{"id":40066,"date":"2023-12-10T01:51:44","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:51:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/5-ly-do-tai-sao-nen-ket-ban-voi-nhung-nguoi-thich-o-mot-minh.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T08:01:26","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T08:01:26","slug":"5-ly-do-tai-sao-nen-ket-ban-voi-nhung-nguoi-thich-o-mot-minh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/5-ly-do-tai-sao-nen-ket-ban-voi-nhung-nguoi-thich-o-mot-minh.html","title":{"rendered":"5 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao n\u00ean k\u1ebft b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ki\u1ebfn cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t, kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 g\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

S\u1ed1 kh\u00e1c cho r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1eddi gian \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh r\u1ea5t t\u1ef1 l\u1eadp, bi\u1ebft qu\u00e1n xuy\u1ebfn, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 \u00edt khi th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng “c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n” nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc.<\/p>\n

1. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. H\u1ecd c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn nh\u01b0 v\u1eady<\/h2>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c, lu\u00f4n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n, m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, suy ngh\u0129 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u hay c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n “b\u1ea9m sinh” do t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i n\u01a1 ron th\u1ea7n kinh hay b\u1ec7nh l\u00fd khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd th\u00edch s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh h\u01a1n l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n

Jonathan Cheek \u2013 nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1eddng Cao \u0111\u1eb3ng WMasterskillssley g\u1ecdi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi k\u00e9m may m\u1eafn \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 “nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n b\u1ecb c\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ee9c”<\/em>. Nhi\u1ec1u trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh nh\u01b0ng cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd l\u1ea1i r\u01a1i v\u00e0o tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 thi\u00ean h\u01b0\u1edbng thu m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u0169ng t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t.<\/p>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/p>\n

Tr\u00e1i l\u1ea1i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh l\u1ea1i kh\u00e1c. V\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 s\u1edf h\u1eefu m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng l\u00fac c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i gi\u00e0y x\u00e9o t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n m\u00ecnh b\u1edfi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c lo \u00e2u hay c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, h\u1ecd chi\u00eam nghi\u1ec7m nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

2. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c<\/h2>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecd c\u00f3 bao nhi\u00eau b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 tr\u00ean Facebook hay bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecd tweet \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c retweet l\u1ea1i. H\u1ecd th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u0169ng ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n tr\u00ean hai m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

: 5 s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i<\/strong><\/p>\n

Trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ki\u1ec3u ph\u1edbt l\u1edd s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m n\u00e0y s\u1ebd gi\u00fap h\u1ecd ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, b\u1edfi v\u00ec: m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 gi\u00e1 cho r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb lung lay b\u1edfi quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00ean h\u1ecd s\u1ebd c\u00f3 g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u1edbi t\u00e2m th\u00e1i m\u1edbi l\u1ea1 h\u01a1n ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u0111i theo l\u1ed1i m\u00f2n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

3. H\u1ecd d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 “c\u1ed9ng h\u01b0\u1edfng” v\u1edbi h\u1ecd<\/h2>\n

Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn s\u1ef1 c\u00f4 \u0111\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 ai \u0111i d\u1ea1o c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. Th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, trong nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, h\u1ecd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u v\u00f2ng k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh “b\u1ea1n th\u00e2n” v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecd g\u1eb7p.<\/p>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/p>\n

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H\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 l\u1ee3i g\u00ec khi duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m.<\/p>\n

V\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

4. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m nh\u1ecf b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 nh\u01b0ng t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1ea5t ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh<\/h2>\n

T\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng v\u00e0 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng thu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 t\u1ea7m hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u00fd do t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ed1ng h\u1ecd, c\u1ea3m t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1.<\/p>\n

H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng kho\u1ea3ng th\u1eddi gian \u1edf c\u1ea1nh nhau nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c hay kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 d\u1ee9t ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u1ecd v\u1eabn c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n

5. H\u1ecd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh ngay c\u1ea3 khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ai b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh<\/h2>\n

Qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng, ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n, \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i hay m\u1ea1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i…. t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u00e0y \u0111ang ng\u1ed1n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn cho ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 do, tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch “ng\u1eaft k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i” v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

\"Ng\u01b0\u1eddi<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf th\u00ec khi \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ee9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7t huy\u1ebft. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 “phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00eam” c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng ngo\u1ea1i \u2013 \u0111\u00f4i khi, h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec mu\u1ed1n d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 khi k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi m\u00e0 th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

Theo b\u00e0i b\u00e1o “Loners Tend To Be More IntMasterskillsctual And Loyal Friends”<\/em> \u0111\u0103ng tr\u00ean trang iheartintelligence.com<\/strong> th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh “th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m t\u1ef1 do v\u00e0 \u00edt c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n. Nh\u1edd \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, h\u1ecdc h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ch\u1ecdn \u1edf c\u1ea1nh trong th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u00f3”.<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00ec v\u1eady, l\u1ea7n t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i s\u00e2u s\u1eafc v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec h\u00e3y c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n th\u00edch \u1edf m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u01a1i kh\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm nh\u01b0ng vi\u1ec7c chia s\u1ebb suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

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