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Nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u2013 s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh li\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang c\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c. Khi x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau th\u00ec n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eeb \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc bang Louisiana cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ef1 tin v\u00e0o ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nhi\u1ec1u ch\u1ee9c n\u0103ng “si\u00eau nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c” (metacognitive) h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a, h\u1ecd khai th\u00e1c nhi\u1ec1u khu v\u1ef1c trong b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o v\u00e0 c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n khi c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. “Si\u00eau nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c” \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan tr\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi “s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c” (Achievement) v\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 theo nhi\u1ec1u ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ed5i g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n khi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u0169ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng n\u0103m 1960, m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Harvard \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee9ng minh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 ni\u1ec1m tin c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m xoay chuy\u1ec3n h\u00e0nh vi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi c\u00e1c gi\u00e1o vi\u00ean trong nh\u1eefng nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc sinh nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh (\u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ecdn ng\u1eabu nhi\u00ean) th\u00f4ng minh th\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea1t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 trong l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 c\u00f2n trong c\u00e1c b\u00e0i test IQ \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n h\u00f3a.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng khi ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 cao s\u1ebd d\u1eabn t\u1edbi h\u00e0ng lo\u1ea1t r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd h\u1ee7y ho\u1ea1i con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 9 “\u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng” v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c!<\/p>\n

1. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng “n\u00ean” c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng<\/h2>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u l\u1ea7n (v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady) r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng. V\u00e0 m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 \u0111a ph\u1ea7n, ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng” nh\u01b0ng hai th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf n\u00e0y v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ee7 th\u1ea5m th\u00eda \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

\"Cu\u1ed9c
Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng, h\u00e3y quen v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e1ng ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean h\u01a1n n\u1eefa khi c\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ecdng \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c r\u1eb1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng s\u1ebd c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng v\u00e0 d\u00f9 c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 s\u1ef1 b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng n\u00e0o x\u1ea3y ra th\u00ec b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 \u0111\u00fang “th\u1ebf c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng” c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, ngay c\u1ea3 khi h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac b\u1ea1n n\u00ean t\u1ef1 xem x\u00e9t l\u1ea1i m\u00ecnh. Khi c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 “kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng” x\u1ea3y ra, \u0111\u1eebng d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng “th\u1ebf l\u1ef1c” b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i b\u00ecnh t\u0129nh, \u0111\u1eebng tr\u00f4ng ch\u1edd v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u k\u1ef3 di\u1ec7u s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi “v\u0169ng b\u00f9n”. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i cu\u1ed9c thi n\u00e0o c\u0169ng c\u00f3 “gi\u1ea3i khuy\u1ebfn kh\u00edch” n\u00ean b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm ch\u1ea5m d\u1ee9t mong \u0111\u1ee3i v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng s\u1edbm h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n

2. C\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i. Ch\u1ec9 b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u0103ng l\u01b0\u01a1ng, th\u0103ng ch\u1ee9c hay \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t chi\u1ebfc xe h\u01a1i th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi n\u00e0y s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra theo \u0111\u00fang \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i khi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5u \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n

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N\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1eb7c nhi\u00ean ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n ch\u1ecbu s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Khi b\u1ea1n h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi “nh\u1eefng b\u01b0\u1edbc ti\u1ebfp theo t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m l\u00e0 g\u00ec?”<\/em>, “nh\u1eefng r\u00e0o c\u1ea3n n\u00e0o s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n tr\u00ean h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf ch\u00fang?”<\/em> v\u00e0 “li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i s\u1ebd m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1eabn t\u1edbi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i?”<\/em><\/p>\n

3. Ai c\u0169ng th\u00edch b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. V\u00ec suy ngh\u0129 n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, t\u1eed t\u1ebf, \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng tr\u1edf n\u00ean “\u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t” so v\u1edbi ph\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do x\u00e1c \u0111\u00e1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch cho \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi “n\u00ean” th\u00edch b\u1ea1n th\u00ec cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u k\u1ebft th\u00fac m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Khi b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd th\u00edch b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n ng\u1eebng n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd; b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u1ee7 c\u00e1c d\u1eabn ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh. Thay v\u00ec k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd th\u00edch b\u1ea1n, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung gi\u00e0nh l\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

4. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 v\u00ec l\u00fd do n\u00e0y, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean tr\u00e2n tr\u1ecdng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd hay b\u1edfi v\u00ec \u00fd ki\u1ebfn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n qu\u00e1 hay l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

\"Cu\u1ed9c
Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng s\u1ebd th\u00edch b\u1ea1n<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i coi n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang h\u1ecd, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1ch t\u01b0 duy kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, h\u00e3y d\u1eebng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m khi c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng \u00fd v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i ra v\u00e0 d\u1eebng \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 duy nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00fang (v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n). Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea3i ph\u00e1p m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

5. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i<\/h2>\n

Kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a v\u1ee5 ph\u1ea3i l\u1eafng nghe. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mong \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u2013 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n y\u00eau c\u1ea7u ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u00f5 ng\u1eef c\u1ea3nh hay gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch c\u00e1c thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p “ch\u1ec9 m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng” th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ph\u1edbt l\u1edd. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu n\u1ed9i dung mu\u1ed1n truy\u1ec1n t\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng v\u00e0 s\u1ebd ch\u1eb3ng ai hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n cho t\u1edbi khi b\u1ea1n d\u00e0nh th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n

6. “T\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i”<\/h2>\n

Nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u1edf tr\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mong \u0111\u1ee3i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m. N\u1ebfu th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, h\u00e3y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh b\u1ea1i v\u00e0 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 l\u00fac b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 tin r\u1eb1ng v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 tin kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i bi\u1ebfn mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

7. “V\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac”<\/h2>\n

\"Cu\u1ed9c
\u0110\u1eebng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ec1n v\u1eefng<\/span><\/em><\/p>\n

Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00fa v\u1ecb v\u00e0 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i h\u01a1n trong ng\u1eafn h\u1ea1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 mang \u0111\u1ebfn cho b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. Qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong ch\u00fang ta mong \u0111\u1ee3i m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai (ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u0103ng ch\u1ee9c) \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac thay v\u00ec t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u s\u00e2u h\u01a1n l\u00fd do th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi, bu\u1ed3n ch\u00e1n.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ho\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng vui th\u00ec cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 khao kh\u00e1t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

8. “T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i c\u00f4 \u1ea5y\/anh \u1ea5y”<\/h2>\n

C\u00f3 duy nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0m “h\u1ecd” thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t gi\u00fap m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd khao kh\u00e1t v\u00e0 cung c\u1ea5p nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 mu\u1ed1n thay \u0111\u1ed5i l\u00e0 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng kh\u00f3. Ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 “l\u1eafp” \u00fd ch\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong khi c\u1ea3 hai ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed3ng \u0111i\u1ec7u n\u00e0o c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u00edch c\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp c\u1eadn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd. B\u1ecf ngay k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng n\u00e0y \u0111i. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd, kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap h\u1ecd “s\u1eeda ch\u1eefa” ngo\u1ea1i tr\u1eeb ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd. Thay v\u00ec nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, h\u00e3y v\u00e2y quanh b\u1ea1n b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 suy ngh\u0129 bi quan k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n xu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

K\u1ebft<\/h2>\n

Tin r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap cho kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf c\u00e1c k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng “kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng ai” ra kh\u1ecfi h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi \u2013 s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 ph\u1ea3n \u00e1nh li\u1ec7u r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang c\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c. Khi x\u00e9t \u0111\u1ebfn vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau th\u00ec n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng tin t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ebd th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40074"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40074"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40074\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40074"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40074"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40074"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}