b\u00f9ng ph\u00e1t. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u1edf kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, s\u1ef1 linh ho\u1ea1t n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 d\u1ee9t kho\u00e1t trong nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t “ambivert”, n\u00f3i chung, r\u1ea5t hi\u1ec3u v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Tr\u1ef1c gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd t\u1ed1t<\/strong> v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong khi v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 theo nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft quan s\u00e1t v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng bi\u1ebft khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00e0 khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea7n l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0, t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t xa nh\u1eefng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c nhau n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n

Thu\u1eadn l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/h2>\n

C\u00f3 s\u1ef1 c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng gi\u1eefa t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n.<\/p>\n

\"Ambivert\"<\/p>\n

D\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i, v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i<\/h2>\n
\u00a0<\/div>\n

\"Ambivert\"<\/span><\/p>\n

L\u1ee3i th\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i v\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ee7 nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 quy\u1ebft \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u00e0 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/strong>, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c t\u1eadp trung l\u1eafng nghe v\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 qu\u00e1 t\u1ef1 tin hay h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng.<\/strong> Do v\u1eady, bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch linh ho\u1ea1t s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0y s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i cho c\u00e1c “ambivert”.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 ki\u1ec3u t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang ho\u1eb7c sai. Th\u1ee9 duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1edbi \u0111\u00fang b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.<\/strong> H\u00e3y khai th\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh, kh\u1eafc ph\u1ee5c c\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec3m y\u1ebfu v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u00fd ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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