{"id":40094,"date":"2023-12-10T01:52:46","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:52:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/21-dieu-ban-khong-nen-noi-trong-buoi-gap-go-lan-dau.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T07:54:43","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T07:54:43","slug":"21-dieu-ban-khong-nen-noi-trong-buoi-gap-go-lan-dau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/21-dieu-ban-khong-nen-noi-trong-buoi-gap-go-lan-dau.html","title":{"rendered":"21 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i trong bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Cho d\u00f9, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c hay g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 m\u1ed9t v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong qu\u00e1n c\u00e0 ph\u00ea th\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u khi g\u1eb7p c\u1ef1c k\u1ef3 quan tr\u1ecdng v\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Darlene Price<\/strong> – Ch\u1ee7 t\u1ecbch t\u1eadp \u0111o\u00e0n Well Said v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n “Well Said! Presentations and Conversations That Get Results<\/em><\/strong>” (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch l\u00e0 “N\u00f3i hay! Thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh v\u00e0 h\u1ed9i tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea1t hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3<\/em><\/strong>“) c\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: “S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb ng\u1eef kh\u00f4ng l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu c\u1ea9n tr\u1ecdng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng x\u1ea5u ngay l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00e0 c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 tin c\u1eady, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn ngh\u1ec1 nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n sau n\u00e0y”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Suy<\/em><\/p>\n

B\u00e0 Price khuy\u00ean r\u1eb1ng khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y lo l\u1eafng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i nhanh h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u01a1n th\u1ebf, n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft, ai trong s\u1ed1 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng m\u1eafc sai l\u1ea7m khi giao ti\u1ebfp \u00edt nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n ho\u1eb7c nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. V\u1eady h\u00e3y nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i n\u00f3i s\u1eb5n trong \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec3 khi g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi quen s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean:<\/p>\n

“T\u00f4i gh\u00e9t c\u00f4ng ty n\u00e0y” hay “\u00d4ng ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t g\u00e3 ng\u1ed1c”<\/h2>\n

Price n\u00f3i: “\u1ea4n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ea7u x\u1ea5u s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u1edb m\u00e3i. Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean n\u00f3i ch\u00fang \u1edf trong m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng kinh doanh v\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed1t trong bu\u1ed5i g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3 hay m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec h\u00e3y trao \u0111\u1ed5i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft ch\u00fang, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 qu\u1ea3n tr\u1ecb nh\u00e2n l\u1ef1c \u2013 ch\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n xa l\u1ea1 v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n”<\/em>.<\/p>\n

\"Suy<\/p>\n

“B\u1ea1n ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao nhi\u00eau?”<\/h2>\n

S\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n h\u1ecd ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

B\u00e0 \u1ea5y n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: “S\u1ebd r\u1ea5t th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 v\u00e0 m\u1ea5t l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 khi h\u1ecfi ch\u00fang trong l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n bi\u1ebft hay ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u00f2 m\u00f2 th\u00ec thay v\u00ec h\u1ecfi tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp h\u1ecd h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ch\u00fang \u1edf m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 trang m\u1ea1ng nh\u01b0 Glasdoor, PayScale, Salary.com”.<\/em><\/p>\n

” Xin l\u1ed7i t\u00f4i \u0111ang b\u1eadn”<\/h2>\n

T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1eadn? Theo nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng Barbara Pachter<\/strong> – m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ph\u00e9p t\u1eafc v\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n “Nh\u1eefng quy t\u1eafc c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft trong kinh doanh<\/strong>” \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi trang Business Insider r\u1eb1ng: “N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n xin l\u1ed7i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh th\u00ec h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c r\u1ed3i sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 th\u01b0\u1eddng? Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n n\u00ean n\u00f3i: ‘Xin l\u1ed7i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 r\u1ea3nh kh\u00f4ng?’.”<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

\"Suy<\/em><\/p>\n

“Anh\/ch\u1ecb b\u1ecf phi\u1ebfu cho ai?”<\/h2>\n

Trong quy lu\u1eadt chung v\u1ec1 nghi th\u1ee9c x\u00e3 giao, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb – \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u1ea1i th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea7u c\u1eed.<\/p>\n

B\u00e0 Price n\u00f3i: “Khi b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 tin v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea3ng ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, \u1ee9ng c\u1eed vi\u00ean hay c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1eebng n\u00ean v\u1eadn \u0111\u1ed9ng \u1edf n\u01a1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t nh\u00f3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang th\u00ec h\u00e3y c\u00f9ng th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a c\u00e1c s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n v\u00e0o. Tr\u00e1nh g\u00e2y tranh c\u00e3i, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n, ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111o\u00e1n<\/em>.”<\/p>\n

Thay v\u00ec, th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n th\u00ec nh\u1eefng g\u00ec c\u1ea7n tranh lu\u1eadn l\u00e0 c\u1eadp nh\u1eadt c\u00e1c th\u00f4ng tin m\u1edbi nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

“B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tin v\u00e0o Ch\u00faa kh\u00f4ng?”<\/h2>\n

Hi\u1ec3n nhi\u00ean, ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n

B\u00e0 Price cho bi\u1ebft: “D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ea t\u00edn hay kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec \u1edf l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean h\u1ecfi h\u1ecd c\u00f3 tin t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng, tr\u1eeb khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u00e0ng gi\u00e1o s\u0129”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“T\u00f4i l\u00e0 gay\/th\u1eb3ng”<\/h2>\n

B\u00e0 Price kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh: “N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng, c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i t\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n”<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 khuynh h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea5y kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed, n\u00f3 c\u00f2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c coi l\u00e0 qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i t\u00ecnh d\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

\"Suy<\/p>\n

“B\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 con khi n\u00e0o?”<\/h2>\n

Trong khi th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi khi c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng mang thai th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 duy\u00ean. N\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn.
“H\u01a1n n\u1eefa, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y (d\u00f9 \u0111\u00fang hay sai) th\u00ec n\u00f3 v\u1eabn qu\u00e1 nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m khi \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u0111\u1ebfn trong l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean. Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ch\u00fang th\u00ec h\u00e3y n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 chuy\u00ean m\u00f4n li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ng\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p ho\u1eb7c m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch kinh doanh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/em>“<\/p>\n

“\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3”<\/h2>\n

N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f9ng gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft ch\u00fang l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ki\u1ec3u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Lynn Taylor<\/strong> – m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia v\u1ec1 m\u00f4i tr\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n ” Tame Your Terrible Office Tyrant: How to Manage Childish Boss Behavior and Thrive in Your Job<\/strong>” (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: “Ch\u1ebf ng\u1ef1 s\u1ef1 chuy\u00ean ch\u1ebf v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng: C\u00e1ch ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 tr\u1ebb con v\u00e0 th\u0103ng ti\u1ebfn trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c<\/em>“) tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi trang Business Insider r\u1eb1ng: “N\u1ebfu c\u00e1c b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 t\u1ef1 tin th\u00ec t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t n\u00ean tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ebfn”. <\/em><\/p>\n

“B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nghe th\u1ea5y … kh\u00f4ng?”<\/h2>\n

Vicky Olive<\/strong> – t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch “Bad Bosses, Crazy Coworkers & Other Office Idiots<\/strong>” v\u00e0 “Power Sales Words”<\/strong> c\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: “Chuy\u1ec7n ng\u1ed3i l\u00ea m\u00e1ch l\u1ebbo s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi nhi\u1ec1u chuy\u1ec7n<\/em>“.
Chuy\u1ec7n ng\u1ed3i l\u00ea m\u00e1ch l\u1ebbo s\u1ebd l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean x\u1ea5u h\u01a1n trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Rosalinda Oropeza Randall<\/strong> – chuy\u00ean gia v\u1ec1 ph\u00e9p quy t\u1eafc v\u00e0 l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1 – l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n “Don’t Burp in the Boardroom<\/strong>” (t\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch l\u00e0 “\u0110\u1eebng \u1ee3 h\u01a1i trong ph\u00f2ng h\u1ecdp”) nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf: “\u0110o\u00e1n xem ai s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea5u khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang mang ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ra b\u00e0n t\u00e1n<\/em>.”<\/p>\n

\"Suy<\/p>\n

“T\u1edb th\u00edch v\u00e1y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n”<\/h2>\n

Price khuy\u00ean r\u1eb1ng: “Tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi nh\u1eadn x\u00e9t \u200b\u200bv\u1ec1 v\u1ebb b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u1ed3 d\u00f9ng c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c – ngay c\u1ea3 khi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 mang \u00fd t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u2013 trong l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang ch\u1ed7. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd, h\u00e3y c\u1ea9n th\u1eadn nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i.”<\/em><\/p>\n

D\u1ef1a v\u00e0o c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 ch\u1ee9c v\u1ee5 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c, c\u00e1ch an to\u00e0n nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0a ra \u00fd ki\u1ebfn v\u1ec1 to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u1eeb khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

“Thay v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u00e3y \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u1eddi khen ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u01b0: “T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t th\u00edch b\u00e0i thuy\u1ebft tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n” ho\u1eb7c ” Ch\u00fac m\u1eebng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc ch\u1ec9 ti\u00eau \u0111\u1ec1 ra” ho\u1eb7c “K\u1ef9 n\u0103ng qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd d\u1ef1 \u00e1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u cho \u0111\u1ed9i m\u00ecnh.”<\/em><\/p>\n

“T\u00f4i \u0111ang ly d\u1ecb”<\/h2>\n

B\u00e0 Price c\u0169ng l\u01b0u \u00fd r\u1eb1ng: “N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n th\u00ec h\u00e3y chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh – nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n kh\u00f4ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p. Tr\u00e1nh nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n c\u1ee7a c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n khi b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ho\u1eb7c trong c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn kinh doanh n\u00f3i chung”.<\/em><\/p>\n

N\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghi ng\u1edd v\u1ec1 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

“T\u00f4i ngh\u0129 …”<\/h2>\n

Trong m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p, b\u1ea1n d\u00f9ng c\u1ee5m t\u1eeb “T\u00f4i ngh\u0129” <\/em>c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn.<\/p>\n

Pachter<\/strong> c\u00f3 n\u00f3i: “Khi n\u00f3i ‘T\u00f4i n<\/em>gh\u0129’ c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea1t nh\u00f2a”<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 g\u00ec, h\u00e3y n\u00f3i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp nh\u01b0: “Cu\u1ed9c h\u1ecdp s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00fac 3 chi\u1ec1u.”<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Suy<\/em><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

‘T\u00f4i th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i’<\/h2>\n

B\u00e0 Taylor<\/strong> n\u00f3i: “Quan tr\u1ecdng l\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c cao, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u00f5 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 v\u00e0 \u00fd th\u1ee9c l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“B\u1ea1n tr\u00f4ng kh\u00e1c so v\u1edbi khi nh\u00ecn tr\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i”<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1eebng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng hay b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i v\u00ec th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng.
B\u00e0 Price c\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: “M\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean, th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng hay b\u1ed1i r\u1ed1i v\u00ec th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 mong \u0111\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n d\u1ec5 m\u1eafc”.<\/em><\/p>\n

“B\u1ea1n c\u00e1 t\u00ednh\/ xinh \u0111\u1eb9p \/ \u0111\u00e1ng h\u01a1n t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ea5y”<\/h2>\n

C\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng qu\u00e1 th\u1ea5p v\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u00ec l\u1ea1i v\u01b0\u1ee3t xa ch\u00fang. Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi khen n\u00e0y s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn cho h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

\"Suy<\/p>\n

“B\u1ea1n bao nhi\u00eau tu\u1ed5i?”<\/h2>\n

Ch\u1eafc h\u1eb3n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecdc \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y khi c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o h\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c c\u0169ng l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1.<\/p>\n

“Th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt”<\/h2>\n

Barbara Pachter<\/strong> – m\u1ed9t chuy\u00ean gia v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ph\u00e9p quy t\u1eafc v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a “The Essentials of Business Etiquette<\/strong>” n\u00f3i th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng: S\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt ngay l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd b\u0103n kho\u0103n r\u1eb1ng “C\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i l\u00e0 sai?”<\/em><\/p>\n

“C\u00f3 l\u1ebd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nghe X n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt”<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1eebng ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 tin \u0111\u1ed3n n\u00e0o r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan tr\u1ecdng (c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00fang – nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y), v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho \u0111\u1ebfn b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, h\u1ecd v\u1eabn nghe g\u00ec v\u1ec1 tin \u0111\u1ed3n ….<\/p>\n

\"Suy<\/p>\n

“B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m gi\u00fap t\u00f4i m\u1ed9t vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng?”<\/h2>\n

B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng y\u00eau c\u1ea7u h\u1ecd gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

“T\u00f4i … t\u00f4i … t\u00f4i …”<\/h2>\n

B\u00e0 Price n\u00f3i th\u00eam: “Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n n\u00ean d\u00f9ng tr\u00e1nh trong b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean”.<\/p>\n

B\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp r\u1eb1ng: “Dorothy Sarnoff nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf ch\u00fang ta r\u1eb1ng, ‘I’ l\u00e0 ch\u1eef nh\u1ecf nh\u1ea5t trong b\u1ea3ng ch\u1eef c\u00e1i, do \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng bi\u1ebfn n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u1eeb l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t trong v\u1ed1n t\u1eeb v\u1ef1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n’. ‘Kh\u00f4ng ai \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ed1ng tr\u1ecb m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n hay n\u00f3i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n anh\/ch\u1ecb \u1ea5y, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1eb7p<\/em> “<\/p>\n

G\u1ee3i \u00fd th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng: \u0110\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n l\u1ea5y t\u00f4i<\/em> l\u00e0m trung t\u00e2m, h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1eafng nghe. “L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o ng\u00e0nh k\u1ebf to\u00e1n?” “\u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn Atlanta?” “B\u1ea1n tin l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c quan tr\u1ecdng trong ng\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nghi\u1ec7p c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang t\u00f4i ch\u1ee9?”<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00e0 “Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u00edch c\u1ef1c trong l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 trong t\u1eebng l\u1eddi ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i,” “N\u1ebfu Emily Post l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang th\u00ec ph\u01b0\u01a1ng thu\u1ed1c hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1eadp trung v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1edfi v\u00ec,” h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi l\u1ed7i l\u1ea7m trong cu\u1ed9c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n l\u00e0 do s\u1ef1 thi\u1ebfu c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc. “<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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