{"id":40215,"date":"2023-12-10T01:56:56","date_gmt":"2023-12-10T01:56:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/dung-voi-vang-phan-xet-nguoi-khac-khi-chua-hieu-ro-su-viec.html"},"modified":"2023-12-13T07:28:35","modified_gmt":"2023-12-13T07:28:35","slug":"dung-voi-vang-phan-xet-nguoi-khac-khi-chua-hieu-ro-su-viec","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/masterskills.org\/blog\/dung-voi-vang-phan-xet-nguoi-khac-khi-chua-hieu-ro-su-viec.html","title":{"rendered":"\u0110\u1eebng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi ch\u01b0a hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Don’t judge a book by its cover – \u0110\u1eebng \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o b\u00eca c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng v\u1eady. Ch\u00fang ta th\u01b0\u1eddng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean v\u1ebb ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd nh\u01b0ng \u00edt khi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c r\u1eb1ng, \u0111\u1eb1ng sau khu\u00f4n m\u1eb7t \u0111\u00f3, n\u1ee5 c\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, \u00e1nh m\u1eaft \u0111\u00f3 hay h\u00e0nh vi l\u1ea1 l\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7y r\u1eaby nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i lo toan, suy ngh\u0129, tr\u0103n tr\u1edf hay nh\u1eefng n\u1ed7i mu\u1ed9n phi\u1ec1n m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 h\u1ecd m\u1edbi hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u1ecd \u0111ang “di\u1ec5n” n\u1ed1t vai c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed1t. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng v\u1eady, c\u0169ng \u0111ang trong m\u1ed9t v\u1edf k\u1ecbch mang t\u00ean “cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi”, v\u1eady th\u00ec \u0111\u1eebng ch\u1ec9 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng g\u00ec h\u1ecd n\u00f3i ra hay h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t. Ch\u1eb3ng ai kh\u1eb3ng \u0111\u1ecbnh s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1i c\u01b0\u1eddi khi b\u1ecb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch, \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u0103n c\u1ee9.<\/p>\n

\"\u0110\u1eebng<\/p>\n

Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t. Ch\u00ednh v\u00ec v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng thi\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng l\u1ea7n v\u00ec qu\u00e1 v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a ra nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t x\u00e9t l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, khi\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean tr\u1ea7m tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n v\u00e0 cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, \u0111\u1ebfn khi nh\u1eadn ra s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00e1 mu\u1ed9n. C\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 l\u1eddi nh\u1eafc nh\u1edf d\u00e0nh cho m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi: \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 d\u1ef1a tr\u00ean suy ngh\u0129 ch\u1ee7 quan m\u00e0 h\u00e3y xem x\u00e9t tr\u00ean t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c ph\u01b0\u01a1ng di\u1ec7n.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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M\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed \u0111i du thuy\u1ebft t\u1eeb L\u1ed7 sang T\u1ec1 c\u00f3 d\u1eabn theo m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc nh\u1ea5t, trong \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 Nhan H\u1ed3i v\u00e0 T\u1eed L\u1ed9.<\/p>\n

Th\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, chi\u1ebfn tranh li\u00ean mi\u00ean, d\u00e2n ch\u00fang l\u1ea7m than, \u0111\u00f3i kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y tr\u00f2 Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed c\u0169ng l\u00e2m v\u00e0o ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. M\u1eb7c d\u00f9 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u00e0y c\u00f2n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ecbn \u0111\u00f3i, thi\u1ebfu n\u01b0\u1edbc nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t ai k\u00eau ca, than v\u00e3n. May m\u1eafn thay, khi \u0111\u1eb7t ch\u00e2n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5t T\u1ec1, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 h\u00e0o ph\u00fa t\u1eeb l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e3 nghe danh Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed \u0111em bi\u1ebfu th\u1ea7y tr\u00f2 m\u1ed9t \u00edt g\u1ea1o. Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed li\u1ec1n ph\u00e2n c\u00f4ng T\u1eed L\u1ed9 d\u1eabn c\u00e1c m\u00f4n sinh v\u00e0o r\u1eebng ki\u1ebfm rau, c\u00f2n Nhan H\u1ed3i th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn vi\u1ec7c th\u1ed5i c\u01a1m.<\/p>\n

Sau khi T\u1eed L\u1ed9 d\u1eabn nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0o r\u1eebng ki\u1ebfm rau, Nhan H\u1ed3i th\u1ed5i c\u01a1m \u1edf nh\u00e0 b\u1ebfp, c\u00f2n Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed n\u1eb1m \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch. \u0110ang l\u00fac ng\u1eabm ngh\u0129 t\u1eebng c\u00e2u ch\u1eef, m\u1ed9t ti\u1ebfp “c\u1ed9p” t\u1eeb nh\u00e0 b\u1ebfp v\u1ecdng l\u00ean khi\u1ebfn Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eeb ng\u1eebng \u0111\u1ecdc. Khi li\u1ebfc m\u1eaft nh\u00ecn xu\u1ed1ng, Kh\u1ed5ng t\u1eed th\u1ea5y Nhan H\u1ed3i t\u1eeb t\u1eeb m\u1edf vung, l\u1ea5y \u0111\u0169a x\u1edbi c\u01a1m cho v\u00e0o tay, n\u1eafm l\u1ea1i n\u1eafm nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 cho v\u00e0o m\u1ed3m. Th\u1ea5y v\u1eady, Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, ng\u1eeda m\u1eb7t l\u00ean tr\u1eddi m\u00e0 than r\u1eb1ng: “Chao \u00f4i! H\u1ecdc tr\u00f2 xu\u1ea5t s\u1eafc c\u1ee7a ta m\u00e0 l\u1ea1i \u0111i \u0103n v\u1ee5ng th\u1ea7y, v\u1ee5ng b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y \u01b0? Chao \u00f4i! Bao nhi\u00eau k\u1ef3 v\u1ecdng ta \u0111\u1eb7t v\u00e0o n\u00f3 th\u1ebf l\u00e0 tan th\u00e0nh m\u00e2y kh\u00f3i!”<\/em><\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t l\u00fac sau, T\u1eed L\u1ed9 c\u00f9ng c\u00e1c m\u00f4n sinh kh\u00e1c mang rau v\u1ec1 v\u00e0 sau khi lu\u1ed9c rau xong, t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 li\u1ec1n m\u1eddi Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed xu\u1ed1ng nh\u00e0 x\u01a1i c\u01a1m. Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed ng\u1ed3i d\u1eady v\u00e0 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng: “C\u00e1c con \u01a1i! Ch\u00fang ta \u0111i t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ea5t L\u1ed7 sang T\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng xa v\u1ea1n d\u1eb7m, th\u1ea7y r\u1ea5t m\u1eebng v\u00ec trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh \u0111\u00f3i kh\u1ed5 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y m\u00e0 c\u00e1c con v\u1eabn gi\u1eef \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng trong s\u1ea1ch,v\u1eabn y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f9m b\u1ecdc nhau v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t d\u1ea1 theo th\u1ea7y. H\u00f4m nay, ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ea5t T\u1ec1, th\u1eadt may m\u1eafn khi th\u1ea7y tr\u00f2 ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t b\u1eefa c\u01a1m, khi\u1ebfn th\u1ea5y ch\u1ea1nh l\u00f2ng nh\u1edb \u0111\u1ebfn qu\u00ea h\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 cha m\u1eb9…. th\u1ea7y mu\u1ed1n x\u1edbi m\u1ed9t b\u00e1t c\u01a1m \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00fang cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ea7y, c\u00e1c con b\u1ea3o c\u00f3 n\u00ean ch\u0103ng?<\/em><\/p>\n

T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c m\u00f4n sinh, tr\u1eeb Nhan H\u1ed3i \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u1eafp tay th\u01b0a: “D\u1ea1, th\u01b0 th\u1ea7y, n\u00ean \u1ea1”. Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed l\u1ea1i n\u00f3i: “Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft n\u1ed3i c\u01a1m n\u00e0y c\u00f3 s\u1ea1ch hay kh\u00f4ng?”<\/em><\/p>\n

L\u00fac b\u1ea5y gi\u1edd, Nhan H\u1ed3i l\u1ec5 ph\u00e9p n\u00f3i: “D\u1ea1 th\u01b0a th\u1ea7y, n\u1ed3i c\u01a1m n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ea1ch. Khi c\u01a1m ch\u00edn con m\u1edf vung ra xem th\u1eed c\u01a1m \u0111\u00e3 ch\u00edn \u0111\u1ec1u ch\u01b0a, ch\u1eb3ng may m\u1ed9t c\u01a1n gi\u00f3 tr\u00e0n v\u00e0o, b\u1ed3 h\u00f3ng v\u00e0 b\u1ee5i tr\u00ean nh\u00e0 r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng l\u00e0m b\u1ea9n c\u1ea3 n\u1ed3i c\u01a1m. Con \u0111\u00e3 nhanh tay \u0111\u1eady vung l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng k\u1ecbp. Sau \u0111\u00f3 con li\u1ec1n x\u1edbi l\u1edbp c\u01a1m b\u1ea9n ra, \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ee9t \u0111i nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i ngh\u0129: c\u01a1m th\u00ec \u00edt, anh em l\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f4ng, n\u1ebfu b\u1ecf l\u1edbp c\u01a1m b\u1ea9n n\u00e0y th\u00ec l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n \u0103n, anh em h\u1eb3n ph\u1ea3i \u0103n \u00edt l\u1ea1i. V\u00ec th\u1ebf cho n\u00ean con \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea1n ph\u00e9p th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 anh em, \u0103n tr\u01b0\u1edbc ph\u1ea7n c\u01a1m b\u1ea9n \u1ea5y, c\u00f2n ph\u1ea7n c\u01a1m s\u1ea1ch \u0111\u1ec3 d\u00e2ng th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 anh em …Th\u01b0a th\u1ea7y, nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 h\u00f4m nay con \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n c\u01a1m r\u1ed3i … b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, con xin ph\u00e9p kh\u00f4ng \u0103n c\u01a1m n\u1eefa, con ch\u1ec9 \u0103n ph\u1ea7n rau. V\u00e0 … th\u01b0a th\u1ea7y, n\u1ed3i c\u01a1m \u0111\u00e3 \u0103n tr\u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean c\u00fang n\u1eefa \u1ea1!”.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nghe Nhan H\u1ed3i n\u00f3i xong, Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed than r\u1eb1ng: “Chao \u00f4i! Th\u1ebf ra tr\u00ean \u0111\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng vi\u1ec7c ch\u00ednh m\u1eaft m\u00ecnh tr\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y r\u00e0nh r\u00e0nh m\u00e0 v\u1eabn kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00fang s\u1ef1 th\u1eadt! Chao \u00f4i! Su\u00fdt n\u1eefa th\u00ec Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed n\u00e0y tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb h\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ed3!”.<\/em><\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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V\u1eady n\u00ean, \u0111\u1eebng v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t hay ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c khi b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 v\u1ec1 h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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