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\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00e1n v\u1edbi m\u00e1c “c\u00f4 g\u00e1i x\u1ea5u x\u00ed nh\u1ea5t h\u00e0nh tinh” v\u00e0 v\u00f4 s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn \u0111\u1ea7y \u00e1c \u00fd, Lizzie Velasquez – c\u00f4 g\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea7y m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 khi\u1ebfn c\u1ea3 c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng m\u1ea1ng “n\u00f3ng l\u00ean” b\u1eb1ng b\u00e0i di\u1ec5n v\u0103n \u0111\u1ea7y c\u1ea3m h\u1ee9ng v\u00e0 tinh th\u1ea7n v\u01b0\u1ee3t l\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n

Lizzie Velasquez<\/strong> (27 tu\u1ed5i) \u2013 c\u00f4 g\u00e1i b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh khi v\u1eeba l\u1ecdt l\u00f2ng \u0111\u00e3 m\u1eafc ph\u1ea3i m\u1ed9t ch\u1ee9ng b\u1ec7nh c\u1ef1c hi\u1ebfm khi\u1ebfn c\u01a1 th\u1ec3 c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00edch tr\u1eef ch\u1ea5t b\u00e9o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu c\u00e2n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng, c\u00f4 c\u00f2n b\u1ecb m\u00f9 m\u1ed9t m\u1eaft.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0o n\u0103m 2012, nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ch\u00e2m ch\u1ecdc tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 ti\u1ec7n g\u00e1n cho c\u00f4 l\u00e0 “ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ee5 n\u1eef x\u1ea5u x\u00ed nh\u1ea5t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi”<\/em>. M\u1ed9t clip d\u00e0i 8 gi\u00e2y c\u1ee7a Lizzie \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u0103ng l\u00ean YouTube m\u00e0 c\u00f4 kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 hay bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 clip \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 thu h\u00fat h\u01a1n 4 tri\u1ec7u l\u01b0\u1ee3t xem v\u1edbi h\u00e0ng ng\u00e0n l\u1eddi b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed9c \u00e1c h\u01a1n n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Lizzie Velasquez chia s\u1ebb c\u1ea3m x\u00fac khi \u0111\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ch\u1ebf gi\u1ec5u c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi d\u00e0nh cho m\u00ecnh: “Nh\u1eefng b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 n\u1eafm \u0111\u1ea5m \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea5m th\u1eb3ng v\u00e0o m\u1eb7t t\u00f4i, n\u00f3 khi\u1ebfn t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c, s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i v\u00e0 c\u0103m gh\u00e9t ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh”.<\/em> Lizzie c\u0169ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng t\u1ef1 ti v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i \u01b0a nh\u00ecn nh\u01b0 bao ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf nh\u01b0ng, “c\u00f4 g\u00e1i x\u1ea5u x\u00ed” sinh n\u0103m 1989 \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t b\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c 2 cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch – Be Beautiful, Be You<\/strong> v\u00e0 Lizzie Beautiful<\/strong>, s\u1edf h\u1eefu k\u00eanh YouTube h\u01a1n 610.000 ng\u01b0\u1eddi theo d\u00f5i v\u00e0 trang Facebook c\u00f3 g\u1ea7n 796.000 fan nh\u01b0 l\u1eddi kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u1ec1 ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c s\u1ed1ng. G\u1ea7n \u0111\u00e2y nh\u1ea5t, Lizzie \u0111\u00e3 ra m\u1eaft b\u1ed9 phim t\u00e0i li\u1ec7u v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh mang t\u00ean A Brave Heart: The Lizzie Velasquez Story<\/strong> (M\u1ed9t tr\u00e1i tim d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m: C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n v\u1ec1 Lizzie Velasquez) \u2013 \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ai (k\u1ec3 c\u1ea3 nam l\u1eabn n\u1eef) c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

\"Lizzie<\/p>\n

T\u1ea1i sao Lizzie Velasquez c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? \u0110\u00f3 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ngh\u1ecb l\u1ef1c phi th\u01b0\u1eddng, tr\u00e1i tim khao kh\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ee9ng minh b\u1ea3n l\u0129nh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t con ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu kh\u1ea5t ph\u1ee5c tr\u01b0\u1edbc s\u1ed1 ph\u1eadn nghi\u1ec7t ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng xu\u1ea5t ph\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau mu\u1ed1n gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed3ng c\u1ea3nh. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee7a Lizzie Velasquez l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng ch\u1ee9ng cho v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p ch\u00e2n ch\u00ednh kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 n\u1eb1m \u1edf v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i \u01b0a nh\u00ecn, m\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f2n l\u00e0 tr\u00e1i tim v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n cao th\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/strong><\/p>\n

21 chia s\u1ebb tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi sau \u0111\u00e2y c\u1ee7a Lizzie Velasquez s\u1ebd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng b\u00e0i h\u1ecdc qu\u00fd b\u00e1u cho t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01a1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi xung quanh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

1. Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u lu\u00f4n x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t<\/h2>\n

Nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t b\u1ee5ng, ng\u00e2y th\u01a1 \u2013 qu\u1ea3 \u0111\u00fang v\u1eady. Lizzie \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau cho nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb ch\u00e2m ch\u1ecdc tr\u00ean m\u1ea1ng m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t c\u1ee9 m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do g\u00ec. Ngay khi ch\u00e0o \u0111\u1eddi, c\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ecdi v\u1edbi ngh\u1ecbch c\u1ea3nh v\u00e0 sau \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u00ec v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Lizzie \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecbu qu\u00e1 \u0111\u1ee7 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh r\u1ed3i, t\u1ea1i sao l\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu th\u00eam \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn n\u1eefa?<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng khi\u00eau kh\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 v\u1eabn b\u1ecb h\u1ecd khi\u00eau kh\u00edch. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u v\u1eabn x\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ebf n\u00ean, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn v\u00e0 ch\u1ed1ng ch\u1ecdi v\u1edbi n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

2. L\u1eadp t\u1ee9c nh\u1eadn ra th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u1ea5y nghi ng\u1edd ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh<\/h2>\n

Th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng, khi b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u00f4ng k\u00edch, nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 m\u00ecnh l\u00e0: “M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 sai \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u?”, “M\u00ecnh l\u00e0m g\u00ec sai sao?”, “M\u00ecnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi x\u1ea5u t\u1eeb khi n\u00e0o v\u1eady?”<\/em>…. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u ra ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh khi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u tin nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 nghi ng\u1edd v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n

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3. M\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1ef1 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng<\/h2>\n

\"Lizzie<\/p>\n

H\u00f4m nay, h\u00e3y t\u1ef1 h\u1ecfi m\u00ecnh: “B\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh th\u1ebf n\u00e0o?”, “thu\u1ed9c ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o”, “B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 lu\u00f4n cho r\u1eb1ng m\u00ecnh m\u1eadp kh\u00f4ng?”, “C\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4 g\u00e1i kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng?”, “R\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n ph\u1ea3i nam t\u00ednh h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat?”, “R\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed v\u1edbi ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh?”<\/em>…. H\u00e3y l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y th\u1eadt th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean, t\u1ef1 tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi han ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u0111ang c\u1ea7n g\u00ec, mu\u1ed1n g\u00ec, th\u00edch g\u00ec… Khi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

4. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1ng gi\u00e1 h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i hay ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

S\u1ef1 th\u1eadt l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

5. S\u1ef1 ch\u00e2m ch\u1ecdc ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n l\u00e0 do t\u00e2m l\u00fd b\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e0n<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1eebng h\u00f9a theo \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang l\u00e0m v\u1eady. Th\u1eadt d\u1ec5 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n th\u1ed5i ph\u1ed3ng s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00ean, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 “like”, “share” v\u00e0 “LOL” (laugh out loud) c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ea3m x\u00fac v\u00e0 ph\u1ea9m gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u00e2u s\u1eafc.<\/p>\n

6. B\u1ea5t lu\u1eadn th\u1ebf n\u00e0o th\u00ec vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi lu\u00f4n l\u00e0m h\u1ecd t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng<\/h2>\n

Ai c\u0169ng lu\u00f4n c\u1ed1 t\u1ecf ra c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1ec1 ngo\u1ea1i h\u00ecnh hay c\u00e1ch \u0103n m\u1eb7c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Nh\u01b0ng tr\u00ean th\u1ef1c t\u1ebf, ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ngh\u0129 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eeb l\u00fac n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng h\u1ec1 hay bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd c\u1ee9ng c\u1ecfi v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng sao khi b\u1ecb x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m. Kh\u00f4ng ai mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t v\u00e0 b\u1ecb gh\u00e9t. T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e1ng y\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau.<\/strong><\/p>\n

7. Th\u1eadt v\u00f4 \u00edch khi “\u0111\u1ed5 th\u00eam d\u1ea7u v\u00e0o l\u1eeda”<\/h2>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng, theo b\u1ea3n n\u0103ng b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n kh\u00e1ng c\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 ph\u1eabn n\u1ed9, mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n. Tuy nhi\u00ean, \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ch\u1eb3ng kh\u00e1c g\u00ec “\u0111\u1ed5 th\u00eam d\u1ea7u v\u00e0o l\u1eeda”. H\u00e3y suy ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t.<\/p>\n

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8. Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m theo r\u0103m r\u1eafp nh\u1eefng g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n<\/h2>\n

\u0110\u1eebng tin khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec l\u1edbn lao trong \u0111\u1eddi, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng “b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng” v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n n\u00ean thay \u0111\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ec3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean “ph\u1ed5 bi\u1ebfn” h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd “\u0111\u1ed5 khu\u00f4n” b\u1ea1n, cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n hay t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u1ec3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n m\u00f9 qu\u00e1ng v\u00ec nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb9p – x\u1ea5u, th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng – th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i, gi\u00e0u sang \u2013 ngh\u00e8o kh\u1ed5….<\/p>\n

Th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 v\u1ebb \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a b\u1eb1ng h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i m\u00e0 c\u00f2n b\u1edfi t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 t\u00e2m h\u1ed3n. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 g\u00e2y \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 l\u00e0m vui l\u00f2ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c m\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ec1 ra m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang trong ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh b\u1ea1n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

9. Th\u00e0nh t\u00edch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 tr\u1ea3 th\u00f9 ng\u1ecdt ng\u00e0o nh\u1ea5t<\/h2>\n

\"Lizzie<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 th\u00f9 gh\u00e9t c\u1ee7a nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gh\u00e9t b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00f2n b\u1ea9y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ti\u1ebfn xa h\u01a1n thay v\u00ec ph\u00e1 h\u1ee7y b\u1ea1n. H\u00e3y s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng ch\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1eb1ng ph\u1eb3ng h\u01a1n. “What doesn’t kill you make you stronger” \u2013 \u0110i\u1ec1u g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd khi\u1ebfn b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. Th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ebd l\u00e0 minh ch\u1ee9ng \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u so v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd ngh\u0129.<\/p>\n

10. Nh\u1eefng gian kh\u1ed5 trong \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n<\/h2>\n

Nh\u1eefng gian kh\u1ed5 trong \u0111\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ea3. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd m\u00e3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t “phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n” c\u0169. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 m\u00ecnh mong mu\u1ed1n. Gian kh\u1ed5 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0m ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd, t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, th\u00f4ng th\u00e1i h\u01a1n m\u00e0 c\u00f2n gi\u00fap ta hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

11. L\u00f2ng tin l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 v\u1ee1<\/h2>\n

M\u1ed9t gi\u00e2y ph\u00fat th\u00f4i hay m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i th\u00f4i c\u0169ng \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 v\u1ee1 ni\u1ec1m tin m\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi t\u1ea1o d\u1ef1ng.<\/p>\n

12. \u0110\u1eebng s\u1ee3 \u0111\u1eb7t ra m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau v\u00e0 m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc<\/h2>\n

Th\u1eadm ch\u00ed khi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi gh\u00e9t b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng tin b\u1ea1n th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u01a1 \u01b0\u1edbc. Lizzie \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1eebng theo \u0111u\u1ed5i gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong m\u1ecdi ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. C\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 ki\u00ean \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1edbi m\u1ee5c ti\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh thay v\u00ec t\u1eeb b\u1ecf. C\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfn l\u00ean, ki\u00ean tr\u00ec v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ecb tr\u00ed mong mu\u1ed1n – m\u1ed9t c\u1eed nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc, m\u1ed9t di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 t\u00edch c\u1ef1c v\u00e0 l\u00e0 t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a hai quy\u1ec3n s\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n

13. Gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 d\u1ef1a tin c\u1eady nh\u1ea5t d\u00f9 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o<\/h2>\n

B\u1edfi v\u00ec t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u00e0 v\u00f4 \u0111i\u1ec1u ki\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

\"Lizzie<\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/div>\n

14. Nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t s\u1ebd h\u1eefu \u00edch cho ch\u00fang l\u00e2u d\u00e0i<\/h2>\n

Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t quan tr\u1ecdng trong vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap con c\u00e1i x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc v\u1ec1 an to\u00e0n v\u00e0 y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1eeb khi ch\u00fang c\u00f2n nh\u1ecf. N\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng n\u00e0y s\u1ebd h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 tr\u1ebb trong su\u1ed1t ph\u1ea7n c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

15. Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb nh\u00e2n v\u0103n<\/h2>\n

Lizzie chia s\u1ebb, “ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111ang t\u1eb7ng t\u00f4i nh\u1eefng c\u00e1ch tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi b\u00ecnh lu\u1eadn \u00e1c \u00fd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi Lizzie m\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n c\u00f2n x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean \u0111ang b\u1ecb b\u1eaft n\u1ea1t \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ecdc tr\u00ean kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Tr\u1ebb em c\u1ea7n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y d\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 thi\u00eang li\u00eang c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u00f4n tr\u1ecdng n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

16. Bi\u1ebfn khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec3m m\u1ea1nh<\/h2>\n

Thay v\u00ec c\u1ed1 che \u0111\u1eady m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, Lizzie \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea3o ng\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 v\u00e0 bi\u1ebfn khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1eb7c \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Lizzie \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 t\u1ec7 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 c\u00f4 th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o. Lizzie cho r\u1eb1ng b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1eeb Ch\u00faa.<\/p>\n

Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 khi\u1ebfm khuy\u1ebft v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

17. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ed9c \u00e1c<\/h2>\n

Lizzie kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho nh\u1eefng video \u00e1c \u00fd tr\u00ean YouTube \u00e1m \u1ea3nh m\u00ecnh. C\u00f4 \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u1ee3t qua n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 h\u00e3i b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch xem \u0111i xem l\u1ea1i nh\u1eefng video \u0111\u00e1ng gh\u00e9t \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u1ee7ng khi\u1ebfp \u1edf m\u1ee9c nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Lizzie l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 cho nh\u1eefng g\u00ec l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f4 nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn c\u00f4 t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u00e1c \u00fd th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5i x\u1eed t\u1ec7 v\u1edbi m\u00ecnh n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

18. “H\u00e3y kh\u00f3c cho th\u1ecfa r\u1ed3i ng\u01b0\u1edbc m\u1eb7t l\u00ean, m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 h\u01b0\u1edbng \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00edch c\u1ef1c”<\/h2>\n

\"Lizzie<\/p>\n

B\u1edfi v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi chi\u1ebfn th\u1eafng l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ea5y.<\/p>\n

19. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00fd do<\/h2>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 l\u00fd do c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. T\u00f4i c\u0169ng v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

20. H\u00e3y lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft \u01a1n<\/h2>\n

D\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong b\u1ea5t k\u1ef3 ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh n\u00e0o, h\u00e3y lu\u00f4n bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. H\u00e3y nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi cho c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng h\u00ecnh dung \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t b\u1ee9c tranh \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

H\u00e3y bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00ec bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e2u cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7 h\u01a1n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. B\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch bi\u1ebft \u01a1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ec3 cho nh\u1eefng c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi t\u1ef1 t\u00ecm \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

21. Ch\u1ecdn c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac<\/h2>\n

B\u1edfi v\u00ec b\u1ea1n lu\u00f4n lu\u00f4n c\u00f3 quy\u1ec1n l\u1ef1a ch\u1ecdn. Ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng ai mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ecdn cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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