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\u0110\u00e3 t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng khi g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o nh\u1edb n\u1ed5i b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho h\u1ecd m\u00e0 h\u00e3y tr\u00e1ch r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 thu h\u00fat ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/strong><\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta ai c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1edb, c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p v\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u1ebfn cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 trong l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

Tr\u00ean trang web Quora,<\/strong> m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi r\u1eb1ng “L\u00e0m th\u1ebf n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00ecnh trong l\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean?”<\/em> v\u00e0 c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 nhanh ch\u00f3ng nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i t\u1eeb nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan t\u00e2m, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 c\u00e1c chuy\u00ean gia t\u00e2m l\u00fd.<\/p>\n

D\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 9 th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt kh\u1ea3 thi nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng ngay t\u1eeb b\u00e2y gi\u1edd – m\u1ed7i khi g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 (ho\u1eb7c ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi quen) th\u00ec h\u00e3y \u00e1p d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng m\u1eb9o nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n nh\u00e9.<\/p>\n

1. Ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n<\/h2>\n

\"Giao<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee9ng im v\u00e0 m\u1eb7c cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ai c\u0169ng l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu ch\u1ec9 nghe nh\u01b0 v\u1eady th\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra b\u1edfi Julian Reisinger<\/strong> \u2013 chuy\u00ean gia v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a trang web Lovelifesolved.com.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t k\u1ebb ng\u1ed1c \u2013 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00ean ti\u1ebfng, \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, k\u1ec3 c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. H\u00e3y “show off” con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00e0 t\u1ea1o \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

2. Kh\u00f4ng qu\u00e1 th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 nh\u01b0ng v\u1eabn tham gia tranh lu\u1eadn v\u00e0 gi\u1eef th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 th\u1eb3ng th\u1eafn<\/h2>\n

H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u00e1nh vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi l\u1ebd mang t\u00ednh ch\u1ea5t tranh c\u00e3i, tr\u00e1i chi\u1ec1u \u2013 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 khi g\u1eb7p ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u2013 b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n “di\u1ec5n” th\u1eadt t\u1ed1t tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o c\u00f3 \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 ai c\u0169ng th\u00edch m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Tuy nhi\u00ean, n\u1ebfu th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1edb th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch l\u1ecbch s\u1ef1, nh\u1eb9 nh\u00e0ng sao cho kh\u00f4ng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb “t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng”, x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0 thi\u1ebfu t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng.<\/p>\n

\"Giao<\/p>\n

Theo Reisinger<\/strong>, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng ghi nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 “nh\u1ea5t”, ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u1ea5t, x\u1ea5u nh\u1ea5t, tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t ch\u1ee9 \u00edt khi l\u01b0u t\u00e2m nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 thu\u1ed9c h\u1ea1ng xo\u00e0ng. Minh ch\u1ee9ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ecdc xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t l\u1edbp hay h\u1ecdc sinh c\u00e1 bi\u1ec7t th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t h\u1ecdc sinh kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec3m g\u00ec n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt.<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

\u00d4ng c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ec1 xu\u1ea5t n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0a ra l\u00fd l\u1ebd, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn v\u00e0 r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng, ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu. B\u1edfi l\u1ebd, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00fa v\u1ecb, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1edb h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

3. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c th\u01b0\u1eddng<\/h2>\n

Ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng, v\u0103n h\u00f3a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c xem l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch l\u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eafn ch\u1eb7t h\u00ecnh \u1ea3nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Tuy nhi\u00ean, h\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y theo c\u00e1ch t\u00edch c\u1ef1c, bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi\/c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi h\u00e0i h\u01b0\u1edbc, b\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng thay v\u00ec nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi m\u1edf \u0111\u1ea7u quen thu\u1ed9c nh\u01b0 “B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 kh\u1ecfe kh\u00f4ng?”<\/em> hay “B\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ngh\u1ec1 g\u00ec?”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Giao<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb tr\u01b0\u1edbc ho\u1eb7c ai c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u00e0m ch\u00e1n. H\u01a1n th\u1ebf n\u1eefa, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n l\u1ea7n trong \u0111\u1eddi, v\u1eady th\u00ec t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft l\u00e0 h\u00e3y t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn h\u01a1n trong m\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

4. T\u0103ng s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin b\u1eb1ng ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3<\/h2>\n

Theo Rob Riker<\/strong> (ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1ng l\u1eadp ra blog The Social Winner<\/strong>), vi\u1ec7c s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng h\u00e0nh vi phi ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 s\u1ebd d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1edb h\u01a1n. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1i b\u1eaft tay \u0111\u1ea7y s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 tin, \u0111\u1ee9ng th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0 duy tr\u00ec giao ti\u1ebfp b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft (eye contact) c\u1ea3 trong khi nghe l\u1eabn n\u00f3i r\u00f5 r\u00e0ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch giao ti\u1ebfp kh\u00f4n ngoan nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

\"Giao<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

Khi \u0111ang n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c th\u00ec thay v\u00ec nh\u00ecn xu\u1ed1ng d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t, b\u1ea1n n\u00ean nh\u00ecn th\u1eb3ng v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u2013 v\u1ec1 ph\u00eda \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u01b0\u01a1ng. L\u00fac n\u00e0y, “b\u1ea1n \u0111ang k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi ch\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 l\u1ea9n tr\u00e1nh n\u00f3”.<\/em><\/p>\n

: 8 th\u1ee7 thu\u1eadt gi\u1ea3i m\u00e3 ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u01a1 th\u1ec3<\/strong><\/p>\n

Riker c\u0169ng b\u1ed5 sung th\u00eam r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n n\u00ean “l\u00e0m ch\u1ee7 kh\u00f4ng gian xung quanh b\u1ea1n”<\/em>. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ed3i \u1edf m\u00e9p gh\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 ng\u1ed3i r\u1ed9ng h\u01a1n hay t\u1ecf ra ng\u01b0\u1ee3ng ng\u00f9ng khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea1m v\u00e0o tay c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. H\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n

5. Th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i<\/h2>\n

“T\u00f4i h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd qu\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd qu\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd qu\u00ean c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ec3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi m\u1ed9t ai \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n h\u1ebft l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n

\"Giao<\/p>\n

Theo Reisinger, th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ec5 b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u1eafc l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 xin l\u1ed7i, “t\u1ea5n c\u00f4ng” c\u00e1i t\u00f4i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, k\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m \u0111\u1ed9ng, t\u1ecf ra th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n hay th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch hay \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n c\u1ea3m x\u00fac ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n

6. Nghe m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u0103m ch\u00fa<\/h2>\n

Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1eadp \u1edf tr\u00ean, h\u00e3y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nghe nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n n\u00f3i \u2013 tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ed3i v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe trong su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n. Ngo\u00e0i ra, m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u01b0u \u00fd n\u1eefa l\u00e0 trong khi t\u1eadp trung nghe, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea7n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 ch\u0103m ch\u00fa, suy ng\u1eabm v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

“Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau th\u00edch nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 lu\u00f4n th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 chu \u0111\u00e1o v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u00e2n th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 tr\u1ecdn v\u1eb9n”<\/em>, theo l\u1eddi nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o Becky Blanton<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

\"Giao<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y nghe c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f3 th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n khi \u0111a ph\u1ea7n, ch\u00fang th\u01b0\u1eddng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd n\u00f3i ti\u1ebfp theo v\u00e0 ch\u1edd c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1eaft l\u1eddi v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n quan \u0111i\u1ec3m c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ed3ng quan \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u1edbi Reisinger, Blanton c\u0169ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd nh\u1edb nh\u1eefng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i trong l\u00f2ng ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u1eafng nghe ai \u0111\u00f3 th\u00ec t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh quan tr\u1ecdng. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd nh\u1edb v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

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7. M\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi<\/h2>\n

Khi g\u1eb7p ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, h\u00e3y m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n b\u1ea1n \u0111ang h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, c\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 r\u1ea5t h\u00e0o h\u1ee9ng khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd. C\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y “vui l\u00e2y” v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

8. \u0110\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n ch\u00fang m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u00fa v\u1ecb<\/h2>\n

H\u00e3y th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n s\u1ef1 th\u00fa v\u1ecb c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n

Kevin Moriarty<\/strong> \u2013 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u00f9ng tr\u00ean trang Quora c\u0169ng chia s\u1ebb r\u1eb1ng: “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1edb, b\u1edfi v\u00ec khi g\u1eb7p ai \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecfi th\u0103m h\u1ecd, th\u1ee9 h\u1ecd quan t\u00e2m l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u00edch l\u00e0m g\u00ec. T\u00f4i c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0a ra c\u00e1c c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi ph\u00f9 h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec1 m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai \u0111ang th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn”.<\/em><\/p>\n

\"Giao<\/p>\n

“Ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i, khi \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 t\u00f4i quan t\u00e2m th\u00ec c\u00f3 v\u1ebb nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1eadp d\u1ecb c\u00f3 tr\u00ed th\u00f4ng minh v\u01b0\u1ee3t tr\u1ed9i \u2013 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n g\u00f3c nh\u00ecn c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 h\u01a1n l\u00e0 tu\u00e2n theo c\u00e1c quan \u0111i\u1ec3m truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng gi\u00fap t\u00f4i c\u00f3 ch\u00fat \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t trong m\u1eaft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, d\u00f9 r\u1eb1ng kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y c\u00f2n t\u00f9y thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 t\u1eebng th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m”.<\/em><\/p>\n

9. N\u00eau t\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi n\u00f3i<\/h2>\n

Vi\u1ec7c n\u00eau t\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

Theo Kara Ronin<\/strong> \u2013 chuy\u00ean gia v\u1ec1 k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn tr\u00ean trang Udemy<\/strong> th\u00ec “c\u00e1ch th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7u qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ghi nh\u1edb b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 d\u1eabn t\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd trong c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n”.<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t, t\u00ean l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 li\u00ean k\u1ebft v\u1edbi m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi. B\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 khi n\u00e0o nghe ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i t\u00ean m\u00ecnh th\u00ec ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 “\u00d4i, anh \u00fd\/c\u00f4 \u00fd ch\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i th\u00edch t\u00f4i l\u1eafm b\u1edfi v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f2n nh\u1edb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3 t\u00ean c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i l\u00e0 g\u00ec” <\/em>v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 n\u00f3i “Anh David \u00e0,….” <\/em>s\u1ebd th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 d\u1ec5 g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi n\u00f3i “N\u00e0y anh,….”<\/em> – c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i th\u01b0\u1eddng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat th\u00f4 l\u1ed7 v\u00e0 l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u0110\u00e3 t\u1eebng g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0ng khi g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o nh\u1edb n\u1ed5i b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ai, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 t\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? \u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ed5 l\u1ed7i cho h\u1ecd m\u00e0 h\u00e3y tr\u00e1ch r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 thu h\u00fat ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[452],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40177"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=40177"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/40177\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=40177"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=40177"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=40177"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}