{"id":40090,"date":"2023-12-10T01:52:38","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:52:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/4-bai-hoc-ve-ky-nang-song-ma-nguoi-lon-co-the-hoc-duoc-tu-tre-nho.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T07:56:26","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T07:56:26","slug":"4-bai-hoc-ve-ky-nang-song-ma-nguoi-lon-co-the-hoc-duoc-tu-tre-nho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/4-bai-hoc-ve-ky-nang-song-ma-nguoi-lon-co-the-hoc-duoc-tu-tre-nho.html","title":{"rendered":"4 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc v\u1ec1 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n khi l\u1ea5y l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n hay m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c. H\u1ecd m\u1ea3i m\u00ea \u0111i t\u00ecm c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eebng tr\u1ea3i hay tham gia c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n v\u1edbi mong mu\u1ed1n g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i cho h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ngu\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c cho m\u00ecnh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 hay bi\u1ebft. N\u00f3 \u1edf ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eaft, xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n tr\u00e0n tr\u1ec1 nh\u1ef1a s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u, ph\u1ea3i tinh t\u1ebf v\u00e0 kh\u00e9o l\u00e9o m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ngu\u1ed3n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng l\u1edbn \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec xa l\u1ea1, “t\u00e0i s\u1ea3n” r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u1ea5y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 nh\u1eefng em b\u00e9 ng\u00e2y th\u01a1, h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean v\u00e0 tinh ngh\u1ecbch.<\/p>\n

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Trong khi ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng th\u00ec ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i d\u1ea1y cho ta bi\u1ebft \u00fd ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi – Angela Schwindt.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Theo Erik Wilson \u2013 nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp v\u00e0 CEO c\u1ee7a Spotify th\u00ec tr\u1ebb em ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ngu\u1ed3n t\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 theo \u0111u\u1ed5i v\u00e0 chinh ph\u1ee5c m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Tr\u00ean trang Addicted2Success, Wilson c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i vi\u1ebft chia s\u1ebb 4 b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc tham kh\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n

1. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1<\/h2>\n
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T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 tr\u1ebb em \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 v\u1eabn l\u00e0 ngh\u1ec7 s\u0129 khi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh – Pablo Picasso.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Tr\u1ebb em c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec3m r\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 l\u1ea1 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd thi\u1ebfu c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn, c\u1ea3m t\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u01b0 trong \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “l\u1eadp tr\u00ecnh” s\u1eb5n b\u1ed9 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 ch\u1edd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi! “T\u1ea1i sao con chim bi\u1ebft bay?”, “T\u1ea1i sao n\u01b0\u1edbc bi\u1ec3n l\u1ea1i m\u1eb7n?”, “T\u1ea1i sao b\u00f4ng hoa c\u00f3 m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf?”<\/em>… Nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi “t\u1ea1i sao” ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ebft v\u00e0 ch\u00fang v\u1eabn s\u1ebd th\u1eafc m\u1eafc cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi “v\u1eeba \u00fd” nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

\"Kh\u00e1m<\/p>\n

Kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta khi m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean s\u1ebd m\u1edd nh\u1ea1t d\u1ea7n n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ea5y khi c\u00f2n \u0111i h\u1ecdc, ai c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t th\u00edch t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ebfn khi \u0111i l\u00e0m, l\u1eadp gia \u0111\u00ecnh… d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta l\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i v\u00e0 lu\u00f4n s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng “s\u1ef1 b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n”, “thi\u1ebfu th\u1eddi gian” \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u1ee5y bi\u1ec7n cho s\u1ef1 l\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebfng \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb em th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd ng\u1eebng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd lu\u00f4n th\u1ea5y \u1edf con c\u00e1i m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Duy tr\u00ec m\u1ed9t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u00edch kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft th\u00eam m\u00e0 c\u00f2n m\u1edf ra nhi\u1ec1u c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 v\u01b0\u01a1n t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n ng\u1eebng kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1, ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, ng\u1eebng suy ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 “t\u1ea1i sao” th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3m b\u1edbt th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u0169ng t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t \u0111i nh\u1eefng c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 \u1edf ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

2. Kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 ph\u1ea1m sai l\u1ea7m<\/h2>\n

Khi quan s\u00e1t m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng l\u00e0m m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ch\u00fang th\u1eed l\u00e0m, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y tr\u1ebb r\u1ea5t ki\u00ean tr\u00ec.<\/p>\n

\"Kh\u00e1m<\/p>\n

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B\u00e9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1eed c\u1ed9t d\u00e2y gi\u00e0y h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m l\u1ea7n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng “nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n” (v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n). Tuy nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang v\u1eabn s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m \u0111i l\u00e0m l\u1ea1i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n, th\u1eed h\u1ebft l\u1ea7n n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ebfn l\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c cho \u0111\u1ebfn khi l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i bao nhi\u00eau l\u1ea7n c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 do tr\u1ebb ch\u01b0a nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang \u0111ang c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, ch\u01b0a ch\u1ecbu \u00e1p l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng xung quanh v\u00e0 ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ec3 cho sai l\u1ea7m k\u00ecm h\u00e3m khao kh\u00e1t “th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng” c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u0169ng m\u1edf l\u00f2ng v\u1edbi th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i theo c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb em th\u00ec ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e0nh qu\u1ea3 h\u01a1n n\u1eefa c\u1ea3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n l\u1eabn s\u1ef1 nghi\u1ec7p.<\/p>\n

3. D\u0169ng c\u1ea3m<\/h2>\n
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L\u00f2ng d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 l\u00fac n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn \u2013 Pablo Picasso.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

Tr\u1ebb s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng nh\u1ea3y xu\u1ed1ng h\u1ed1 s\u00e2u hay leo l\u00ean m\u00e1i nh\u00e0 d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 leo l\u00ean hay xu\u1ed1ng. M\u1eb7c cho \u00f4ng b\u00e0, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 th\u00f3t tim nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 l\u00e0m m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 quan t\u00e2m m\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ebfn h\u1eadu qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

\"Kh\u00e1m<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 li\u1ec1u l\u0129nh trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00f2ng d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd s\u1ee3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a x\u1ea3y ra. H\u00e3y d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m theo \u0111u\u1ed5i m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 gan d\u1ea1 th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 c\u1ea7n gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 t\u1ed1 ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0y. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u00eam \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc.<\/p>\n

4. Kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea1i \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 l\u1edbn<\/h2>\n

M\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n n\u1eefa. Tuy nhi\u00ean, nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng d\u00e1m ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “\u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1” v\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ee3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m n\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c s\u1ee3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh “shock” v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\"Kh\u00e1m<\/p>\n

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Tr\u1ebb em ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3. N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng tin, h\u00e3y th\u1eed h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb xem ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ai v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i th\u1ed1t l\u00ean r\u1eb1ng “sao m\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u01a1 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1eady? Ngay c\u1ea3 m\u00ecnh c\u00f2n ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ec1 d\u00e1m ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn?”<\/em><\/p>\n

C\u00f4ng ch\u00faa, phi h\u00e0nh gia, b\u00e1c s\u0129, ca s\u0129, n\u1eef t\u1ed5ng th\u1ed1ng hay m\u1ed9t c\u1ea7u th\u1ee7 n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng…. Li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n \u2013 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 cho m\u00ecnh?<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng ng\u1ea1i ng\u00f9ng \u01b0\u1edbc m\u01a1 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, b\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay kh\u00f4ng khi b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a t\u1eebng c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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