{"id":40092,"date":"2023-12-10T01:52:41","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:52:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/khong-ruou-khong-cafe-trong-15-thang-va-day-la-4-dieu-tuyet-voi-toi-nhan-duoc.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T07:56:14","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T07:56:14","slug":"khong-ruou-khong-cafe-trong-15-thang-va-day-la-4-dieu-tuyet-voi-toi-nhan-duoc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/khong-ruou-khong-cafe-trong-15-thang-va-day-la-4-dieu-tuyet-voi-toi-nhan-duoc.html","title":{"rendered":"Kh\u00f4ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, kh\u00f4ng cafe trong 15 th\u00e1ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 4 \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c th\u00ec cho \u0111\u1ebfn h\u00f4m nay, t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a h\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdt r\u01b0\u1ee3u hay caf\u00e9 n\u00e0o trong v\u00f2ng 15 th\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i tr\u00ean Facebook v\u00e0 Twitter t\u00f2 m\u00f2 r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 “cai” \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady v\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec m\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd chia s\u1ebb cho c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

H\u01a1n 1 n\u0103m kh\u00f4ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, kh\u00f4ng caf\u00e9, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc r\u1ea5t qu\u00fd gi\u00e1.<\/p>\n

1. T\u00f4i ti\u1ebft ki\u1ec7m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 1.000 USD m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng<\/h2>\n

Sau 2 th\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb khi b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u d\u1eebng u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 “th\u00eam” 1.000 USD trong t\u00e0i kho\u1ea3n ng\u00e2n h\u00e0ng. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 con s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i t\u00ednh to\u00e1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i s\u1ed1ng \u1edf New York. V\u1edbi 1.000 USD tr\u00edch ra \u0111\u1ec3 u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u m\u1ed7i th\u00e1ng ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 33 USD \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u00eau x\u00e0i cho lo\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ed3 u\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Gi\u1ea3 s\u1eed, t\u00f4i u\u1ed1ng 2 \u2013 3 ly cocktail (kho\u1ea3ng 10 USD\/ly kh\u00f4ng t\u00ednh ti\u1ec1n tip), c\u1ed9ng th\u00eam vi\u1ec7c thi tho\u1ea3ng mua v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i chai r\u01b0\u1ee3u, t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u00eau \u0111\u1ebfn 1.000 USD.<\/p>\n

\"R\u01b0\u1ee3u<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi\u1ec7n r\u01b0\u1ee3u n\u1eb7ng m\u1edbi u\u1ed1ng v\u1eady nh\u01b0ng h\u00e3y tin t\u00f4i, u\u1ed1ng 1 ho\u1eb7c 2 ly r\u01b0\u1ee3u m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y \u1edf M\u1ef9 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n

Ngo\u00e0i ra, \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 u\u1ed1ng caf\u00e9 hay u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u1ea7n su\u1ea5t \u0103n ngo\u00e0i c\u0169ng th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean h\u01a1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f3i, b\u1ea1n mua \u0111\u1ed3 \u0103n v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ti\u00eau v\u01b0\u1ee3t qu\u00e1 s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n h\u00e0ng th\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n

2. \u00cdt “bu\u00f4n chuy\u1ec7n” h\u01a1n<\/h2>\n

N\u1ebfu c\u00f3 th\u1ee9 g\u00ec thay \u0111\u1ed5i khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 “s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i” khi t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 ki\u00eang caf\u00e9 v\u00e0 r\u01b0\u1ee3u.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i nhi\u1ec1u n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi v\u00ec s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i ng\u1eebng caf\u00e9 hay ng\u1eebng u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 “m\u1eabu m\u1ef1c” \u2013 ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ee5ng \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdt r\u01b0\u1ee3u. “Kh\u00f4ng, m\u1ed9t ly c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c!” – t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

Khi m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea3o t\u00f4i u\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd, g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi m\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 “kh\u00f4ng” b\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n t\u00e1n g\u1eabu v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb say be b\u00e9t.<\/p>\n

\"R\u01b0\u1ee3u<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ec9 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o t\u1ed1i \u0111a trong v\u00f2ng 1 gi\u1edd. \u0110\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3ng ch\u00fa \u00fd (Attention Span) c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi t\u00f4i t\u1ef1 bi\u1ebfn m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb say m\u1ec1m.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch ti\u1ec7c t\u00f9ng. D\u1eebng u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u c\u0169ng gi\u00fap t\u00f4i \u0111i ra ngo\u00e0i \u00edt h\u01a1n v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi l\u00e0 “l\u1ed1i s\u1ed1ng” say x\u1ec9n d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111ang bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t d\u1ea7n trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i. N\u00f3 gi\u00fap t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 m\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “t\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n” \u0111a ph\u1ea7n ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c duy tr\u00ec b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean \u0111i u\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

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“\u0110i nh\u1eadu th\u00f4i”<\/em> l\u00e0 c\u00e2u n\u00f3i \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n s\u00e2u trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng sau c\u00e1c bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 “ch\u1ec9 to\u00e0n r\u01b0\u1ee3u \u0111\u00f3” th\u00ec chuy\u1ec7n g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra: nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb say m\u1ec1m v\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1eabn l\u1eddi n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

3. Ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n<\/h2>\n

Lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf r\u01b0\u1ee3u ra kh\u1ecfi ch\u1ebf \u0111\u1ed9 \u0103n \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n ch\u1ea5t l\u01b0\u1ee3ng gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 t\u00f4i r\u1ea5t r\u00f5 r\u1ec7t. \u00dd c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 “ch\u00ecm v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7” m\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u1ee7 ngon th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn s\u1ebd ch\u00ecm v\u00e0o gi\u1ea5c ng\u1ee7 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n v\u1edbi 1 ho\u1eb7c 2 ly bia\/r\u01b0\u1ee3u nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 ngon nh\u01b0 mong \u0111\u1ee3i.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ng\u1ee7 ngon h\u01a1n v\u00e0 t\u00f4i th\u1ee9c d\u1eady v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u01a1n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, c\u1ea3 bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n; ngay c\u1ea3 khi t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 u\u1ed1ng 2 c\u1ed1c bia v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i t\u1ed1i, t\u00f4i c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 t\u00ed s\u1ee9c n\u00e0o v\u00e0o s\u00e1ng h\u00f4m sau c\u1ea3 (n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn \u0111ang \u1edf \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i 20 th\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y).<\/p>\n

4. Kh\u00f4ng caf\u00e9, t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u00edt c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 kh\u1ee7ng ho\u1ea3ng h\u01a1n<\/h2>\n

\"R\u01b0\u1ee3u<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb mang t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Tuy nhi\u00ean, ng\u1eebng s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng caf\u00e9 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u01b0 gi\u00e3n h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y – u\u1ed1ng nhi\u1ec1u caf\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng, lo l\u1eafng v\u00e0 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi h\u1ec7 ti\u00eau h\u00f3a. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0o m\u00f9a h\u00e8 t\u00f4i u\u1ed1ng tr\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1 v\u00e0 m\u00f9a \u0111\u00f4ng l\u00e0 tr\u00e0 \u1ea5m.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng “ra ngo\u00e0i u\u1ed1ng caf\u00e9” l\u00e0 h\u00e0nh vi c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft th\u01b0\u1edfng th\u1ee9c caf\u00e9 th\u1eadt s\u1ef1. T\u00f4i l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn v\u1eabn tham gia c\u00f9ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng thay caf\u00e9 b\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9c u\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3i chung, t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u1edbi quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 mong mu\u1ed1n quay tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u hay caf\u00e9 l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i gi\u1ed1ng t\u00f4i. N\u1ebfu c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac h\u01a1n khi u\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean t\u1eeb b\u1ecf.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i thay \u0111\u1ed5i th\u00f3i quen c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00ec s\u1ef1 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 v\u00e0 r\u1ed3i, t\u00f4i nh\u1eadn th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 t\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi t\u00f4i m\u00e0 th\u00f4i. Gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e2y, t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 nghi\u1ec7n m\u1ed7i Internet!<\/p>\n

V\u1ec1 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3<\/span>: Tobias l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a Semplice \u2013 m\u1ed9t n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf portfolio cho c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0 host c\u1ee7a ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh NTMY. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, anh l\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u00f3m thi\u1ebft k\u1ebf t\u1ea1i Spotify v\u00e0 l\u00e0 th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean ban gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c c\u1ee7a AIGA New York.<\/em><\/p>\n

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