{"id":40124,"date":"2023-12-10T01:53:50","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:53:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/muon-con-sau-nay-thanh-cong-cac-bac-cha-me-nen-thuc-hien-10-dieu-nay.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T07:47:51","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T07:47:51","slug":"muon-con-sau-nay-thanh-cong-cac-bac-cha-me-nen-thuc-hien-10-dieu-nay","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/muon-con-sau-nay-thanh-cong-cac-bac-cha-me-nen-thuc-hien-10-dieu-nay.html","title":{"rendered":"Mu\u1ed1n con sau n\u00e0y th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 n\u00ean th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n 10 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y"},"content":{"rendered":"
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L\u00e0m cha m\u1eb9, ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c an to\u00e0n, h\u1ecdc gi\u1ecfi v\u00e0 sau n\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m n\u00ean nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi.<\/p>\n

Trong khi kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0o cho vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap con c\u00e1i th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng sau n\u00e0y th\u00ec m\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y, m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u00e0i y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 m\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho tr\u1ebb khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ch\u00fang mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 10 \u0111i\u1ec3m chung c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f3 con th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tham kh\u1ea3o.<\/p>\n

1. H\u1ecd d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0<\/h2>\n

“N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eeda b\u00e1t th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m thay ch\u00fang”<\/em>, Julie Lythcott-Haims \u2013 c\u1ef1u tr\u01b0\u1edfng khoa ph\u1ee5 tr\u00e1ch sinh vi\u00ean n\u0103m nh\u1ea5t t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Stanford v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch “How To Raise A Adult”<\/em> (T\u1ea1m d\u1ecbch: L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 nu\u00f4i con tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh?) \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t bi\u1ec3u trong s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n TED Talks Live.<\/p>\n

“Do \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m trong c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. M\u1ed7i ch\u00fang ta bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 l\u00e0m t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Nu\u00f4i<\/p>\n

Lythcott-Haims tin r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb bi\u1ebft l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3m h\u01a1n b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, th\u1eed th\u00e1ch kh\u1eafc nghi\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n

K\u1ebft lu\u1eadn n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u00fat ra d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean Harvard Grant Study \u2013 m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u theo chi\u1ec1u d\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh trong th\u1eddi gian kh\u00e1 d\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

Chia s\u1ebb v\u1edbi T\u1ea1p ch\u00ed Tech Insider, Harvard Grant Study c\u0169ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh “vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u1eb7t nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed5 r\u00e1c hay t\u1ef1 g\u1ea5p qu\u1ea7n \u00e1o s\u1ebd gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng”.<\/em><\/p>\n

2. D\u1ea1y cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i<\/h2>\n

C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eeb \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc bang Pennsylvania v\u00e0 \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Duke \u0111\u00e3 theo d\u00f5i h\u01a1n 700 tr\u1ebb tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9 t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i m\u1ea7m non cho t\u1edbi l\u00fac 25 tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra m\u1ed1i t\u01b0\u01a1ng quan \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 gi\u1eefa k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u1ea7m non so v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang khi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong 2 th\u1eadp k\u1ef7 sau \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u k\u00e9o d\u00e0i 20 n\u0103m n\u00e0y cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i nh\u01b0 h\u1ee3p t\u00e1c t\u1ed1t v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf, gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n, c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ef1 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang… c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m tr\u01b0\u1edbc 25 tu\u1ed5i nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trang b\u1ecb ho\u1eb7c thi\u1ebfu c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i – th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u nguy c\u01a1 ph\u1ea1m t\u1ed9i, b\u1ecb b\u1eaft gi\u1eef hay u\u1ed1ng r\u01b0\u1ee3u.<\/p>\n

Theo Kristin Schubert \u2013 gi\u00e1m \u0111\u1ed1c ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh t\u1ea1i Robert Wood Johnson Foundation \u2013 t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c t\u00e0i tr\u1ee3 cho nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng chia s\u1ebb tr\u00ean m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i b\u00e1o r\u1eb1ng “nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u0169ng cho th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c trang b\u1ecb cho tr\u1ebb c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng li\u00ean quan \u0111\u1ebfn ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t, nh\u1eadn d\u1ea1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n”.<\/em><\/p>\n

3. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng cao<\/h2>\n

S\u1eed d\u1ee5ng d\u1eef li\u1ec7u t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee3t kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t qu\u1ed1c gia tr\u00ean 6.600 tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2001, gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 Neal Halfon (\u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc California) c\u00f9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nghi\u1ec7p \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng m\u00e0 c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh \u0111\u1eb7t ra cho con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng l\u1edbn t\u1edbi th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u m\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai.<\/p>\n

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\"Nu\u00f4i<\/p>\n

“C\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 xem \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch gi\u00fap con h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau b\u1ea5t k\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n kinh t\u1ebf gia \u0111\u00ecnh”.<\/em><\/p>\n

K\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 t\u1eeb c\u00e1c b\u00e0i ki\u1ec3m tra chu\u1ea9n h\u00f3a c\u0169ng c\u1ee7ng c\u1ed1 th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng: 57% tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea1t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 k\u00e9m nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng ch\u00fang s\u1ebd v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc (nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady), trong khi 96% tr\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea1t k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cao nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc (v\u00e0 b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang c\u0169ng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady).<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u1ec1 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc kh\u00e1c: Hi\u1ec7u \u1ee9ng Pygmalion (l\u1eddi ti\u00ean \u0111o\u00e1n t\u1ef1 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c) \u00e1m ch\u1ec9 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi mong \u0111\u1ee3i \u1edf m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c. Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi (ho\u1eb7c ch\u00ednh ta) ngh\u0129 ta th\u00f4ng minh hay ngu d\u1ed1t th\u00ec h\u1ecd s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ta theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 h\u1ecd ngh\u0129. N\u1ebfu ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed nh\u01b0 th\u1ec3 ta th\u00f4ng minh hay ngu d\u1ed1t th\u00ec ta s\u1ebd h\u00e0nh x\u1eed v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed l\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Do v\u1eady, nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ti\u00ean \u0111o\u00e1n ban \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ed7ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh hi\u1ec7n th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n

Trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb th\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9.<\/p>\n

4. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/h2>\n

Theo m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Illinois th\u00ec tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh li\u00ean t\u1ee5c x\u1ea3y ra xung \u0111\u1ed9t, m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn \u2013 cho d\u00f9 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ly h\u00f4n hay ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1c c\u00e3i v\u00e3 nh\u1ecf th\u00ec ch\u00fang c\u0169ng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n theo chi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra v\u00e0 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u00f2a thu\u1eadn.<\/p>\n

Robert Hughes Jr \u2013 gi\u00e1o s\u01b0, tr\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ed9 ph\u1eadn ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n con ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Illinois c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u tr\u00ean nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 kh\u1ea3o s\u00e1t cho th\u1ea5y 4 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ed1ng c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi b\u1ed1\/m\u1eb9 (gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u01a1n th\u00e2n) ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u00f3 xung \u0111\u1ed9t.<\/p>\n

5. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 tr\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ed9 h\u1ecdc th\u1ee9c cao h\u01a1n<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eeb n\u0103m 2014 c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Sandra Tang (\u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Michigan) cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecdc h\u1ebft ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00e0nh t\u00edch nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

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\"Nu\u00f4i<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u theo d\u00f5i 14.000 tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb khi h\u1ecdc m\u1ea7m non t\u1eeb n\u0103m 1998 cho \u0111\u1ebfn n\u0103m 2007 ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1eb9 c\u00f2n tr\u1ebb (sinh con khi m\u1edbi 18 tu\u1ed5i ho\u1eb7c \u00edt h\u01a1n) c\u00f3 \u00edt kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u1ea5p h\u1ecdc ph\u1ed5 th\u00f4ng v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

6. H\u1ecd d\u1ea1y con h\u1ecdc to\u00e1n t\u1eeb s\u1edbm<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t ph\u00e2n t\u00edch v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2007 ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi 35.000 tr\u1ebb m\u1eabu gi\u00e1o tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp n\u01b0\u1edbc M\u1ef9, Canada v\u00e0 Anh cho th\u1ea5y ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc co tr\u1ebb t\u1eeb s\u1edbm c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng l\u1ee3i th\u1ebf r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

“T\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb s\u1edbm – giai \u0111o\u1ea1n m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ebfn tr\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1edbi c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 con s\u1ed1, s\u1ed1 th\u1ee9 t\u1ef1 v\u00e0 c\u00e1c thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef to\u00e1n h\u1ecdc c\u01a1 b\u1ea3n – l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng b\u00ed \u1ea9n m\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n nay \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3”<\/em>, Greg Duncan – \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 v\u00e0 c\u0169ng l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Northwertern cho bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

7. H\u1ecd t\u1ea1o m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u t\u1eeb n\u0103m 2014 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 tham gia c\u1ee7a 243 ng\u01b0\u1eddi sinh ra trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh ngh\u00e8o kh\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c “s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m” trong 3 n\u0103m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh t\u00edch h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh h\u1edbn v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfn th\u1ee9c h\u1ecdc thu\u1eadt t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n khi \u0111\u1ea1t 30 tu\u1ed5i.<\/p>\n

Theo m\u1ed9t b\u00e1o c\u00e1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u0103ng tr\u00ean PsyBlog, nh\u1eefng ph\u1ee5 huynh nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i th\u01b0\u1eddng “\u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u00e0 k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi”<\/em>, \u0111\u1ed3ng th\u1eddi t\u1ea1o cho tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1ebb kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

8. H\u1ecd \u00edt b\u1ecb \u00e1p l\u1ef1c<\/h2>\n

Theo m\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u m\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u0103ng tr\u00ean t\u1edd The Washington Post b\u1edfi Brigid Schulte th\u00ec l\u01b0\u1ee3ng th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9 d\u00e0nh cho con c\u00e1i t\u1eeb 3 \u0111\u1ebfn 11 tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p nhi\u1ec1u cho h\u00e0nh vi, h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac hay th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb sau n\u00e0y. Th\u00eam n\u1eefa, c\u00e1c c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng hay lo l\u1eafng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c b\u1eadc ph\u1ee5 huynh c\u00f2n \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n

“Nh\u1eefng c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng c\u1ee7a b\u00e0 m\u1eb9, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi h\u1ecd c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong vi\u1ec7c s\u1eafp x\u1ebfp th\u1eddi gian d\u00e0nh cho con, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng x\u1ea5u t\u1edbi tr\u1ebb”<\/em> – Kei Nomaguchi – \u0111\u1ed3ng t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u v\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i h\u1ecdc t\u1ea1i \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Bowling Green State nh\u1eadn \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n

\"Nu\u00f4i<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e2y lan c\u1ea3m x\u00fac: n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n vui v\u1ebb, s\u1ef1 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd lan truy\u1ec1n cho b\u1ea1n, c\u00f2n n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd bu\u1ed3n, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng s\u1ebd truy\u1ec1n sang b\u1ea1n. V\u00ec th\u1ebf, n\u1ebfu cha m\u1eb9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ec7t m\u1ecfi hay th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, c\u1ea3m x\u00fac \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 truy\u1ec1n sang con c\u00e1i.<\/p>\n

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9. Tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 m\u1eb9 \u0111i l\u00e0m<\/h2>\n

Theo nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a Tr\u01b0\u1eddng kinh doanh Harvard th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c c\u00e1c b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111i l\u00e0m s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb sau n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

Con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111i l\u00e0m th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ki\u1ebfm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m \u1edf nh\u1eefng v\u1ecb tr\u00ed gi\u00e1m s\u00e1t v\u00e0 thu nh\u1eadp cao h\u01a1n \u2013 cao h\u01a1n 23% so v\u1edbi con g\u00e1i c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m n\u1ed9i tr\u1ee3.<\/p>\n

Con trai c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng b\u00e0 m\u1eb9 \u0111i l\u00e0m c\u0169ng c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c tr\u1ebb t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0nh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n 7,5 gi\u1edd\/ tu\u1ea7n v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m s\u00f3c tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 h\u01a1n 25 ph\u00fat l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c nh\u00e0 so v\u1edbi nh\u00f3m c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

10. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecba v\u1ecb kinh t\u1ebf x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i cao h\u01a1n<\/h2>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e1ng ti\u1ebfc l\u00e0 1\/5 tr\u1ebb em \u1edf M\u1ef9 l\u1edbn l\u00ean trong c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3i ngh\u00e8o v\u00e0 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn t\u1edbi ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

T\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n khi theo nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u Sean Reardon \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Stanford th\u00ec kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng gi\u1eefa nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh thu nh\u1eadp th\u1ea5p v\u00e0 thu nh\u1eadp cao \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi c\u00e1c tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra v\u00e0o n\u0103m 2001 l\u1edbn h\u01a1n kho\u1ea3ng 30% \u0111\u1ebfn 40% so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra 25 n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

Dan Pink \u2013 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 cu\u1ed1n “Drive” (\u0110\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c) cho r\u1eb1ng thu nh\u1eadp c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00e0ng cao th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec3m SAT c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i c\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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